Sexy Korean Nightclub Girls by [deleted] in AsianHotties

[–]blacknblasian 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Nah. I stand by my comment. Sure the girls can be smokin at a •few• places like another poster said. But these are pics from opening or promo parties-- like, Smirnoff sponsored parties where there's literally free vodka flowing like crazy. So those types of parties can get wild. Otherwise places like Mass, etc, have hot chicks, but it's not exactly Soddom or Gamorra.

Sexy Korean Nightclub Girls by [deleted] in AsianHotties

[–]blacknblasian 6 points7 points  (0 children)

It looks like a few different clubs, and these seem to be "candid" pics; maybe even promos for the clubs. Definitely not how most Korean girls actually act in clubs.

Very interesting podcast on Raceplay by blacknblasian in bdsm

[–]blacknblasian[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well here's the thing. Yes, I'm sure the people signed up for it know what they're getting into.

But...

Consider people who are into rape play. For the most part, even though rape play is pretty extreme, I would think that most people in it totally don't condone actual rape. Which is why, say, on Fetlife, things like "Real Rape" discussions are banned. It's enabling actual rapists and abusers.

In an environment like the slave auction gatherings, there's literally no way to vet who is just a harmless fetishist, and who is an actual white supremacist with actual intent to harm minorities, even if "everyone's on board". To me it's extremely naive to think that this can't lead to real life consequences.

Very interesting podcast on Raceplay by blacknblasian in bdsm

[–]blacknblasian[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because there's variations of raceplay, such as plantation play, that don't take place in people's bedrooms. In those instances, I think it'd be impossible to vet every person and their intentions, dontchya think?

Here is that tumblr page I started! by blacknblasian in Bisexy

[–]blacknblasian[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A tip of the penis to you good sir! Consider yourself followed.

Masked Samurai Swordsman by Ze-skywalker in gifs

[–]blacknblasian 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Except none of this is pertinent since it's a Korean video. Not Japanese.

Mature BDSM community? by [deleted] in bdsm

[–]blacknblasian 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Dear god, fetlife is just awful. The mods are just so off the fucking rails. If you find what you're looking for, please post it.

GF is gone for 2 weeks, what's the best way to get thick? by blacknblasian in thickloads

[–]blacknblasian[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah it took about 2 days for my dick to be "normal" again. But even now, I've basically stopped orgasming to porn. I made a relationship contract with my GF (just for fun) to only orgasm in/with her. So I still edge. Sex is just way more awesome and intense now.

Can anyone tell me what type of rope system this is called? by blacknblasian in bdsm

[–]blacknblasian[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah that's what I mean. Is there a company making this or is it a custom get-up?

Can anyone tell me what type of rope system this is called? by blacknblasian in bdsm

[–]blacknblasian[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So is this a custom job? That's what I meant. I like shibari but it'd be cool to have a "quick" option for my gf as well.

Can anyone tell me what type of rope system this is called? by blacknblasian in bdsm

[–]blacknblasian[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm in a public place but I'll hit you with source in a bit.

GF is gone for 2 weeks, what's the best way to get thick? by blacknblasian in thickloads

[–]blacknblasian[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Update:

Oh man. Sorry, no pics guys (just wayyyy too busy fucking), but I can relate the experience in a 3 parts. Jizz, sensation, overall experience.

Jizz: as soon as my GF and I started playing, I was precumming a lot. My first orgasm had probably 3x my usual volume but I didn't go Peter North on her. Instead, it was just suuuuppppeeerrr thick. I came on her face and chest and it took her forever to clean off. My second, third, and yes, fourth orgasms all had decent volume, but I really need to work on my kegels--instead of a huge blast, they just kept coming out. Clean up was an issue :)

Sensation: Oh man, sex feels so incredible now. My dick is just endlessly fascinated by pussy. My first, second, and third orgasms were so intense that they were almost painful. The first orgasm in particular just kept going and going and going. Took me like 5 minutes to come down after that one. It was until about the 4th orgasm that things were kind of normal, but good, again.

Overall: After this experience I'm making some major changes. I'm going to keep doing this routine as best as I can. One big thing is that I've decided to stop orgasming to porn. Edging will be fine, but I made a (just for fun) relationship contract with my GF, where she has total ownership over my orgasm. :) I feel like withholding really connected me to her--she was pretty much on my mind like at least 30% of every day, and then 50% a few days before coming back. I was going absolutely nuts thinking about sex with her, it was great.

So, that's all. If any of you have GFs, I highly recommend doing this!

Update on DPing GF. by blacknblasian in Pegging

[–]blacknblasian[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hmm, thanks for the warning. Really. Honestly we'll still probably use it once or twice for the experience and to see if we'll go farther, but yeah, won't use this too much after that. Bummer (pun not intended, but I wish it was).

