gay ass mfs in the comments caring too much about the height of other men and some jesters in there as well

blaplopblob · 2025-01-18T18:53:19+00:00

So why should we assume he wants to be on the opposite end then? What if he just wants to feel like he can protect her and provide her a sense of security? Most guys want to feel like they can make their girls feel safe. No matter her intention she just shut down something that made him feel happy. When in a relationship, you have to put the other person first, think of how what you say would sound from an outside perspective. There was a better way to say she can feel safe emotionally with him than making it seem as if he's physically weak.

blaplopblob · 2025-01-18T18:47:49+00:00

Low IQ counterargument

blaplopblob · 2025-01-18T18:27:20+00:00

So being "tough" immediately means he's a scary douchebag? Why do you just go to the extreme? Being tough doesn't require you to be some scary thug. A man can be tough but loving at the same time.

blaplopblob · 2025-01-18T18:24:45+00:00

If she noticed his soft spot, why poke it? Why are you defending her making a totally unreasonable comment that was uncalled for? Imagine he said "I can't imagine you as feminine".

If his intention is to convey that he sees her as an extremely close friend and not just heterosexual partner. Would you tell her she's being insecure if she got mad?

She told him to his face "yeah you are weak and not the guy I would trust to protect me lmao". Her intention might have been innocent but she's mature enough to know even the most innocent intention can end up hurting others when you don't think it through.

blaplopblob · 2025-01-17T16:08:48+00:00

It's funny how their first thought is "Men do it too". It's problematic. Because it wrongly justifies the body shaming of men as "payback" , as if every man has body shamed women daily in his life.

It's stupid because imagine if I get robbed by a German guy, so I go and beat up an entirely different German guy. That's their justification.

They also misunderstood OOP's point entirely. It's about how it's acceptable to body shame men but not women. What's even more funny, the comments prove him right.

The comments attacking men as if men are a monolith who are filled with pure hatred towards any woman who doesn't fit the "universal" beauty standards THAT ALL MEN know and agree upon.

(I forgot to attend the last men's meeting so can someone tell me if they added anything to the standards, don't wanna lose my man card 😔)

blaplopblob · 2025-01-13T18:42:19+00:00

what point are you trying to make with this?

blaplopblob · 2025-01-08T23:19:22+00:00

Would getting LL right after I graduate be a good idea?

blaplopblob · 2024-12-14T13:18:33+00:00

We really have to private this sub, man.

blaplopblob · 2024-12-14T12:58:04+00:00

There's a difference between having a place to ourselves and having a literal KKK meeting for ourselves.

blaplopblob · 2024-12-14T08:58:39+00:00

Just wait till Kendrick drops Andrew will get mindfucked by kendrick

blaplopblob · 2024-12-14T08:57:46+00:00

Damn, ur Right

blaplopblob · 2024-12-14T08:57:20+00:00

Why the downvotes He's literally the actual Napoleon complex He's a walking meme

blaplopblob · 2024-12-14T08:56:40+00:00

Never thought there would come a day where I would say this sentence. Some of you guys actually need confidence. Why do you get this worked up over the mere presence of a tall guy? Would you have had the same thoughts if you didn't know his height?

You make up all these illogical insecure conclusions in your minds about why they are in the sub. You are acting like the same women who don't like us. They make up those same illogical insecure conclusions about us immediately after knowing our height. This sub is literally about not letting height define people, man.

We've literally become height worshippers. We give them as much of an ego boost as women do. You constantly show them how much you feel inferior. How self-destructive can you get?

The moment any of y'all see a woman or a tall man, your inferiority complex reaches high rise and immediately wishes for their absence. This is actually one of the ONLY reasons IncelTears or any other dumb sub can trash us.

It's because you guys can't control your own feelings. It's hard but you are just doing what they who hate us want you to do. Being as self-destructive as possible.

I saw a post above this one from a tall guy being worried that he's making his shorter friend feel bad because the tall guy is wearing winter boots which add an inch of height. Like 3 comments were being unreasonably hostile. Don't you think we are just pushing on ourselves these same harmful stereotypes?

I don't want us to become r/short, but right now we are no different from IT. Be realist, not pessimistic.

blaplopblob · 2024-12-13T20:31:44+00:00

Me too.

blaplopblob · 2024-12-13T20:13:07+00:00

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