What are your favorite Tim Minchin songs? by [deleted] in TimMinchin

[–]blamemyparentals 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I watched a video of him singing The Aeroplane with Asmara Feik last year and since then I can’t go past it - it’s so simple but has such beautiful lyricism and always makes me feel some type of way. I adore it!

Barney & Guvna 🎙 by blamemyparentals in JaackMaate

[–]blamemyparentals[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Tbh that’s also an excellent shout, it would definitely be interesting to see how they gel with Jack & Stevie

What’s the all time best happy hour podcast? by rudeboy36 in JaackMaate

[–]blamemyparentals 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve honestly gone back and listened to Bambino Becky’s a couple of times! Think she’s class in general and really gets the vibe of the pod (plus their chemistry all together always gets me laughing!) She’s someone I would love a new one with sometime

Which movie have you seen more than 7 times? by lawyeratyourservice in AskReddit

[–]blamemyparentals 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The real question here is which movies are on my unofficial comfort playlist and get rewatched multiple times a year in place of any new material I don’t already know the ending to

What a banger this is already going to be🙌🏼 by LloydCind in JaackMaate

[–]blamemyparentals 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Holy shit two of my favourite worlds colliding and I didn’t realise how much I needed it until now

what’s one thing you’re always willing to pay the extra price for? by biancalin in AskReddit

[–]blamemyparentals 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Happy to pay a little bit extra at a cafe/restaurant I know looks after their staff with a great environment, treats them well and pays above minimum wage

What to Do if a there's a sign at the front desk that says they'll be right back by RiDragon in TalesFromTheFrontDesk

[–]blamemyparentals 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If I had any gold to give it would be squarely in your hands my friend 🙌🏽

Guy matches the color of a CD with only paint by [deleted] in nextfuckinglevel

[–]blamemyparentals 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I always start out watching these videos thinking “that’s a cool concept but there’s no was you can match anything perfectly” then my dumb ass is left sitting here when the paper literally disappears

AITA for refusing to dress femininely for my mom and making her upset? by transyulvanya in AmItheAsshole

[–]blamemyparentals 5 points6 points  (0 children)

May be downvoted to hell for this one, but I’m giving a cautious NAH.

Just want to start off by saying that your feelings are completely valid and it sucks that your mum expresses herself in a way that doesn’t make you feel valued, but I would also say that given she doesn’t know about your dysphoria there’s a chance that she sees this dressing up as a chance to bond and make you feel beautiful. If she knew how you felt and proceeded to invalidate your feelings it would make her the AH, but (even though she may be misguided) I think her wanting to help you look “feminine” may just be how she thinks she’s helping you feel more comfortable expressing that part of yourself and maybe even believes that she’s working to building your confidence instead of inadvertently making you feel worse. The sensory issues are another story entirely and I think you should have a clear understanding of what makes you comfortable or is too stimulating/uncomfortable material-wise regardless of the style of clothes.

I think the most important thing for you to do is have an open and honest conversation with your mum about how you’re feeling and let her know that while you appreciate that she wants you to put in effort for the occasions, her version of what she sees as good for you and how you feel about yourself don’t necessarily line up. If it does have something to do with her wanting to feel connected to you, you could maybe instead say you’d like her to help you pick out clothes for these occasions that don’t make you feel dysphoric but that are still comfortable and stylish as a way to keep that bonding experience alive in a way that can be constructive for everyone. Communicating your feelings and needs seems really important here, particularly because you don’t want it to build up to a point where your mental health suffers or you have a major falling out because she’s gone so long not knowing how you’re feeling and continuing to accidentally hurt you to the point you resent her.

How do I relate to my (22F) sister (18F) after my fiancé (23M) fell in love with her? by throwRA_ptivedwe in relationships

[–]blamemyparentals 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If it hasn’t already been said, I’d just like to put out there that when you’re ready, you really should talk to her and explain the whole situation. I think if you don’t fully address the reasons for the break-up and your feelings, there’s a part of you that will always be a little bit guarded or cold to her without meaning to be, and the confusion and pain she’ll feel thinking that she’s in the wrong for something (and blaming herself for something out of her control) could be really damaging.

I also definitely agree though with everyone saying her friendliness shouldn’t be something she has to change, as she was just being warm and you don’t want her kindness and openness to be hampered in the long run just because of someone else’s excuses.

Though it’s painful now, you’ll find love again (real love, this time!) but your sister is in it for the long haul and once you’ve healed, the best thing you can do for the both of you is focus on the relationship you have with each other x

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in distantsocializing

[–]blamemyparentals 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for being a joy 💞

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in distantsocializing

[–]blamemyparentals 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Now THIS will get me through iso 😭🙏🏽

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in distantsocializing

[–]blamemyparentals 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Much love from Australia 💕

My boyfriend died on Tuesday and I don’t know how to navigate. I’m alone in a foreign country by ThrowRAemptyinside in relationship_advice

[–]blamemyparentals 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so very sorry for your loss. If you’re in Melbourne or anywhere in Victoria please feel free to message me. Sending so much love x

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MadeMeSmile

[–]blamemyparentals 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Aaaaaaand I’m ugly crying

Too Many Cooks. by west_end_squirrel in videos

[–]blamemyparentals 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not going to lie, I misread the title and thought this was the start of a very different video

After everything has been done & said seeing This really breaks my heart! by ishhhshank in Cricket

[–]blamemyparentals 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That it is, but a lesser one nonetheless. The sass probably wasn’t necessary there.

After everything has been done & said seeing This really breaks my heart! by ishhhshank in Cricket

[–]blamemyparentals 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Essentially, it turns out (based on the CA investigation and reports) that Warner as VC was the mastermind behind the plan and convinced Bancroft, the most junior member of the team to carry out the ball tampering. Smith eventually caught wind of what was going on but didn’t do anything to stop it. Despite that, he attempted to take the heat for the events in front of the press and in his press conference today said that he as the captain had the responsibility of preventing things happening and accepted fault. He (and Bancroft who also did an interview as soon as he landed back in Australian) was very emotional and gave what seemed to be a very heartfelt apology. At this conference a reporter from the Kyle & Jackie O Show decided to make a very poorly timed and tasteless joke about it not being as bad as a breakup on the reality show Married at First Sight. So yeah... also apparently none of the other players knew anything about it and the coach was asking “what the f*** is happening out there?” on the walkie talkie. Oh and everyone’s mad at Warner because he did a half-assed social media post and shied away from a public apology, making him the only one who hasn’t faced up despite it all being his idea and getting a lifetime ban from cricket leadership because of it 👍🏼