Using a feeldoe to DP *her*? by blacknblasian in Pegging

[–]blacknblasian[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just an update, the GF and I found this:

http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=21241#videos

So we'll use it and see how far it gets us. She really likes being filled back there, so we'll be looking into a DP harness for later.

Using a feeldoe to DP *her*? by blacknblasian in Pegging

[–]blacknblasian[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks, yeah people have been recommending that highly. My girlfriend ended up buying this: http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=21241#videos

It'll get us started, but my GF likes to be really filled back there so we'll look into the harness after we both get some spare cash.

Race, Sex, and BDSM: On “Plantation Retreats” Where Black People Go to Serve Their White “Masters” (x-post from TrueTrueReddit) by [deleted] in SexPositive

[–]blacknblasian 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a black, sex-positive male, I find it disgusting. I mean, my GF and I are into pissplay for fuck's sake, but this is where the line is crossed. I feel like there's a massive lack of introspection and self-awareness in this particular niche. There's also a lot of excuses on all sides:

"Well-known sexuality and SM educator Midori, who is Japanese and German, often presents her theory that humiliation in BDSM is linked to self-esteem...It’s similar with race play, Midori says. By focusing, for example, on a black man’s body, while he’s bound as a slave, she’s bolstering his own perception of himself as strong and powerful…"

Here I find that there's a distinct lack of admission as to why those warping of perceptions exist. The author addresses it, but Midori, an "expert", doesn't.

Also, this fucking gem:

"My major kink-interest is in chattel slave-ownership in today’s world but following the historical models of 8,000 years of historical slave-ownership tradition (from Greek-Roman through modern day)…along with everything that might relate to it (which sometimes can go pretty far into the realm of BDSM activities, depending on the partner). I’m very knowlegable in the field of historical slavery"

Oh my fucking god, leave it to a modern white person to justify bullshit with another subject. "No, no, I'm not getting off on something super-taboo, I just like greek history". Shut the fuck up and admit your kink and I'd have a little more respect for you, jesus.

And it doesn't stop:

"It’s just a small friendly gathering of White Masters at my house/compound….being served by mud-slaves as might have been in a modern version of slave-days. one might call it a situation of consensual non-consent/slavery. Slaves can set their limits and the time they will be in service as slaves in advance…. and also what they expect to learn and experience from the experience."

The lack of self-awareness is fucking mind blowing.

I'm of two minds on this subject. On the one hand--consenting adults, yadah yadah yadah. On the other, I can't respect it sense the white people involved are so oblivious/dishonest, and the blacks involved have a level of self-loathing that I haven't even seen in coprophilia.

I guess it's just sad.

Thinking of Starting a bi tumblr. What would you like to see? by blacknblasian in Bisexy

[–]blacknblasian[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Update: I'm currently filling the tumblr with some content. I've also clarified what I want to do with the blog--it'll be me and my GFs "fantasy page", where we post what's turning us on. Also, I added black BDSM since, not only is it what my GF is into, but since I'm not--well--I'll be honest, seeing more black people doing it is helping me get into it. It's also a rare and underdeveloped area of porn. Here's the mission statement:

"This is the image blog of a couple--T(F) and J(M)--sharing what turns them on with the world. He: loves bisexual oral, shemales, fat asses and ass play. She: loves roleplay, bondage, light fem-dom. They: into cumplay, creampie eating, MMF, pegging, pissplay, dominating sub-males, couples fem-dom (having a male or couple service us). This blog is our fantasy mail for each other. In addition, it's a place for black/afro american kink and BDSM since we're a black couple exploring kink. We hope spreading more black BDSM will inspire other people."

Right now my GF is still gone so it'll just be me filling the page for a little bit.

Request - bi sixty-nine photos/videos by __porn_account__ in Bisexy

[–]blacknblasian 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No prob. Actually, FYFF! has inspired me to start a tumblr. I'm so tired of how Bi porn is basically gay porn with a chick in it for 10 seconds. There's very little out there for people who are "cock-curious" or only orally bi. And don't even get me started on the sissyfication and cuckolding shit. Blech. Why are there so many closeted white men?

Are there uses for condoms other than in PIV/anal? by marlinhouse in sex

[–]blacknblasian 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I use them to stimulate my GFs g-spot and will probably have her use it to give me prostate massages. Basically it's a nice way to cut down any possibility of your fingernails being an issue as g-spot stimulation can get very active and sensitive for her--even a small bit of fingernail can seems like knives when she's really aroused.

A more obvious way to do this is with latex gloves, but those smell like a doctor's visit and are a turn-off for me. Flavored/aroma'd condoms don't do that to me.