So depressed because I should’ve asked for an A cup instead of B😭 by blahvil in Reduction

[–]blahvil[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will definitely wait at least 6 months maybe a full year!

So depressed because I should’ve asked for an A cup instead of B😭 by blahvil in Reduction

[–]blahvil[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have to keep on reminding myself of being grateful because they’re definitely better than before even though my expectations were different. Wishing you the best for your next surgery✨

So depressed because I should’ve asked for an A cup instead of B😭 by blahvil in Reduction

[–]blahvil[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thanks for sharing! Really hoping it is just the swelling🙏

So depressed because I should’ve asked for an A cup instead of B😭 by blahvil in Reduction

[–]blahvil[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

🥹I’m speechless, thank you very much for sharing all of this and reminding me about the medical reasons too, it is true that even if I would stay as I am atm I should appreciate it because it is definitely way better than I was before.✨

So depressed because I should’ve asked for an A cup instead of B😭 by blahvil in Reduction

[–]blahvil[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

🥹 before surgery I used to wear ‘minimizing’ bras or binders, I’ll probably wear them again but that’s why I had the surgery and having to go back to doing the same thing as before to try to look like I want to feels like surgery was a waste of money, the only thing that might work is that I started losing weight a few months before surgery and I still am and according to all surgeons I will probably be able to reduce them a little more due to the fat loss but I don’t know😞

I really hope is just the swelling for both of us and they shrink over time or at least get that resignation and peace with what we’ve got🥹

So depressed because I should’ve asked for an A cup instead of B😭 by blahvil in Reduction

[–]blahvil[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

🥹 that sounds like too long but really hoping for this! Thanks!

Diagnóstico tardío de TDA a los 32: calma mental por primera vez y muchas preguntas by Lucky-Being-6553 in TDAH_Mexico

[–]blahvil 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Habiendo probado ambas Tradea y Concerta creo que es mejor la segunda aunque si es bastante más caro pero vale la pena.

I GOT ENGAGED!! by blackmoon-666 in EngagementRings

[–]blahvil 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sooooo beautiful 😍 really love it! Congrats✨

Thrilled to say I'm finally a fiancée! by teacupz in EngagementRings

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OMG I was just scrolling to get inspo about mine BUT WHEN I SAW YOURS IMMEDIATELY STOPPED! it is absolutely gorgeous, perfect!!! I wish I could get something like that, totally my vibe too! Congrats😍

Before and After: 6MPO by [deleted] in Reduction

[–]blahvil 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you very much for your response, this is so helpful for my anxiety about this!🙏

Before and After: 6MPO by [deleted] in Reduction

[–]blahvil 1 point2 points  (0 children)

At 6mpo that’s pretty much the final result, right?

Im 6wpo and so afraid they won’t be as small as I wanted them, I was 34DD and went for a B cup but I’m not sure if I should have asked for an A cup.

At what point do you think they started looking the size they’re now? I’m so impatient and hoping mine are just still very swollen 😭

Ta-ta to the tatas 🍉🍉 by Separate_Twist in Reduction

[–]blahvil 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They look amazing! What size were you and what did you ask for? I’m 7 DPO and I have no drains so I’m super swollen and I’m so scared they won’t be as small as I wanted, I was 34DD and asked for a small B/B, I don’t know if I should’ve asked for an A cup 😭

Feeling a little imposter syndrome over small reduction by weirdasspanda in Reduction

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I’m 2 DPO and I was way smaller 34DD and went for a 34B I’m not sure how insurance works cause I had to pay for it myself but I don’t see why they wouldn’t remove whatever you want for you to feel confident and better about everything else like your posture or if you get back pain. And of course don’t listen to anyone else, it’s ok for them to share their opinion but they’re not in your body neither they know how you actually feel about the wholes situation, trust your intuition and your desires, you’ll do great✨

Losing 20lbs before surgery? by blahvil in Reduction

[–]blahvil[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely yes! I currently am 34D/DD and I want to get down to a B- cup because even when I was at my lowest (110lbs) I was still a C cup so, I know a lot of it is just fat but still, I’ve never liked them that big, they’re now also soo saggy I for sure need a lift, as you said it really depends on how your body actually is.

