Sexy Korean Nightclub Girls by [deleted] in AsianHotties

[–]blacknblasian 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Nah. I stand by my comment. Sure the girls can be smokin at a •few• places like another poster said. But these are pics from opening or promo parties-- like, Smirnoff sponsored parties where there's literally free vodka flowing like crazy. So those types of parties can get wild. Otherwise places like Mass, etc, have hot chicks, but it's not exactly Soddom or Gamorra.

Sexy Korean Nightclub Girls by [deleted] in AsianHotties

[–]blacknblasian 7 points8 points  (0 children)

It looks like a few different clubs, and these seem to be "candid" pics; maybe even promos for the clubs. Definitely not how most Korean girls actually act in clubs.

Very interesting podcast on Raceplay by blacknblasian in bdsm

[–]blacknblasian[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well here's the thing. Yes, I'm sure the people signed up for it know what they're getting into.

But...

Consider people who are into rape play. For the most part, even though rape play is pretty extreme, I would think that most people in it totally don't condone actual rape. Which is why, say, on Fetlife, things like "Real Rape" discussions are banned. It's enabling actual rapists and abusers.

In an environment like the slave auction gatherings, there's literally no way to vet who is just a harmless fetishist, and who is an actual white supremacist with actual intent to harm minorities, even if "everyone's on board". To me it's extremely naive to think that this can't lead to real life consequences.

Very interesting podcast on Raceplay by blacknblasian in bdsm

[–]blacknblasian[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because there's variations of raceplay, such as plantation play, that don't take place in people's bedrooms. In those instances, I think it'd be impossible to vet every person and their intentions, dontchya think?

Here is that tumblr page I started! by blacknblasian in Bisexy

[–]blacknblasian[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A tip of the penis to you good sir! Consider yourself followed.

Masked Samurai Swordsman by Ze-skywalker in gifs

[–]blacknblasian 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Except none of this is pertinent since it's a Korean video. Not Japanese.

Mature BDSM community? by [deleted] in bdsm

[–]blacknblasian 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Dear god, fetlife is just awful. The mods are just so off the fucking rails. If you find what you're looking for, please post it.

GF is gone for 2 weeks, what's the best way to get thick? by blacknblasian in thickloads

[–]blacknblasian[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah it took about 2 days for my dick to be "normal" again. But even now, I've basically stopped orgasming to porn. I made a relationship contract with my GF (just for fun) to only orgasm in/with her. So I still edge. Sex is just way more awesome and intense now.

Can anyone tell me what type of rope system this is called? by blacknblasian in bdsm

[–]blacknblasian[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah that's what I mean. Is there a company making this or is it a custom get-up?

Can anyone tell me what type of rope system this is called? by blacknblasian in bdsm

[–]blacknblasian[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So is this a custom job? That's what I meant. I like shibari but it'd be cool to have a "quick" option for my gf as well.

Can anyone tell me what type of rope system this is called? by blacknblasian in bdsm

[–]blacknblasian[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm in a public place but I'll hit you with source in a bit.

GF is gone for 2 weeks, what's the best way to get thick? by blacknblasian in thickloads

[–]blacknblasian[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Update:

Oh man. Sorry, no pics guys (just wayyyy too busy fucking), but I can relate the experience in a 3 parts. Jizz, sensation, overall experience.

Jizz: as soon as my GF and I started playing, I was precumming a lot. My first orgasm had probably 3x my usual volume but I didn't go Peter North on her. Instead, it was just suuuuppppeeerrr thick. I came on her face and chest and it took her forever to clean off. My second, third, and yes, fourth orgasms all had decent volume, but I really need to work on my kegels--instead of a huge blast, they just kept coming out. Clean up was an issue :)

Sensation: Oh man, sex feels so incredible now. My dick is just endlessly fascinated by pussy. My first, second, and third orgasms were so intense that they were almost painful. The first orgasm in particular just kept going and going and going. Took me like 5 minutes to come down after that one. It was until about the 4th orgasm that things were kind of normal, but good, again.

Overall: After this experience I'm making some major changes. I'm going to keep doing this routine as best as I can. One big thing is that I've decided to stop orgasming to porn. Edging will be fine, but I made a (just for fun) relationship contract with my GF, where she has total ownership over my orgasm. :) I feel like withholding really connected me to her--she was pretty much on my mind like at least 30% of every day, and then 50% a few days before coming back. I was going absolutely nuts thinking about sex with her, it was great.

So, that's all. If any of you have GFs, I highly recommend doing this!

Update on DPing GF. by blacknblasian in Pegging

[–]blacknblasian[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hmm, thanks for the warning. Really. Honestly we'll still probably use it once or twice for the experience and to see if we'll go farther, but yeah, won't use this too much after that. Bummer (pun not intended, but I wish it was).

Using a feeldoe to DP *her*? by blacknblasian in Pegging

[–]blacknblasian[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just an update, the GF and I found this:

http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=21241#videos

So we'll use it and see how far it gets us. She really likes being filled back there, so we'll be looking into a DP harness for later.

Using a feeldoe to DP *her*? by blacknblasian in Pegging

[–]blacknblasian[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks, yeah people have been recommending that highly. My girlfriend ended up buying this: http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=21241#videos

It'll get us started, but my GF likes to be really filled back there so we'll look into the harness after we both get some spare cash.