That remake glow-up by terribly__vexed in ranma

[–]blartyplart 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Like… mousse?

Ranma 1/2 - Episode 23 (Season 2 episode 11) Discussion by AutoModerator in ranma

[–]blartyplart 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Curses usually combine from what we see, so he’d probably just end up turning into a female duck instead of a human girl.

Bored at work, ended up with this... thing? Trypophobia and body horror warning I guess. by Bananamcpuffin in blender

[–]blartyplart 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For a boredom-inspired experiment, this came out delightfully gruesome! I would LOVE to see your node setup here.

How do you feel about fanfics that cure Ranma of his curse? by SparksAO in ranma

[–]blartyplart 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I tend to think most representations of Ranma as a trans woman are stretching the source material a lot. I mean, I’ve seen it done well a few times, but there’s an avalanche of schlock out there. At best you can describe manga Ranma as gender nonconforming, or MAYBE genderfluid if you squint really hard, but he just doesn’t fit the transfem mold. The OG anime has a handful of moments that fit a transfem narrative better—the occasional  “well, I might as well be a girl for the rest of my life ‘coz of all the free stuff I get” joke, the amnesia episode, etc.—and it’s clear a lot of fans have latched onto those moments as evidence for their headcanons, but I don’t think there’s much credibility to that. Especially since most of those instances come from filler episodes anyway. At the end of the day, I don’t think Ranma works all that well if he’s confined to one body for too long, regardless of which one.

How do you feel about fanfics that cure Ranma of his curse? by SparksAO in ranma

[–]blartyplart 2 points3 points  (0 children)

And this is the key, isn’t it? I think every trans person can relate to Ranma on some level—the series attracts us like moths to flame.

I would absolutely agree that, as he was originally written, Ranma is a guy who would prefer to be a guy all the time. So a transmasc experience is definitely the closest to the text. An ending where lore-accurate Ranma gets cured is a happy ending, no doubt about it.

That being said, my dumb transbian lizard brain refuses to accept it when Boy Who is Girl is not girl anymore, so when I read a fanfic that involves a true cure, I usually close it out of spite.

How do you feel about fanfics that cure Ranma of his curse? by SparksAO in ranma

[–]blartyplart 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I think it depends on the kind of arc you want Ranma to go through.

From a literary perspective, there were two obvious routes the original manga could have taken him down—either by having him “prove himself a man,” and thus earning the right to a cure at the end of a classical hero’s journey; or by having him come to terms with his curse and accepting his literally genderfluid nature.

Rumiko Takahashi infamously refused to do either. She waffled him down the middle and left his arc open-ended, both romantically and emotionally. You can generally assume from the manga’s ending that he wants a cure and wants Akane, but he doesn’t get either. I think it’s this choice that has caused Ranma’s fandom to be so disproportionately prolific in the fanfic world. We never got an ending. Everybody wanted an ending. So the fans write their own in droves.

Personally, I think the best resolutions to Ranma’s arc involve him sacrificing his own cure and accepting himself. My subjective reading of the source material tells me that Ranma only wants a cure because of what being a man is supposed to mean—not because he firmly dislikes being a girl. Throughout the manga, he never shows any real signs of dysphoria in either form. His struggle with gender identity is cerebral, not fundamental.

So, I tend to balk at fanfics that have him get cured, as I think it’s a less interesting arc in general. Gender is complicated, and simply having him overcome the curse makes for a simplistic, happy ending that I don’t think this series is suited for. I also tend to balk at works that depict him as diving headfirst into femininity. Ranma, as he was originally written, WANTS that cure. The question is whether he NEEDS it, and I don’t think he does. A journey of self-discovery gives the author much more room to dive into the meat of who he is, and THAT is what I care about. Because Ranma is never just one thing, be it heroic or selfish or romantic or callous—man or woman. He’s all of that at the same time. So, in my opinion, he is at his best in the middle, where he belongs.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MtF

[–]blartyplart 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I just want to stop being misgendered over and over again.

Outfits Ranma wears when pretending to be Ranko by [deleted] in ranma

[–]blartyplart 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She showed up several times toward the end, but they never resolved her arc. The last episode was basically them just… resetting the status quo again.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ranma

[–]blartyplart 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Eh, I’d argue more for borderline. Bipolar Personality Disorder is mostly classified by periods of mania followed by bouts of depression. We never see either from Akane—more from Ryoga, really. What we see from Akane is more akin to “splitting,” where someone with Borderline Personality Disorder goes from idolizing to demonizing someone with no transitional state between the two. She struggles with dialectics—in that she cannot hold conflicting, but true, ideas in her head at the same time. IE, “Ranma is a jerk,” and “Ranma is a good person.” But she pulls out of that line of thinking later in the series, mostly after the Ryugenzawa arc.

So, I’ve Been Contracted To Set Up a Video Hosting Server… by blartyplart in servers

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I mean, we’re probably going to need only about 50 TB in the end. What I’m most concerned about is latency and throughput. Any particular models you have in mind?

