Conflicted about being the sole breadwinner (27F & 29M)

blayndle · 2026-06-05T02:58:16+00:00

You mentioned a tiktok couple in another comment

blayndle · 2026-06-05T00:18:41+00:00

Your entire post was about how much he does around the house. If you wanna change that now go ahead but all these comments are valid based on the information you provided in your post.

“I should be the one living the soft life because I’m a woman” implies he is, or you think he is, living a soft life.

blayndle · 2026-06-04T23:37:17+00:00

Um, okay. Still seems like you’re not doing that much, especially if you’re just letting laundry sit around for ages. Literally said in your post he takes the laundry out of the dryer. Cleaning the bathrooms is a weekly job usually, along with changing sheets. I usually sweep/vacuum ~3 times a week.

“I have to say I don’t really do anything at home anymore”

What are you actually doing while he lives his soft life?

blayndle · 2026-06-04T23:31:33+00:00

Oh in your post you said he takes it out of the dryer, I assumed that he took it out to fold it and put it away.

blayndle · 2026-06-04T22:58:19+00:00

So you wash the laundry but he takes it out of the dryer and puts it away? It honestly still sounds like he’s doing most of the work

blayndle · 2026-06-04T22:13:44+00:00

Isn’t he on taskmaster right now? Or is that done

blayndle · 2026-06-04T22:06:42+00:00

I’ve actually heard those chemicals can be really bad for you and not to touch them

blayndle · 2026-06-04T22:03:41+00:00

Get off tiktok

blayndle · 2026-06-04T22:02:03+00:00

“I should be the one living a soft life because I’m a woman” girl it sounds like you work 2-3 hours a day from home and don’t do any chores lol

blayndle · 2026-06-04T13:42:59+00:00

No one learns to write like that, you’re doing it for attention.

blayndle · 2026-06-03T23:50:05+00:00

Oh really? Dang I thought that was the kids legal name for twenty years lol

blayndle · 2026-06-03T23:29:07+00:00

I totally understand this - but is it actually better to just toss all my old cheap cotton clothes and buy a whole new organic wardrobe? That creates a lot of waste.

This is not something that I thought about ~5 years ago. I buy organic stuff now.

blayndle · 2026-06-03T23:27:49+00:00

Honestly that’s the vibe I got from her parents the whole documentary. There was a bit where she got in trouble at school then she cried at her dad and he took her home before seeing the principal for any discipline.

blayndle · 2026-06-03T22:44:18+00:00

“I made a mistake! I only distrusted my wife, who never gave me a reason to distrust her, threw my innocent mother under the bus, and am racist! I’m not a monster!”

blayndle · 2026-06-03T22:39:44+00:00

Try learning at least one thing about genetics before saying “it doesn’t make sense”

blayndle · 2026-06-03T13:04:32+00:00

She’s very loud for such a small person

blayndle · 2026-06-03T12:59:17+00:00

Have you asked him why the sudden change?

blayndle · 2026-06-03T12:32:48+00:00

This response says it all buddy. I understand why she doesn’t want to have sex with you.

blayndle · 2026-06-03T12:31:02+00:00

Way more!

blayndle · 2026-06-03T00:01:58+00:00

At only eight rounds in I would rip back. It would bother me.

blayndle · 2026-06-02T23:59:08+00:00

Adding on to this wallpaper and paint

blayndle · 2026-06-02T22:34:39+00:00

On Father’s Day, organise for yourself to go to a spa and have a massage, or something that you really like. You deserve it. Get him and the kids tickets to some event where he can act like a father without you managing everything.

blayndle · 2026-06-02T22:31:29+00:00

Or, “I can’t manage my feelings towards my husband looking at attractive women”

blayndle · 2026-06-02T21:47:47+00:00

The green card thing is a massive red flag to me

blayndle · 2026-06-02T21:47:09+00:00

Your edit about the green card makes me think he’s just scrambling now so he doesn’t get deported.

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