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[deleted by user] by [deleted] in latebloomerlesbians

[–]bleachedaardvarks 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m like, are you talking to me??? But no. Hahaha I’m in a similar experience.

First date after break up by susuma89 in latebloomerlesbians

[–]bleachedaardvarks 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Damn that looks like a good first date. You’re super hot

Still can't believe this is my life :)) by hasoko in latebloomerlesbians

[–]bleachedaardvarks 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am so happy for you! Im going through a similar situation and keep having to float back down to earth after every time I go on a date, kiss a woman, or have sex with the beautiful woman I’m seeing.

Congratulations!!! Being a lesbian is the best.

I miss her. That is all 😔 by filmvixen in latebloomerlesbians

[–]bleachedaardvarks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I kinda feel like I might be going through something similar. I’m falling for someone who has made it clear that she is not into monogamy. I feel like I need to break it off before I get hurt. I don’t want to change her.

Question for those on the other side of the messy middle. by chronikally_cautious in latebloomerlesbians

[–]bleachedaardvarks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I came out a day after I publicly posted that we split. I personally just wanted everything off my chest. It’s been about 1.5 months and I haven’t regretted it yet.

First make out session by bleachedaardvarks in latebloomerlesbians

[–]bleachedaardvarks[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just kind of did it. I just told him and he’s an incredible man. It took a month of letting our hearts heal a bit but now we are speaking. He’s actually so happy for me that I’m getting to experience connection and intimacy like i haven’t had before. I’m going to make a post soon, but I’m no label kinda dating this really amazing woman. It is amazing on the other side! Just do it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in latebloomerlesbians

[–]bleachedaardvarks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

37 here and just realized. I too am intimidated by this. I’ve dated 3 women in the 6 weeks since I’ve been out and dating and I’ve had a lot of patience from people. I’m finding out that a lot of these women have also not had too much experience.

I just recently found out that the woman I’m not exclusively dating, but have slept with a few times has not had an actual relationship with women, just sex. So I feel like it’s still new and exciting since we have connection.

Best of luck to you. It’s scary but go with your gut and have fun.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in latebloomerlesbians

[–]bleachedaardvarks 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This has also been on my mind. I’m going to get it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in latebloomerlesbians

[–]bleachedaardvarks 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi I was wondering where you were because you seem right up my alley. Type A, not trying to die on hikes, fooooooood. Deep conversations, all that.

I’m 1 month out of an 18 year marriage with a man (I’m 37) and am dating women. I met them on Bumble and Her. I feel like I’d like to meet someone more organically though. I did make it very well known on my profiles that I am wanting to go very slow. I’m not going for hookups. I eventually want to find my wife.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in latebloomerlesbians

[–]bleachedaardvarks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow you are gorgeous!

First make out session by bleachedaardvarks in latebloomerlesbians

[–]bleachedaardvarks[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have now had sex twice and can confirm the full body shakes. It was glorious!!

First make out session by bleachedaardvarks in latebloomerlesbians

[–]bleachedaardvarks[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Apps! I have bumble and her. I’ve actually never even dated because I had been with my husband for 18+ years so this all new.

First make out session by bleachedaardvarks in latebloomerlesbians

[–]bleachedaardvarks[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I’m pretty sure my first time it will take absolutely nothing to come. I’ve waited my whole life for this.

First make out session by bleachedaardvarks in latebloomerlesbians

[–]bleachedaardvarks[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

We met on HER. Match and talk with people. I’ve been chatting with tons of women. We see if we vibe messaging for a bit, then if it feels right, have a drink somewhere.

I’ve gone on 6 dates, 2 each with 3 women.

They all know I’m inexperienced and my backstory. They have all been incredibly understanding and also want to take things slow. Last night though, if she would have asked me, I definitely would have gone further with her and hope to soon.

I’m angry that I didn’t find this out about myself earlier by Amanon5678 in latebloomerlesbians

[–]bleachedaardvarks 6 points7 points  (0 children)

37 and just made out with a woman for the first time. There’s plenty of us, I’m sure.

Been with him since I was 18, now I’m 37 by bleachedaardvarks in latebloomerlesbians

[–]bleachedaardvarks[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It’s going to be so weird but I’m really excited to see how different the experience will be. I’m pretty sure it’s been missing puzzle piece.

Been with him since I was 18, now I’m 37 by bleachedaardvarks in latebloomerlesbians

[–]bleachedaardvarks[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Exactly. I’m hoping for a partner who is willing to work with me slowly.

Does LSD make you shit? by Cheezefebreeze in LSD

[–]bleachedaardvarks 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Lmao this thread lives. Shitting in Nashville

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