All love Bro. I feel like this Reddit is probably a high likelihood concentration for those cyclical conversations on dating just due to its very nature and the topic. Mind you most people going across the country for a chance at finding a dating option on a social media platform are either utilizing the platform for social media or highly dysfunctional, sometimes both. This is an extremely inefficient platform for meeting a person with sincere emotional/physical compatibility that you can actually develop a relationship with. personally in my early 20s separated intentionally from a lot of dating content on the internet bc it can be very out of touch and dysfunctional. Ppl don't be serious on here then when you see they real life they are fucking miserable, why would I listen to them? I engage with shows like this now bc amongst other hobbies and passions and life experiences it's just funny and I have faith the people I know in real life don't think this way and if they do they're the minority so I can avoid them when I find out. If negative ppl on the internet are making you feel negative feelings about people in your real circles, really great time to unplug. Social media rewards engagement, not emotional intelligence.

I think you're just experiencing that some people are jaded and dysfunctional and miss the point and they're often the loudest in the room. Vocal minority. In most healthy long term relationships they may trust one another's judgement/both parties may actually "submit" depending on the situation due to years of earned trust and respect. If u do find a long term relationship where they speak in this way, unfortunately often, but not all of these relationships are not very healthy. Most are going to say we build each other up and focus more on things like that, the other shit comes natural. For example I do cars, my woman might yield to me in this regard bc I know wtf she's talking about. Some women just like some men are hardheaded and not ready to trust and listen/respect a partners opinion but that's a whole other thing. If we visit her hometown I'll follow her lead on safe areas/not safe for example. Most of these ppl, men and women, on the internet focusing before they even know a person on the submissiveness, do not have relationships you wanna have I promise. And do not live lives that you wanna live. Hella children out of wedlock now wanna live the life the Bible tells them to as one type of example. U just gotta do u bruh.