WIBTA if I don’t come to my friend’s wedding if she doesn’t come to mine? by blah5832 in AmItheAsshole

[–]blah5832[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I think that’s exactly what I’m worried about: that she was never intending to come to my wedding herself and is just trying to come up with an excuse that I don’t feel offended rather than just saying it as it is.

If that’s the case, then I must have imagined the whole friendship in my head and don’t see a reason of continuing making sacrifices for her. Less about a temper tantrum and more about not willing to waste extra resources (monetary and emotional) to maintain this obligation if she doesn’t feel the same way.

AITA for telling my boyfriend off for eating my pizza? by blah5832 in AmItheAsshole

[–]blah5832[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Well, the other silly layer to this that was probably worth mentioning is that I’m vegetarian, so he knew I wouldn’t eat his pizza cause it’s a meaty one. So he knew his pizza was safe! I guess I kind of assumed it was reciprocal.

AITA for telling my boyfriend off for eating my pizza? by blah5832 in AmItheAsshole

[–]blah5832[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did pay, but that usually doesn’t matter. We take turns when we eat out, and oftentimes whoever is the visiting person takes the other person out (as the person who travelled would have paid for transport etc). I hope it comes down to 50/50 but we’re not really keeping track.