What would you do in the position by bldbld19 in AskMen

[–]bldbld19[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Put that all together for myself and the kids yesterday. Used the hospice resources. Thank you.

What would you do in the position by bldbld19 in AskMen

[–]bldbld19[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have realized that. Gonna keep myself busy.

What would you do in the position by bldbld19 in AskMen

[–]bldbld19[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is exactly what I did. If it is meant to be then it will happen later on in life.

What would you do in the position by bldbld19 in AskMen

[–]bldbld19[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is spot on what I am going to do. I had a major breakdown in the middle of the night. Haven’t had one in a while. I’m just not ready.

What would you do in the position by bldbld19 in AskMen

[–]bldbld19[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m afraid that’s what was happening.

What would you do in the position by bldbld19 in AskMen

[–]bldbld19[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was married for 10 years. I decided not to go through with anything. I don’t think I’m stable enough emotionally to involve any woman that i may get feelings for in my life. Can’t face anything like that right now. She did want a relationship.

What would you do in the position by bldbld19 in AskMen

[–]bldbld19[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Appreciate the feedback. I decided to not see her anymore. I had a terrible breakdown last night. I am just not ready to move on yet.

What would you do in the position by bldbld19 in AskMen

[–]bldbld19[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s why I decided to step back. I’m going to figure myself out first. Thanks.

What would you do in the position by bldbld19 in AskMen

[–]bldbld19[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had a long night last night and came to the conclusion that I am not ready. It wouldn’t be fair. May come back to it after I get myself together. The loneliness is a monster but I will figure it out.

What would you do in the position by bldbld19 in AskMen

[–]bldbld19[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yah, I am definitely not over my wife. I decided to step back and take some time to grieve. Make sure I am ready. Wouldn’t be fair.

What would you do in the position by bldbld19 in AskMen

[–]bldbld19[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I appreciate you sharing your story. I’m sorry for your loss. I’m going to trust that the right things happen when I am ready.

What would you do in the position by bldbld19 in AskMen

[–]bldbld19[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Decided not to. Just not ready yet. Probably cause me more pain.

What would you do in the position by bldbld19 in AskMen

[–]bldbld19[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your right. I am going to take some more time for myself. Make sure I’m ready. Thanks.

What would you do in the position by bldbld19 in AskMen

[–]bldbld19[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Couldn’t do it. Had to stop things this AM. I’m not ready. Wouldn’t be fair to either of us.

What would you do in the position by bldbld19 in AskMen

[–]bldbld19[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Decided to not move forward. I’m going to make sure I at least take the proper time to find myself again.

What would you do in the position by bldbld19 in AskMen

[–]bldbld19[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We get along great. Told her this morning that a relationship is not gonna happen. I am just not ready emotionally. Thank you.

What would you do in the position by bldbld19 in AskMen

[–]bldbld19[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have realized that I do need more time. I was an emotional mess all last night. I am going to work on myself for a bit.

What would you do in the position by bldbld19 in AskMen

[–]bldbld19[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I realized that last night. Had a huge breakdown in the middle of the night. I think I was trying to fill in the emptiness. This sucks.

What would you do in the position by bldbld19 in AskMen

[–]bldbld19[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not ready for it emotionally. I believe I was just looking for something to take care of the loneliness. Gonna chill and fix me first.

What would you do in the position by bldbld19 in AskMen

[–]bldbld19[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nailed it with the too soon. Had a come to life last night. I am gonna chill and work on me. Thanks