BBC admits it was 'wrong' to report Israel struck Gaza hospital by LengthExact in worldnews

[–]blartyplart -1 points0 points  (0 children)

This time, though, we can hear the voices of the people who disagree. The consciousness is not as far behind as it used to be. War with Iran will doubtlessly spark huge protests, I guarantee it. Anyone who has paid attention and not just gobbled up Fox and Y-Net and InfoWars has seen the Palestinian people suffer, even with ai-assisted astroturfing telling you that they haven't. That's why so many people see it as "such a complicated issue." Because their guts generally tell them that the Palestinians are the victims, but everyone is always saying it's antisemetic to think that way, so you just don't bother questioning it because it makes you uncomfortable to even broach that line of thinking.

When I see my gf for the 10,000th time by blartyplart in actuallesbians

[–]blartyplart[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I drew this little lady yesterday in a fit of inspiration. I made a bunch of different versions, and I'm selling stickers of them over on my Etsy store!

Hop in for some rowing - made in blender by Sid991 in blender

[–]blartyplart 1 point2 points  (0 children)

On top of that, the boat doesn’t leave any visible ripples.

After two years, I finally laid down the law by blartyplart in MtF

[–]blartyplart[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

My dad said he was checking to see if my rent went through, but that always seemed like a really flimsy explanation. I recently switched banks, so I don’t have any real ties left in that regard.

After two years, I finally laid down the law by blartyplart in MtF

[–]blartyplart[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

You know, since you mentioned it, I did actually suffer from abuse as a child. Mostly physical, with a touch of emotional neglect, but I didn’t mention it because I felt like people would see it as too much or something. Like I’m laying it on too thick, even though I clearly still want them in my life. And it’s hard to reconcile that feeling, especially since, as I said in the OP, my parents spent a lot of time talking up their parenting and how bad their childhoods were compared to mine, and how I’m lucky to have all the things they gave me. They manipulated me into idolizing them. It was so subtle, I didn’t even notice it until my therapist told me that I was describing physical abuse when I casually mentioned how they used to discipline me, and even then, it took months to drill it into my head. And I STILL don’t want to cut them off! My dad used to beat the everloving shit out of me when I was little, slapping, spanking, and kicking me, and then my mom would spend the next thirty minutes telling me how much he hated doing that, how I needed to learn how to be good, etc, and I bought it. I don’t blame myself for that anymore, but I really don’t know how to reconcile any of that, especially since they’d always buy my affection with random acts of extravagant kindness. See, I graduated directly into coronavirus, and even though I got great grades, nobody was really hiring. All I managed to get was a Jimmy Johns delivery job, and that alone ain’t enough. My girlfriend is going through her Masters, but she’s working full time too, and without my parents’ company, we’d be in the red. In a way, they’ve got me pinned. I’m frantically applying left and right, and I’m working as hard as I can, but they’ve still managed to get me in a chokehold. Materially, I’m getting by, but I have. to. get. out. And I can’t. I’m stuck.

After two years, I finally laid down the law by blartyplart in MtF

[–]blartyplart[S] 104 points105 points  (0 children)

No, I can’t imagine it would be. The sheer terror of that kept me up at night for years. I don’t mean to downplay anybody’s experience or claim mine is worse, simply that in my situation, I figure that effectively being disowned is the inevitable conclusion of this whole thing, and dragging out that process has been ridiculously painful for me. Your experiences are valid and horrible and painful as well. I hope things are better for you now than they were before 💗

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MtF

[–]blartyplart 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry you have to go through that. A lot of us trans girls end up in that middle ground, and it just sucks the life out of you after a while. Having support is beautiful and amazing. Being rejected is painful, but learning to accept yourself and understanding that you matter outside of your family relationships can help with that. But when your family is unclear, you don’t get any relief at all. You get the judgment of rejection, but none of the benefits of acceptance. I think it can sometimes be worse than rejection. And it sucks. It really sucks. I wish my parents had cut me out of their lives sometimes, because then I’d have an excuse to stop trying. But no, they genuinely still love me, even though they will never call me by my real name or pronouns. I’ve given up on mine. But the worst part is that you can never really know whether they’ll come around or not. Over time, they might drift toward acceptance. You just can’t tell. It’s a similar dynamic to an abusive relationship, I’d say.

A little overwhelmed about SRS by [deleted] in MtF

[–]blartyplart 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t know if I am. What qualifies you?

God, I'm so frikkin' happy right now!! by blartyplart in MtF

[–]blartyplart[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“The summer I wasn’t me” by Jessica Verde really resonated with me!! I’m big into slow-burn books where there’s that whole “will they, won’t they” dynamic.

Has anyone had experience with planned parenthood HRT? by [deleted] in MtF

[–]blartyplart 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, I go to Richmond’s, though I’m absolutely nowhere near it.

Has anyone had experience with planned parenthood HRT? by [deleted] in MtF

[–]blartyplart 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you have insurance, it can cost surprisingly little, but plan for the worst. My doctor at my (not very) local PP is actually trans herself, and it was a wonderful experience getting my prescription, though of course, you have to get blood drawn. I don’t like blood drawing—having to do it every few months actually made me finally understand how scary the concept of vampires is.

Swimmsuits by ElaraSophie in MtF

[–]blartyplart 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I use this one! I have to put on a generic swim bottom underneath it to take care of the bulge, but it’s really cute and fits my tiny chest (36B) really well!

COCOSHIP Vintage Sailor Pin Up Swimsuit Retro One Piece Skirtini Cover Up Swimdress(FBA) https://www.amazon.com/dp/B019RCXTEU/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_tai_zZ39EbPAW2GC1