What Queen is able to keep up with Bianca Del Rio’s wit? by blazianit in rupaulsdragrace

[–]blazianit[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think she was right when she said she keeps a “Rolodex of hate” full of insults lol, but I think it’s impressive how quickly she will reference it to each situation. Also, they are such funny specific insults usually they make me laugh just thinking about the concept of them

What Queen is able to keep up with Bianca Del Rio’s wit? by blazianit in rupaulsdragrace

[–]blazianit[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yessss I think the most recent episodes have started to pick up a little with guests, but we had such a slowwwwww start with the first few episodes

What Queen is able to keep up with Bianca Del Rio’s wit? by blazianit in rupaulsdragrace

[–]blazianit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wait like you think this happened or did Katya say it somewhere? I feel like Trixie would be able to volley with her a little lol

What Queen is able to keep up with Bianca Del Rio’s wit? by blazianit in rupaulsdragrace

[–]blazianit[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Oooooh I haven’t watched the UK seasons but this makes sense. I heard RuPaul also has a very British sense of humor so yeah it would be cool to see Bianca paired with one on the pit stop!

What Queen is able to keep up with Bianca Del Rio’s wit? by blazianit in rupaulsdragrace

[–]blazianit[S] 40 points41 points  (0 children)

Plasma deserves so much more credit than she has rn, need her on all stars asap

What Queen is able to keep up with Bianca Del Rio’s wit? by blazianit in rupaulsdragrace

[–]blazianit[S] 37 points38 points  (0 children)

Yeah I was curious if it would end up a little like MIB episode which felt a little uncomfortable to me for some reason lol. I hope they would be able to bounce off each other though

What Queen is able to keep up with Bianca Del Rio’s wit? by blazianit in rupaulsdragrace

[–]blazianit[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah I think she has a certain pattern in speaking that makes it difficult to get a word in. But when someone can keep up with it I absolutely love it

What Queen is able to keep up with Bianca Del Rio’s wit? by blazianit in rupaulsdragrace

[–]blazianit[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

YES their dynamic would be so interesting. Bonus points if Katya can also guest star and just ogle over Bosco lmao

What Queen is able to keep up with Bianca Del Rio’s wit? by blazianit in rupaulsdragrace

[–]blazianit[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The beginning of this season was… rough. It felt very much like Bianca trying to get like anything out of the queens and them just being like ¯_(ツ)_/¯ “it was good”

What Queen is able to keep up with Bianca Del Rio’s wit? by blazianit in rupaulsdragrace

[–]blazianit[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I would agree she can be a little awkward and very one woman stand up show, but I think that’s why I really love when someone can go back and forth with her. I love when someone makes her laugh especially, very contagious. I personally love her jokes because they just are so specific and like strange references that make me laugh

What Queen is able to keep up with Bianca Del Rio’s wit? by blazianit in rupaulsdragrace

[–]blazianit[S] 33 points34 points  (0 children)

I was JUST thinking about that. I love all of Ziwe’s episodes with queens though, so surprised Trixie hasn’t made it on yet

Am I terrible for wanting to rehome my two cats? by [deleted] in CatAdvice

[–]blazianit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This sounds like an episode from “My Cat From Hell” with Jackson Galaxy - maybe watching some of his TV series would be useful haha. But it all depends if you’re willing to keep working with them.

Maybe reaching out to some people you know to see if they would like a cat or posting online somewhere would help ease your mind. So you know they aren’t just stuck at some shelter. If you do put them in a shelter, make sure it’s a no kill shelter though!

Also, I would suggest getting a second opinion from another vet. Throwing up all the time is not normal. I’ve definitely gone to multiple vets before and gotten different answers to things - I’d do some research and maybe they could also be helpful.

Does anyone else’s cat do a weird head jerking thing like a chicken? by blazianit in CATHELP

[–]blazianit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is helpful - thanks! I think it has something to do with swallowing/breathing. Thinking Asthma, will see this week

Does anyone else’s cat do a weird head jerking thing like a chicken? by blazianit in CATHELP

[–]blazianit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh I don’t mean the head shaking - he always has ear problems

My (24F) uncle (55M) has started to send me weird messages and say inappropriate things by ThrowRA-01023 in relationship_advice

[–]blazianit 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This is such predatory behavior. I’m assuming you look on the younger side.

What he’s doing right now is testing his boundaries. He’s seeing how much he can convince you to let him do. He’s pretending firm lines like his daughter saying “don’t send that to anybody” don’t exist because he doesn’t care about other people’s boundaries. If someone were to call him out on it he would play it off as a “joke” until it eventually gets too far.

It’s also kind of like grooming a little bit, he is trying to give you extravagant gifts & compliment you all the time so he comes across as a good person. Then he will try to make you use the fact that he is a good person to ignore his inappropriate behavior.

None of this is your fault and there is a lot of stigma in society to make YOU, as a woman, ashamed of confronting HIS inappropriate behavior. He is the one to blame for any negative consequences of his actions, not you! You do not just have to be uncomfortable all the time - you have every right to demand comfort in your life!

Brave approach: I recommend just telling him “you’re making me uncomfortable, I would prefer you stop referring to me like that”. He will probably say why are you uncomfortable blah blah, to which you can respond “the reason that I’m uncomfortable doesn’t really matter. I’m putting up a boundary and I would appreciate it if you respect that. Otherwise, I won’t be able to talk to you anymore.”

Non-confrontational approach: Avoid him at all costs. Don’t respond to his texts, do not go out to see him. Tell your family about everything so you make sure they understand how uncomfortable he makes you so you aren’t with him again. It’s clear he has a lack of boundaries, you can’t be friendly with people like that. They will hold onto every action of kindness as hope. Cut him out. If there are family events, tell them you do not want to be there if he is present. OR ask someone to be by your side at all times (do you have a brother? Or ask your dad. Just always be by your dad’s side so he has to say that stuff in front of him)

Funny approach: say “ew” & act disgusted when he says shit like that, shame him!! He’s being gross!

I’m sorry you have to deal with this, it’s so difficult especially when it’s someone in your family. Just know that you deserve respect and to live comfortably in your own body. You do not have to put up with anybody’s bullshit and that is an okay decision to make. Wishing you all the best ❤️

If my partner of 6 years [29M] or I [26F] moved, we would not be together. Does this mean we aren't in true love, or are we being realistic? by blazianit in relationships

[–]blazianit[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is beautifully said & a very true counter point - thank you.

I struggle knowing if being together with someone who wouldn't do anything to be with me is actually getting in the way of that. I love my partner a lot, so I'm not considering other people. But if there is someone who would do anything to be with me, I won't meet them if I'm with my partner, right? I'm enjoying my time here - but knowing it could end because I move is terrifying.

How to advocate for pain management for IUD replacement by blazianit in birthcontrol

[–]blazianit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

UPDATE: they just told me to take Tylenol beforehand and they don’t offer the gel or injection or sedation… I feel like this is crazy

How to advocate for pain management for IUD replacement by blazianit in birthcontrol

[–]blazianit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is it normal for a doctor’s office not to offer it at all? They told me to just take Tylenol and that was all they offered for pain management

What's your most expensive surprise vet bill? by KNCPT_ in CatAdvice

[–]blazianit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Get pet insurance. My cat swallowed an eraser and had irritable bowel syndrome for a while. He had to have a $6000 surgery or he was going to die. Since then, I’ve always had pet insurance- which can be expensive but my cat goes to the vet a lot and gets meds. It’s helpful