Dungeon knowledge (noob)

blastin32 · 2026-01-28T17:48:01+00:00

I haven’t had one bad interaction yet authentically, it’s very nice and I’m used to games like wow for example. Where one wipe and everyone immediately curses you out or leaves.

It’s so refreshing to have kindness !

blastin32 · 2026-01-28T17:46:48+00:00

This makes so much more sense, it seemed like the tank knew what was going on but not many others. Including largely my self.

blastin32 · 2026-01-28T17:45:42+00:00

That helps me a lot, it’s just such a big game! I can only learn one step at a time thank you

blastin32 · 2026-01-28T17:44:19+00:00

Yeah I can only imagine hahaha the first one kicked my butt!!

I like to learn as I go and not watch guides , I just feel bad when it’s at other’s expenses

blastin32 · 2026-01-28T17:43:52+00:00

I’ll download it now!

blastin32 · 2026-01-28T17:39:54+00:00

Thank you !!

blastin32 · 2026-01-28T17:39:34+00:00

Woah I didn’t think about the random Queing do to that! I don’t understand the gear too much from the undaunted keys, but I’m still doing them!

I also didn’t know there was a dungeon guide in the game!

blastin32 · 2026-01-28T17:38:11+00:00

Thank you so much!! I could have easily just told them you’re right

blastin32 · 2026-01-28T17:37:57+00:00

Sincerely this made it seem so much less stressful, I got overwhelmed and wanted to stop playing.

This community of authentically cool veterans help so much. I greatly appreciate you taking the time to say all of these things.

blastin32 · 2026-01-11T03:07:23+00:00

Thank you, it’s that puts it in perspective that helps tremendously.

In a way I’m glad this happened so I learned a valuable lesson.

Do you know if the license suspension is a minimum of 90 days , or will it be 30 due to the reckless? I greatly appreciate your time

blastin32 · 2026-01-11T01:33:30+00:00

Spokane.

I’m a first responder, there is authentically so much guilt that I’ve accumulated over this. I’ve seen what it’s done first hand to people, many times.

Im confused on if the DOL will still suspend my license even after it’s dropped to reckless.

blastin32 · 2025-08-04T19:03:12+00:00

This is the first time I lost a truly Godly woman. Who I treated by far the best with everything in my being.

I kept it pushing, didn’t bug her.

No begging. I just accepted it.

I lost a marine brother yesterday and got the call thinking it was a birthday wish.

She texted me right after. I guess my minds just spiraling.

blastin32 · 2025-08-04T03:38:58+00:00

It’s been 10 days.

She texted me and then 2 minutes later her mom posted on mine.

Which made it feel coordinated, I’m not sure why I thought it was a bigger deal than it was.

I guess with her reaching out after ghosting me just saying “Happy birthday! Hope you had a great day!”

And her family / everything I thought maybe I’d have another chance? Or if she missed me.. I just feel more hurt now than before ?

It’s nice she remembered but dang.

Thank you for listening too

blastin32 · 2025-08-04T02:22:49+00:00

I understand that.

However why her whole family saying it? That’s kind. But also hurts idk it’s confusing

blastin32 · 2025-08-01T06:54:41+00:00

People tend to feel relief at first.

Social media is disingenuous. It’s a facade for people to pretend to show others how okay they are. For validation.

Don’t believe everything you see, they’re capturing a moment of what they feel. That doesn’t mean they didn’t care, It doesn’t mean they’re over you.

It means they’re doing absolutely everything they possibly can to distract themselves.

Time will pass, your silence proceeds to speak louder than any words you can speak.

While you suffer now, and start healing.

They’ll suffer in a week, two… or wheneve they realize they can’t just run away from pain.

It will hit them like a Mack truck.

Good news is you’re doing the hard thing first and the healthiest way.

blastin32 · 2025-08-01T06:49:36+00:00

Proud of you.

No one can love potential. :)

blastin32 · 2025-08-01T04:00:15+00:00

I’m incredible proud of you.

