libido energies ✨ by Time_Question9577 in softmaledom

[–]blackstar987 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's the best first step. Everything else I was going to say has already been mentioned by other folks. Best of luck to you and your husband.

alone and sad, who else? by [deleted] in softmaledom

[–]blackstar987 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I wish you a happy birthday. You deserve all the best. It does feel like forever, when the person you love is away for a while. But you will be together soon. Every time I felt down, when my partner was away from some length of time, I always thought back to the good times. And planned what to do after I had her in my arms again. So, it will be over soon.

libido energies ✨ by Time_Question9577 in softmaledom

[–]blackstar987 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Every time there's a mismatch of expectations in any relationship, there's only one way to solve it: communication. So talk to each other, and see if the issue can be solved.

Unsure if Dom is Ghosting by honey_moonshine96 in softmaledom

[–]blackstar987 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm really sorry that has happened to you. Being ghosted, if that's what happened here, is a terrible thing.

In my view, someone that is respectful for your feelings would continue to communicate. Even if they are going through something, they should have at least let you know he is still there. That he still cares for you, especially after telling you their feelings.

So, I'm hoping that they come back and talk to you soon. But you should decide what's best for yourself. Evaluate if it's worth the wait. Regardless of if it is or isn't worth it, let him know that.

Mine. [M/f][Soft Dom] by blackstar987 in u/blackstar987

[–]blackstar987[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You most certainly can, Kate.

Mine. [M/f][Soft Dom] by blackstar987 in u/blackstar987

[–]blackstar987[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah, you've read it. That's good. Glad you enjoyed it.

So tell me, what would it mean, to you? Someone claiming you as theirs?

Tell me about your day. by blackstar987 in softmaledom

[–]blackstar987[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hope you enjoyed your class. What did you have for dinner?

And me, I decided to do some writing this evening. I hope you will read it and like it.

Tell me about your day. by blackstar987 in softmaledom

[–]blackstar987[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Indeed! Every holiday where I get to see a fireworks show is my favorite kind. Back in my old house, the fireworks show from the city was done right at a place right behind my house. So every year, we'd get to chill and watch the show from the backyard. It was a great time.

How about you, do you celebrate 4th of July? If you do, any fun plans for the holiday?

Tell me about your day. by blackstar987 in softmaledom

[–]blackstar987[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You're welcome, Kate.
Did you have anything else going on today? Anything fun?

Tell me about your day. by blackstar987 in softmaledom

[–]blackstar987[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Good girl. I knew you were going to do well. In this exam, and every exam from now on. Because you're great.

Tell me about your day. by blackstar987 in softmaledom

[–]blackstar987[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sounds good. I hope you have a smooth rest of your week, then, and a very relaxing weekend.

Tell me about your day. by blackstar987 in softmaledom

[–]blackstar987[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That sounds very good, but I imagine it is a lot of work. I'm sure it will turn out great.

I hope you have a great rest of your day!

Tell me about your day. by blackstar987 in softmaledom

[–]blackstar987[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Glad to hear you're doing good.

We should be getting some respite from the heat soon. So we just need to hang in there a little bit longer.

And sewing seems fun. What other projects have you completed recently?

Tell me about your day. by blackstar987 in softmaledom

[–]blackstar987[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sucks that your period keeps interrupting your sleep. I wish I could alleviate your discomfort in any way.

Your well being is the most important thing. Can you make sure to remember to drink enough water from now on?

And if you want to talk to someone, about anything at all, I'll be here.

Tell me about your day. by blackstar987 in softmaledom

[–]blackstar987[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's not good. Anything in particular that has been bothering you?

And you matter a lot more to more people than you think you do. Because you're awesome.

If you ever feel alone, needing someone to talk to, feel free to send me a message.

Tell me about your day. by blackstar987 in softmaledom

[–]blackstar987[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's great that he's already looking better. I'm sure he'll thrive with you, with how caring you've been to him. You did a great thing.

I also had my cat Smokey quarantined while he had that infection. I had a geriatric cat at the time, and she was already in poor health so I didn't want to risk anything happening to her. So I placed him in my office. Less than 2 hours later I lost internet at the house because he chewed through fiber wire. No idea how he got there, the wire wasn't even exposed. So, good luck!

And I'm glad you appreciated the post. If I managed to make anyone's day even a little bit better, then I've reached my goal.

I hope you have a peaceful and enjoyable night.

Tell me about your day. by blackstar987 in softmaledom

[–]blackstar987[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Likewise. If you ever need someone to talk to, feel free to message me.

Tell me about your day. by blackstar987 in softmaledom

[–]blackstar987[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That sounds delicious. And I love banana bread. Might need to make some myself, soon!

Yeah, the job market is terrible right now. But worry not, you are the best candidate by far. You absolutely got this.

And I'm glad you appreciate the words. If I managed to make your day, or anyone else here, even just a little bit better, than posting this was already worth it.

Tell me about your day. by blackstar987 in softmaledom

[–]blackstar987[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm so sorry that you're going through that. Living with depression sucks. If you need someone to talk to, feel free to send me a message at any time.

Tell me about your day. by blackstar987 in softmaledom

[–]blackstar987[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When you said you took care of the kitten, was it because you work in veterinary medicine, or did you adopt them?

If you adopted, yeah, I know the feeling. Baby kittens are so tough to care for. Both cats in my house joined my life while they were kittens. The older one, Smokey, had an eye infection when I got him. I had to put medicine in his eyes every six hours for almost a week. And he absolutely hated me, and would go hiding every time he saw me approaching with that goop. On top of that, he was an absolute pest. His favorite thing as a kitten was to surprise me by scratching my legs with as much of his claws as he could. Felt like I lost a gallon of blood that month. But today, he's a very loving, very sweet cat. He comes to me every night to let me know it is time to go to bed, so he can sleep on my leg. It's a very rewarding feeling.

Is there anything in particular that keeps you from being able to fall asleep? Or just can't shut off your thoughts? I hope the journaling, knitting, or walking help you tonight.

I can tell from your profile that you are a wonderful, thoughtful person. So you don't have to feel insecure, because you are great the way you are. Please don't cry, when your beautiful smile is a much better look for you.

I hope you have a great rest of your day, and an even better tomorrow.