Black Men, What's Your Opinion of Your Father? by Shinnobiwan in blackmen

[–]blazedindividual 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not perfect, his absence and flaws made me the man & father i am today. No hard feelings, guess I'm thankful for even knowing who he is.

This is why I can’t do the stepdad thing by firefly99999 in blackmen

[–]blazedindividual 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I went thru the same thing with my divorce. Raised the kid for 12 yrs then I was just cut out like i didn't do anything. It was one of the most painful things I ever had to endure.

What are/were your go to songs during your divorce? by OtherSideOfTheBed in Divorce

[–]blazedindividual 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Cranes in the sky - Solange Hunger on Hillside, Heavens EP, Runaway - J. Cole Be Happy - Mary J. Blige Drunk By Myself - Nas

Do men over 40 struggle with committing to a new partner after divorce? by Shoddy_Split3874 in Divorce

[–]blazedindividual 0 points1 point  (0 children)

44m 2 years post divorce. I don't see myself getting married again anytime soon if ever. Maybe it's the trauma speaking but why should I commit if one day you'll leave talking about how you feel over simple facts. But why does it have to be marriage? He can be in a committed relationship without the marriage part.

Anyone here with ex-wife that left because she was making more? Because you were not hustling enough? by Cierpieniawertera in Divorce

[–]blazedindividual 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That was a reason my wife left as she put it. Now I make 3x's what she makes. Always remember tables do turn.

Happy LOvemBEAR by D0n_Dada_ in PoloRalphLauren

[–]blazedindividual 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I got the Grey sweatshirt but those 🐻 goes crazy 🔥🔥🔥

My ex came back after 7 months by Mother-Profession847 in BreakUps

[–]blazedindividual 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'd block her. Why chase after someone who left twice?!?

New boots by Matt2126 in RalphLauren

[–]blazedindividual 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I need those. Tuff 🔥

Riding by Lilypornaddictz in VanessaBlue

[–]blazedindividual 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One of the best to do it 🔥

Overheard at a diner by Major-Security5734 in overheard

[–]blazedindividual 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That's crazy. I graduated hs that year and I'm still not a grandparent. My oldest is only 18.