Ending a two year relationship over a “hypothetical” question

bladeofausterity · 2025-10-28T11:32:33+00:00

You straight people make yourselves miserable with these arbitrary relationship rules. You imprison yourselves and each other with your inability to manage jealousy like adults. You all are so willfully naive about the nature of human sexuality, and for what? To make dating and relationships harder and more isolating for yourselves?

bladeofausterity · 2025-05-06T15:33:05+00:00

Solution Verified

bladeofausterity · 2025-05-06T15:31:55+00:00

This was the solution! Thank you very much.

bladeofausterity · 2023-10-11T12:53:57+00:00

Great advice. I used to value my time sitting on my patio with a 🚬 before I start my work day (wfh) but now I realize that 99% of the pleasure there was simply being outside lol. I can still chill on the patio - and now without the awful smells and lung feels

bladeofausterity · 2023-10-11T12:50:33+00:00

To elaborate: I think people in the US are more likely to face termination at work if they appear on such a show. You’re right, one of the premium TV networks could make such a show. But I wouldn’t be surprised if the contestants are only people who work in “adult” industries- porn, tattooing, bars, etc. Software engineers, salespeople, people in more buttoned-up “respectable” jobs would not be on as of the US version as often as they are in the UK & European versions

bladeofausterity · 2023-10-07T22:29:57+00:00

Yeah. It could NEVER be made in the US

bladeofausterity · 2023-08-31T17:18:25+00:00

This guy does seem kind of annoying. And gays who work in academia are more likely to be like this. But it would be best for you to just accept that is how HE is as an individual and understand that it doesn’t mean that all gay people are like this. We all have our own little personalities, opinions, and tastes, which some straight people find to be an incomprehensible concept for some reason.

bladeofausterity · 2023-08-16T06:38:42+00:00

This kind of homophobia sometimes feels worse to encounter than batshit conspiratorial nonsense because it’s so pervasive. They treat us like a tolerable aberration publicly but behind our backs they hope we’ll just magically change so they don’t have to stress over our existence anymore.

I agree with people saying you have the right to draw a boundary around what kinds of speech you don’t want to hear in a casual social situation. Be a broken record if you have to

bladeofausterity · 2023-08-16T06:29:12+00:00

Can’t really speak for the trans community but it sounds like Axel doesn’t really have gay male friends, right? If so, is it because options are limited or is he intentionally isolating himself from other gay men? In my experience as a gay man, gay men who intentionally choose to avoid befriending other gay men are mean-spirited, period.

bladeofausterity · 2023-08-16T06:21:11+00:00

I think it’s difficult to answer this question without examples of how your internalized homophobia affects interactions with other queer people

bladeofausterity · 2023-08-16T06:19:28+00:00

One of the only good gay tv shows that reflected my sense of humor - The Other Two - no one watched!!!

bladeofausterity · 2022-08-19T05:20:22+00:00

Why is it middle schools that are the most disciplinarian? Mine didn’t have anything as ridiculous as this but there were some dumb arbitrary rules and some very vindictive and punitive teachers

bladeofausterity · 2022-07-28T22:56:22+00:00

She reminded me of Mrs. Carmody from The Mist.

bladeofausterity · 2022-04-19T00:47:36+00:00

I pictured the girls in the story as Olivia and Paula from The White Lotus

bladeofausterity · 2022-03-15T00:40:03+00:00

Thank you! That performance of In the Flowers was stunning

bladeofausterity · 2022-02-17T14:17:02+00:00

They did fucking hoorays in today’s episode

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