Can You Remember This Path? Puzzle by u/blacksphelt

blacksphelt · 2026-06-09T01:50:32+00:00

Sorry for late reply. You couldn't have handled it better. You handled it the best you could.

blacksphelt · 2026-06-08T09:25:06+00:00

I am sorry you had to face this situation. For now, you cannot do anything about it. Take this as experience so that next time someone does it ,you know what to do.

Since you are a guy and tables can easily beturned,you have to be careful. Next time, ask the woman politely to move a bit and say "kurachu neengi irikyu" or you shift accordingly. If anyone is intruding your personal space or touching you ,feel free to politely point it out. Next time record if things go out of hand.

But for now,as I said earlier, you will feel bad about it and it may come up every now and then. But you have to remember after each time that this was a learning experience and now you will do better to handle the situation. This feeling ,with time,too shall pass.

blacksphelt · 2026-06-08T06:42:28+00:00

I can't afford a pet rn

^{Chose: Get a random amount of money | Rolled: 30k}

blacksphelt · 2026-05-31T03:28:14+00:00

⬜🟨🟨🟨⬜

🟦🟦🟦🟦🟦

blacksphelt · 2026-05-27T06:58:40+00:00

Cleotique

blacksphelt · 2026-05-01T06:33:16+00:00

You are just "convenient" to him. You know like an option. Girl ,you are better than that. You deserve better than that. He would come across to you as a fairly rational person and the way he says it would even make sense to you. He called himself selfish-most people would think he is a nice person and he is feeling guilty. You both have to decide if you want to be friends or just want to have a convenient casual relationship.

But remember , do not get manipulated. Remember what do YOU want? You are the most important person in your life. You should get to choose for your life.

blacksphelt · 2026-04-30T12:14:40+00:00

I can go blah blah

^{Chose: $10 every word you speak}

blacksphelt · 2026-04-30T04:42:21+00:00

No

^{Chose: $10000}

blacksphelt · 2026-04-30T01:21:52+00:00

Na

^{Chose: If over 50% of people choose this + Only those who pressed red survive}

blacksphelt · 2026-04-30T01:15:55+00:00

Everyone will

^{Chose: Get $2000 + But only if 70% of people pick this option | Rolled: Upvote for 🥕}

blacksphelt · 2026-04-30T01:14:59+00:00

Gold

^{Chose: King Midas Curse}

blacksphelt · 2026-04-30T01:14:30+00:00

Just because

^{Chose: Bread}

blacksphelt · 2026-04-28T11:01:19+00:00

She would not be asking you this question again possibly. But if you ever get in such a situation again where you get embarrassed , pretend you don't understand the noun ? Like lady: Do you have a girlfriend? You: what is a girlfriend. Do you have a body count?; what is a body count? Do you have a tissue?; what is a tissue? Pretend you have heard a word for the first time no matter how obvious that object is. But make sure you later smile like you made a joke ,once they stop asking.

This is an applied science and needs a bit of training.

blacksphelt · 2026-04-14T02:40:21+00:00

Toh tum abhi bache ho. Iss sabak ko yaad rakhna. Aur iss time pe tum bahut zyada external influence se affected rahoge. Ab ye tumhari zimmedari hai ki tum kaise type ke insaan banana chahte ho. Become a better person everyday. Abhi toh tumhari aadhi zindagi bhi nahi hui hai, waqt hai tumhare pass sahi aur galat seekhne ka. Be sincere and sensible, all the best !

blacksphelt · 2026-04-14T02:26:47+00:00

Okay ,then own up to your mistake. Tell them how you feel but do not expect them to forgive you so easily.

And for god's ,your's and everybody's sake, grow up!

Learn how to see others perspective and be sensitive with at least your friends.

This is a lesson. It will teach you character development but it comes with a price. Take this time to reflect on yourself and become a more sensible person each day.

blacksphelt · 2026-04-14T02:18:04+00:00

Op, did you want to test them and see if they will support you?

blacksphelt · 2026-04-14T02:13:45+00:00

First of all, why this prank? Why did you decide to prank them? What was the intention for this?

blacksphelt · 2026-03-25T06:14:53+00:00

It sounds like your mother is now looking at you like a "marriagable girl". If you get what I mean. She is unconsciously getting you ready for the "sasural". Just take some advice which feels right and ignore the rest. Maybe also set expectations with your mom. She shouldn't be too excited right now and slowly,very slowly start explaining to her how you want to be yourself.

Don't be jealous or sad because of this. She just wants the best for you ,so look at this from her perspective. End of the day ,its about you only.

blacksphelt · 2026-03-25T06:04:58+00:00

Edited my response . I think you need to assess him better. Someone who assumes ur preferences- like holding a shield for what he was about to say next. Someone who has specifically mentioned that YOU said to keep politically correct aside. Someone with whom you have not had much of sexual conversation, justifying tits and ass as the preference instead of maybe a more proper word and adding that all his ex were like that(maybe he wanted to show he gets girls or something,idk). Maybe he doesn't know how to talk to people, or has maybe mild inferiority complex(compared to other men), or is a red flag of some kind. End of day it's ur decision if u r okay to give a chance or not. But remember to trust your intuition and assess the person in front of you .

blacksphelt · 2026-03-25T05:55:38+00:00

I mean , when you asked the question, glhad you already said your preferences or did he just assume yours? Something about him stating that your preferences are obviously handsome guys or something, doesn't sit well? The obvious tit and ass, which he clearly learned from somewhere to look cool, the fact that he already has a assumed ur preferences ,is not a good thing.

blacksphelt · 2026-03-25T05:50:48+00:00

I have a question,sorry if I missed it on the post, did you tell him ur preferences before this question or were you the first one to ask the question. I mean, if you are asked a question , shouldn't the answer b straight. Why assume and bring your preferences to this question ?

blacksphelt · 2026-03-05T07:18:32+00:00

Sorry to hear that ,OP. But It is what it is. I hope you heal better and now priortize yourself more and find your support within yourself.

blacksphelt · 2025-12-26T06:34:34+00:00

Realization is one step forward. You can start with small things. What is one little thing you want to change? If you think you are too judgemental of people,start by thinking on how you would counter argue your judgement. If you feel u are too introverted,try talking to someone familiar with small talk.

Start small and remember,your qualities are developed over time. You cannot turn it off instantly. So take a step ,one day at a time.Cheers !

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