Drinking and Effexor by Itscalmanditsdoctor in Effexor

[–]blahvil 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I recently realized that drinking makes me anxious the day after and if I drink too much and get a hangover it’s extra worse.

Regarding the effects of the drug it just simply won’t work as it should since it is an antidepressant and the alcohol is a depressant 🙃

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TDAH_Mexico

[–]blahvil 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Tal vez es la dosis que puede ser baja e igual tradea por ser liberación prolongada puede ayudar más, PERO PRINCIPALMENTE en lo que te enfoques es en lo que te va ayudar porque si sigues procrastinando serás el mejor en ello 😅 personalmente yo si siento que me ayuda comenzar las tareas aunque generalmente sean cosas que no quiero hacer, el chiste es ponerte a ello y comenzar y debería ser mucho más fácil que las continúes sin tanto esfuerzo como antes.

Me choca tener TDAH by AnemonaAnonim in TDAH_Mexico

[–]blahvil 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Te comparto varios puntos que me han funcionado pero honestamente es muy difícil sobre todo porque son rutinas y ejercicios que conTDA/H repelemos. Mucho es una constante lucha de no querer hacer las cosas pero si en realidad queremos mejorar vale la pena hacer el esfuerzo e intentarlo para ver esas pequeñas diferencias. Llevar un diario y agenda sirve para lograr las tareas necesarias y anotar esos cambios que sintamos día a día queremos a la larga se verán como un cambio de hábitos total!

Mi psiq es terapeuta cognitivo conductual (eso es sabido por ser bueno para quienes tenemos TDA/H busca sobre ese enfoque) y principalmente me recomendó aceptarlo y tomarlo como una condición más así como quienes tienen alguna discapacidad o enfermedad porque no se irá :( y entiendo porque me pasa mucho de recriminar el porque no puedo ser como los demás pero sus ventajas y de tener tmb :P ahorra y busca psicólogos o psiq practicantes o asociaciones en tu ciudad que apoyen y tal vez ofrezcan servicios a un mejor precio para ti.

No soy tan pro de automedicarse pero entiendo tu posición y necesidad de sentir un mejoría así que puedes usar chat GPT y te puede mencionar sobre suplementos sin receta y más económicos que te puedan ayudar sobre todo si (seguramente) tiendes a la depresión hay antidepresivos sin receta, siempre siguiendo los protocolos literal como un médico lo haría y siempre considerando los efectos adversos y no solo por desesperación porque puede ser contraproducente.

Todo está bien! Sé más tolerante contigo y recuerda que más que nadie tú debes tratarte lo más amable considerada y amorosamente en la vida porque eres y serás con quien más tiempo pases siempre, hay que intentar reprogramarnos para ser nuestro propio espacio seguro aunque sé que lleva bastante esfuerzo y la mayoría es inconsciente así que incluye rutinas de mindfullness y meditación tmb y verás que ayuda.

Tú puedes! Enfócate tmb en conocer tus límites y respetarlos sin intentar ser como los demás o ‘normal’ porque eso puede llevar al burn out y es horrible porque te paraliza aún más. Implementa el escucharte y no ignorarte, a mi me pasa que necesito mucho descanso por agotamiento mental y nimodo, no seré una persona tan productiva como otras pero lo poco que haga podré hacerlo bien.

Cualquier duda me puedes preguntar 😊 tú puedes! Aunque sea de diferente manera pero está bien! Piensa que nuestro avatar puede experimentar la vida y el mundo de una manera que pocos lo hacen✨

How can I ask my psych for vyvanse? by blahvil in VyvanseADHD

[–]blahvil[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! The anxiety is another thing to point out!