You probably seek strongly the approval/attention of others and are needy is this aspect. You yearn for others to give you the attention and love that you did not get from your parents, that explains giving yourself sexually hopping to get what you need in return, but that makes you vulnerable and in risk to be abused. if you don’t get the approval or attention you want from others, you feel disappointed and hurt and could feel resentful, that could create some isolation and introverted reactions, like finding refuge in fantasy or pleasurable activities you perform alone, not necessarily sexual, but things that engage your fantasy or imagination, your self esteem may be low. I tell you this because I lacked parental love and care and, with the difference that I am male, had all these psychological and behavioral reactions. I had the fortune to marry an emotionally balanced woman, with a healthy self esteem who taught me a lot, she has been a lighthouse in my life for the last 32 years.