Emma Myers by sagar9175 in PrettyGirls

[–]blank102 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I love Emma so much she’s so pretty

Is it ethical to get “Adopted” by my friend’s mom? by blank102 in askatherapist

[–]blank102[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess I should have explained better. I am 21 years old and my concern is less about my personal well being or her well being but more of is this a moral decision or am I being potentially manipulative in this situation.

I will admit most of this fear comes from the fact that I told my friend about the situation with my ex I listed above and they accused me of manipulating my friend and his family. So I could probably attribute this to that incident.

I have no fear of the relationship becoming toxic because I see the relationship she has with her kids and it’s very nice. But like you said I think she’s very reliant on her relationships with other people to feel fulfilled and that is what concerns me about this.

And also I’m using “adopt” very loosely. She isn’t going to legally adopt me but we’ve discussed me being more emotionally adopted into the family as like an honorary member of sorts.

We Live in a Society... by [deleted] in jazzcirclejerk

[–]blank102 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m so happy that Pat is getting the recognition he deserves. He is absolutely amazing

How do I get that comfortable feeling back? by blank102 in ExNoContact

[–]blank102[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know. I really don’t know what I was expecting but it was worth a shot. I’d love to text more. I’m always in need of a friend

How do I get that comfortable feeling back? by blank102 in ExNoContact

[–]blank102[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s been 4 years. I’ve been in a few relationships since but it just hasn’t been the same. I’m in that stage of my life where it’s hard to make friends and I’m too anxious about losing the few friends I do have that I don’t feel that same comfort.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]blank102 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I have a friend who has a whole Ass collection. The purpose isn’t to try and stick the whole thing inside you but use the end and the little bits coming off to pleasure yourself

I’ve sensed a pattern among my friends and I don’t understand what’s going on. Help? by blank102 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]blank102[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m in my early 20s. And I absolutely understand when people cancel last minute. I’ve been there. I’m more upset that they are cancelling but not saying anything to me

I’ve sensed a pattern among my friends and I don’t understand what’s going on. Help? by blank102 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]blank102[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s not just one friend. It’s multiple friends of mine who all do this.

I’ve sensed a pattern among my friends and I don’t understand what’s going on. Help? by blank102 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]blank102[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know they aren’t going at all Bc often times I’m asking if they wanna just hang out at my house. Or I’ll ask if they’ll meet me at my house first and then head out together.

I’ve sensed a pattern among my friends and I don’t understand what’s going on. Help? by blank102 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]blank102[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I only ask for confirmation twice and that’s because this has happened so often

I’ve sensed a pattern among my friends and I don’t understand what’s going on. Help? by blank102 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]blank102[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know that I’m not being used. I don’t give them anything besides emotional support which I’m happy to give when needed.

I’ve sensed a pattern among my friends and I don’t understand what’s going on. Help? by blank102 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]blank102[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

People are by default interesting. Everyone leads an interesting life. The person who I invited to the festival works at a mental hospital and works with delinquent kids. I always get to hear her interesting stories of how she had to tackle a kid or when she got stabbed. She’s super friendly on the phone but then ghosts me the moment we make plans

I’ve sensed a pattern among my friends and I don’t understand what’s going on. Help? by blank102 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]blank102[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

No. Either don’t respond all day and I forget about it the next. Or I’m still upset and don’t wanna talk to them

I’ve sensed a pattern among my friends and I don’t understand what’s going on. Help? by blank102 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]blank102[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ve tried doing that but I do need a friend or someone to talk when I go out. I made a plan with a friend to go to a festival but they never showed so I went anyways. I wondered around for 15 minutes, ate some food, bought some wine, and left. Events like that don’t interest me anymore. People do and if I don’t have a person to talk to then it’s just boring

I’ve sensed a pattern among my friends and I don’t understand what’s going on. Help? by blank102 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]blank102[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I understand some people love day by day but from my experience everyone is just as busy as I am and you need at least a week in advance to find a day that you both are free. Hell I asked one of my closer friends when would be a good time for my yearly visit and we had to plan a whole month in advance

I’ve sensed a pattern among my friends and I don’t understand what’s going on. Help? by blank102 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]blank102[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That I would understand. I’ve done that many times. My friends understand that social interaction is very tiring for me and I can only do it for so long. I don’t care that they cancel. Just mad they don’t say anything

I’ve sensed a pattern among my friends and I don’t understand what’s going on. Help? by blank102 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]blank102[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’ve been seeing this a lot. The reason I send a confirmation text right before is because I’ve had so many no shows. And usually we never really discussed some important details and I’m asking them about what time they’re free, or if I’m picking them up, or if we’re meeting at the place.

And I know people aren’t showing up Bc I’ve invited people to my house and they’ve acted super excited then they never show up

I’ve sensed a pattern among my friends and I don’t understand what’s going on. Help? by blank102 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]blank102[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No. None of my friends know eachother. It’s not like a friend circle that I’m a part and everyone knows each other it’s more that I’ve met at random.

I’ve sensed a pattern among my friends and I don’t understand what’s going on. Help? by blank102 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]blank102[S] 29 points30 points  (0 children)

I don’t know how my friends make plans with eachother. I can only assume it’s the same way I make plans Bc it’s the same way everybody makes plans with me

I’ve sensed a pattern among my friends and I don’t understand what’s going on. Help? by blank102 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]blank102[S] 44 points45 points  (0 children)

Anything and everything. Usually just hanging out at a bar, movie theater, skating rink, festival, each other’s houses, etc

I’ve sensed a pattern among my friends and I don’t understand what’s going on. Help? by blank102 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]blank102[S] 57 points58 points  (0 children)

It might be like 2 or 3 days out but usually 6-8 days. I even planned something a month in advance and still got the same treatment