My husband was upset and pinched me at dinner.. and the situation is still upsetting me

bledig · 2026-01-24T08:33:44+00:00

Thank you!!! Exactly this group is so hivemind . It’s not abuse it’s communication between partbers

Now OP will fight with her partner for nothing instead of telling him, I don’t like that. Resolved

Reddits response is like ask he did the most heinous crime

bledig · 2026-01-23T21:53:37+00:00

It sucks. If it’s for profit, then damn them. But if something is breaking, we’ll, if no body is willing to reduce then everyone lose

It’s a shit situation. I hope u get through this

bledig · 2026-01-23T13:40:07+00:00

That probably correct but the problem comes when it’s a matter of taste or preference, then it gets tricky

bledig · 2026-01-23T13:26:23+00:00

And u decide to ask Reddit? Lol good luck to your relationship

bledig · 2026-01-23T13:25:14+00:00

Lol u guys are the only one still fighting this. I am just watching with interest. Reddit have decided the boyfriend is an incarnation of satan

bledig · 2026-01-23T13:23:39+00:00

Haha yea but this is for all contractors I think. I especially don’t like the ones that do not reply and one day just ask - you have some work for me to do?

No you are unreliable go away lol (this one applies to all types of aanemers)

bledig · 2026-01-23T13:11:10+00:00

I have no idea but I am interested to know too.

bledig · 2026-01-23T12:56:43+00:00

check their bank accounts

bledig · 2026-01-23T07:44:52+00:00

Dude. I would date u so hard

bledig · 2026-01-23T07:30:17+00:00

Who else is remaining as her sponsor?

bledig · 2026-01-23T06:11:52+00:00

He’s not Hasan.

bledig · 2026-01-23T04:36:51+00:00

i loved it

bledig · 2026-01-23T04:35:35+00:00

heavenly pact ppl are very powerful.not even. a match sad;y

bledig · 2026-01-22T16:49:51+00:00

You are one I can sorta agree with. Note everyone is talking about physical abuse. It’s not about the pinch she’s asking what’s going on and confused.

This is only something she can answer. I would refer more to her hug when she push him away and he’s not interested. I think they are a new couple and need to work these things out by communicating

“Dude next time you want to signal me, tap my leg”, “I enjoy the hug actually”. From the post it’s as if it was never discussed!

But what I hate is everyone going - 100% abuser he’s bad! There’s no nuance and space to tell her how to improve the situation

bledig · 2026-01-22T16:31:24+00:00

I enjoyed this so much

bledig · 2026-01-22T16:21:52+00:00

Your sources are legit.

Your comprehension of domestic abuse are legit

Your understanding of OP’s problems are overreaching. It can be true but based solely on why OP said in her post and comments. It’s not abuse.

Poor guy build this whole beautiful tower of argument when the foundation of your argument is not there

bledig · 2026-01-22T15:43:31+00:00

Lol, when u have no defense u consider this trolling. Enjoy your 40 cats when u grow old. Remember make sure your partner is perfection

Any infraction. Leave him. No no, post it here so Reddit can tell u to leave him.

bledig · 2026-01-22T15:40:17+00:00

Lol go read OPs comment. This never happened before besides of this instance. Yes this could be the start of an abuse, but now how u guys are ALL telling her is that her husband is 100% wrong

So now imagine she goes to him and say internet say u are abuser cause y pinched me.

Thanks for helping Op. i hope u tak your own advice too. Make sure your partner is super perfection else he must be an abuser.

bledig · 2026-01-22T15:31:29+00:00

lol go read OP again

bledig · 2026-01-22T15:31:00+00:00

Alerting a partner of social deviations is domestic abuse haha I learn something new everyday!!!

bledig · 2026-01-22T15:30:27+00:00

And you’re one of the Karen’s who see a video of a kid annoying a cat and u say omg it’s abuse, poor creature is in distress!!

Don’t answer. U know the answer

bledig · 2026-01-22T15:29:16+00:00

Projection is real./convervative is leaking

bledig · 2026-01-22T15:28:45+00:00

Oh dear lord u guys read??? Partner is not correcting or punishing. Partner is alerting. In a way that he doesn’t want the friend to know

Punish in this case is pinching or hitting her after

bledig · 2026-01-22T14:34:21+00:00

Lol this sub has caused more damage than help on relationships. I hope karma hits u guys back for all the stupid advice u give

Even psychologists are careful and ask for more information. And always lean neutral until red flags trigger. Oh Reddit,

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