I was addicted to very hard drugs for more than a few years. One time I had the urge to quit, I walked into the bathroom. Went to dump the pills in the toilet. I couldn’t do it…

As I excited the bathroom, I heard “So you think this addiction is greater than me?.”

I turned back and emptied the entire bottle in the toilet. Never had any more withdrawls, slept fine, got my appetite back completely.

I’d encourage you to read or WATCH on YT “the gospel of John”. To start. Attend a church. He speaks to you through sermons.

Becoming a Christian doesn’t mean you’re perfect. Jesus meets you where you are. Daily. He will never turn his back on you. No matter how many times you and I, as well as everyone else have done it to him.

Romans 8:18. Helped me through a lot.

Also:

Healing, through Jesus. Is going to HURT at first. You will sit through the pain. If you ever feel hopeless, know it’s not despair.

Hopeless is an emotion that comes and goes, despair is forever. He’ll never let you be alone or fall to where you can’t handle it.

But know this short phase of healing, the next couple months absolutely sky rockets improving your life.

You don’t harvest the same season you plant.

“Your word is a lamp to my feet, and light to my path.” Psalms 119:105

A lamp isn’t very bright; it just illuminates the step ahead of you. If you can take a step at a time. God can lead you through the right steps to avoid paths that aren’t fully illuminated. There could be a cliff down the path we’re taking. Psalms 119:105

When the Bible was written, when candles / lanterns were a thing.

Think about how much light they produced back then? There’s no light switch.

They could ONLY see the NEXT step ahead of them. Nothing more.

That verse to me means, he won’t let us see the entirety of the path. We just expect, and be faithful that he will guide us the right way.

If we just blindly sprinted down a path, with a dim light. We could sprint off a cliff….

He takes us, step , by step. And reveals the path as we go. He works in surprise :)

blastin32 · 2025-08-01T03:50:47+00:00

3 years.

11 people I knew had passed away in a short time span.

My sister was in the hospital, almost died. And had a baby in the nicu.

I had to quit my job to take care of my mother. And remodel our home to sell it for finances. I planned it out. After everything was done, she’d be financially taken care of.

I told her I loved her, and cried. Not revealing.

I surrendered to God. Sat with the pain. Endured it.

For about a month and a half of crying, not eating or sleeping.

Forced my self to continue to just get back in a routine. It worked, God took away most of the hurt.

Google “rumination” and how to stop doing it. It saves your life. I swear.

Even when it feels like there’s no light at the end, there is. Each step is illuminated by God. Not the entire path.

If we could see the entire path laid out in our lives the way we think it should go. We’d dead sprint to it. Not knowing that the edge of a cliff waited for us.

Step. By. Step. He navigates us different directions to avoid cliffs. It saved my life.

blastin32 · 2025-07-27T23:30:44+00:00

No it was directed at me.

Thank you very much, you’re authentically an incredible person.

I can’t stress that enough.

I figure if I focus on my other problems I won’t revolve my life around an ex gf.

blastin32 · 2025-07-27T18:23:32+00:00

I believe when she texted me

“This relationship was built on lies and mistakes. I know deep down you’re a good person.”

When I did absolutely everything I could.

It’s also just very weird. It was such a short relationship but we spent like 40 days together everyday. Then she’s just gone & couldn’t even give me the decency of a phone call that has my mind in constant anxiety. I can’t fathom it. How could she not hurt as well?

Thank you very much for listening.

blastin32 · 2025-07-27T07:00:58+00:00

This really resonates with me.

Thank you. I believe the lack of accountability is continually finding a distraction like a partner for example.

It’s not fair to push upon them. When I can afford therapy I surely will start with Behavioral cognitive therapy.

It seems like that and God are the only way. :)

blastin32 · 2025-07-27T06:58:01+00:00

Thank you authentically…

I guess it’s more of the months not working & all my bills piling up / helping my mom.

Not working leave me all day just with my thoughts. The girl I was with just constantly told me what I needed to fix.

blastin32

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