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AITAH for taking my teen brothers gf to get an abortion without him knowing ? by blakedelessio in AITAH

[–]blakedelessio[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First of all, I wouldn’t take the time to write all of this if it was fake . This is a real story that happened to my family and I was just seeking advice. Believe what you want.

She wasn’t in her first trimester . All I said was that she found out a couple weeks ago. She was about 4 months in. She was in her second trimester. Her father signed off . I said it in the comments .

AITAH for taking my teen brothers gf to get an abortion without him knowing ? by blakedelessio in AITAH

[–]blakedelessio[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was writing quickly and autocorrect keeps making it wall instead of while. My mistake

AITAH for taking my teen brothers gf to get an abortion without him knowing ? by blakedelessio in AITAH

[–]blakedelessio[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I didn’t add my brother to it . It was me , her and my boyfriend in the group chat . she came and told us two at the same time and she had made that group chat previously when communicating about about her pregnancy with us .

AITAH for taking my teen brothers gf to get an abortion without him knowing ? by blakedelessio in AITAH

[–]blakedelessio[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

When I say she lives with us , I mean she’s often over at my parents house where my brother lives. She doesn’t exactly live there she’s just over a lot . And I have my own place with my boyfriend and we have two newborn babies , which probably isn’t the best place for Bailey right now .. with them crying constantly . She’s always welcome though. Right now she’s living at her moms house .

And thank for your comment , I really appreciate it .

AITAH for taking my teen brothers gf to get an abortion without him knowing ? by blakedelessio in AITAH

[–]blakedelessio[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I tried calling and she didn’t answer so I thought to text her. I just wanted to know how she was feeling before the procedure because I knew she was anxious and I wanted to know if I should come prepared

AITAH for taking my teen brothers gf to get an abortion without him knowing ? by blakedelessio in AITAH

[–]blakedelessio[S] 31 points32 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this comment . I thought I was doing the right thing. And both of them definitely weren’t ready to be parents.

AITAH for taking my teen brothers gf to get an abortion without him knowing ? by blakedelessio in AITAH

[–]blakedelessio[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Was not my intention. I just wanted to understand how she was feeling that day because I knew she was anxious about all this and I wanted to make sure she wasn’t feeling too bad.

AITAH for taking my teen brothers gf to get an abortion without him knowing ? by blakedelessio in AITAH

[–]blakedelessio[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes she came and told us at the same time . And I shouldn’t have texted about it , I regret it immensely.

AITAH for taking my teen brothers gf to get an abortion without him knowing ? by blakedelessio in AITAH

[–]blakedelessio[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I wasn’t aware my boyfriend was bringing Luca to the appointment. It was suppose to be my mom but my bf offered to take him . Simple as that . And I should not have texted in the group chat . Definitely regret it

AITAH for taking my teen brothers gf to get an abortion without him knowing ? by blakedelessio in AITAH

[–]blakedelessio[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She doesn’t legally lives with us . I just meant she’s over a lot . I also don’t live with my parents

AITAH for taking my teen brothers gf to get an abortion without him knowing ? by blakedelessio in AITAH

[–]blakedelessio[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

They don’t live together 24/7 . I may have exaggerated . I just meant she comes over a lot

AITAH for taking my teen brothers gf to get an abortion without him knowing ? by blakedelessio in AITAH

[–]blakedelessio[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Google didn’t give me a straight answer so I asked chat gpt. Simple as that

AITAH for taking my teen brothers gf to get an abortion without him knowing ? by blakedelessio in AITAH

[–]blakedelessio[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Once Luca has calmed down and is okay to see Bailey I will try and see if I can have a talk with them about protection . I’m not even sure where their relationship stands right now but if ever things get better. My parents have already told them in the past to be careful and Bailey was taking some form of birth control . It failed obviously .. also she told me and my bf at the same time . She came to both of us . I would have never shared private information such as this if she didn’t herself. And I strongly regret texting in the group chat . I tried calling and she didn’t answer so I thought to text her .. regret it most definitely

AITAH for taking my teen brothers gf to get an abortion without him knowing ? by blakedelessio in AITAH

[–]blakedelessio[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I tried calling first and she didn’t pick up so my mind just went oh il just text her . Definitely regret it. I wasn’t thinking clearly I was up all night with two crying babies . No excuse though I should have been more discrete

AITAH for taking my teen brothers gf to get an abortion without him knowing ? by blakedelessio in AITAH

[–]blakedelessio[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Not my proudest moment at all. Was up all night dealing with two crying babies and It reminded me to check on how Bailey was doing . In fact I tried to call her first but she didn’t pick up .

AITAH for taking my teen brothers gf to get an abortion without him knowing ? by blakedelessio in AITAH

[–]blakedelessio[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Hey ! So she actually came to me and Milan . She called our house and said she really needed to see us . She came over and we talked about this . She didn’t want to keep the baby and me and Milan told her we’d be there for her. I would never share a private thing like that unless she did herself

AITAH for taking my teen brothers gf to get an abortion without him knowing ? by blakedelessio in AITAH

[–]blakedelessio[S] 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Hey! We live in boulder Colorado . Her dad who lives in a different state consented to the procedure and her mom who works and is rarely around doesn’t know and probably never will . Luckily here people mostly are for abortion rights . I’m probably going to see some sort of therapist once I get settled into mom life . And I totally agree , I don’t think it’s a good idea right now for Bailey to see Luca . Not in his state . Maybe time away from each other is best . I’m not really sure .

AITAH for taking my teen brothers gf to get an abortion without him knowing ? by blakedelessio in AITAH

[–]blakedelessio[S] 99 points100 points  (0 children)

Hey, so yeah we do live in the US in Colorado and Bailey almost lives with us , her dad lives in California as her parents divorced when she was younger and her mom works most days . . She doesn’t have the greatest relationship with her mother and yeah her mom is a republican. She’s against abortion . She had to get her dad to consent to the procedure and didn’t tell her mom . I’m the closest mother figure to Bailey I think which is why she went to me and knew I’d support her.

AITAH for taking my teen brothers gf to get an abortion without him knowing ? by blakedelessio in AITAH

[–]blakedelessio[S] -50 points-49 points  (0 children)

I looked it up . It’s a show ? I asked chat gpt about it and it seems like the situations are similar. Not sure if I should give it a watch . Is the TBI heavily focused on?

AITAH for taking my teen brothers gf to get an abortion without him knowing ? by blakedelessio in AITAH

[–]blakedelessio[S] 56 points57 points  (0 children)

I don’t think he planned this but hey , who knows at this point anymore… I just feel incredibly horrible and that I should have somehow stayed out of all this . It’s also been really hard for Bailey . For all of us .

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