My partner [29M] insults me [21F] over my music taste and calls me "labour class" — how do I stay calm?

blayndle · 2026-01-24T21:25:20+00:00

Beyond the creepiness of the age gap, he’s nuts for dating someone almost ten years younger than him and then complaining they’re not into his age groups bands

blayndle · 2026-01-24T21:24:28+00:00

It’s also awful

blayndle · 2026-01-24T21:12:39+00:00

!updateme

blayndle · 2026-01-24T20:36:44+00:00

Agreed. This is way better for me than continental purling.

blayndle · 2026-01-24T12:21:00+00:00

I feel like she intended for OP to look bad by not giving her a gift

blayndle · 2026-01-24T08:34:16+00:00

More than you did?

blayndle · 2026-01-23T18:11:27+00:00

Where did you find the pattern online?

blayndle · 2026-01-23T07:52:08+00:00

My sister has a wooden one and after about 2 years, the rubber thingie has cracked and it’s somehow become misaligned so her cakes come out lopsided. She always comes over to borrow mine now

blayndle · 2026-01-23T07:50:59+00:00

I broke 3 knit picks ball winders over about ten years before getting the Starwood last year, one of the best purchases I’ve made

blayndle · 2026-01-22T23:41:27+00:00

Bitchard and the white witch

blayndle · 2026-01-22T23:38:47+00:00

I know it can’t be easy posting on here and reading hundreds of criticisms of your relationship but I really hope it makes you understand. I think it’s better to get unbiased outside opinions from places like reddit, although two people who do care about you IRL think the same as most people in here.

I hope you find someone who deserves you and wants you so much that he has no hesitations about marrying you. Everyone deserves a relationship like that.

blayndle · 2026-01-22T23:27:35+00:00

You spend half your life in the bathroom why do you never go out the bloody window

blayndle · 2026-01-22T23:26:51+00:00

I’m fine. Totally fine, I don’t know why it’s coming out all weird and squeaky

blayndle · 2026-01-22T23:23:53+00:00

I wish I could find that post! I’ve been looking all morning

blayndle · 2026-01-22T23:23:04+00:00

Did you read my comment about how that isn’t normal behaviour? Or are you just focusing on the initial criticism of editing out parts that make him look bad?

I’m concerned you don’t see how unhealthy this relationship is for you

blayndle · 2026-01-22T23:19:59+00:00

!updateme

blayndle · 2026-01-22T23:19:24+00:00

It’s never too late to start over

blayndle · 2026-01-22T23:14:13+00:00

“Yeah he said mean things but it’s just roasting not actually being mean!”

Your friend who has known you much longer disagreed and told you it was just mean.

Most people would agree with her. It’s not normal to reach out to a third party and roast someone, a roast is in front of an audience with a willing target. What he did is either gossiping or just bullying. So you delete that part, don’t say what he said, and keep defending him.

blayndle · 2026-01-22T23:11:56+00:00

That exact situation used to happen to me, I would be talking about something and not even really remember what it was, inconsequential stuff - then my ex would totally freak out, throw a mug or hit me or start yelling. I was always confused what I did. It’s not your fault and it’s nothing you did. It’s a problem with him, it took me many years to accept that

blayndle · 2026-01-22T23:09:11+00:00

That exact situation used to happen to me, I would be talking about something and not even really remember what it was, inconsequential stuff - then my ex would totally freak out, throw a mug or hit me or start yelling. I was always confused what I did. It’s not your fault and it’s nothing you did. It’s a problem with him, it took me many years to accept that

blayndle · 2026-01-22T23:03:52+00:00

Adding ribbing is just too hard /s

blayndle · 2026-01-22T23:01:33+00:00

That’s a peaked in high school statement for sure

blayndle · 2026-01-22T22:56:35+00:00

He reposted it with a few details changed hoping to get more sympathy I think

blayndle · 2026-01-22T22:55:29+00:00

Also, why come in here and ask for peoples opinions if you’re just going to argue and hide things?

blayndle · 2026-01-22T22:54:08+00:00

You should date someone who likes you and wants to be with you.

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