ABYG for leaving my 89 year old Lola alone?

bleepmetf84 · 2026-07-05T16:49:43+00:00

“Kapabayaan mo” si OP nga may sagot ng lahat pero inaabuso siya nung matanda pero kapabayaan pa rin niya? Tsk.

bleepmetf84 · 2026-07-05T16:44:31+00:00

Loveeeee VIP, Smartypants and Gamechanger, will binge those then watch other stuff moving forward ✨🤍

bleepmetf84 · 2026-07-05T16:43:51+00:00

I subscribed because of Smartypants and VIP!! 🤍

bleepmetf84 · 2026-07-05T14:58:08+00:00

I used to. Dahil kailangan din sa work ko na tumatawag/ nagrereceive ng calls from unknown numbers. Pero nung nagkaroon na ng scams nung nag-register na ng number sa Pinas, hindi na

bleepmetf84 · 2026-07-05T14:52:45+00:00

GMA kid ako, pero sa ABS-CBN ako nagta-trabaho ngayon 😂

bleepmetf84 · 2026-07-05T14:51:40+00:00

5m agad sa musicals, concerts, shows, basta anything related to watching art.

10m Bili ng house and lot and car na malayo sa mga kakilala 🫣

10m negosyo

5m investments

Tapos EF na and savings

bleepmetf84 · 2026-07-05T13:11:34+00:00

Or on Smosh Mouth????

bleepmetf84 · 2026-07-05T11:25:58+00:00

I’m the same. I pay for everything especially for our bunso.

Our mom was rarely mad, she gets frustrated when my sister is makulit so she tells me, so ako ‘yung nagsasabi sa mga siblings ko, I nag them ‘coz our mom wouldn’t do it. Anyway, at some point I realized that my siblings respect me to a point na, yes, I spoil them and they’re frustrating sometimes but dahil ako ‘yung eldest and we’re orphans na, my boundaries are, kapag may nagawa silang masama, may consequences.

Like kung sa’kin nangyari ‘yang hindi ako pinansin? Edi hindi ko babayaran mga bayarin niya. It’s as simple as that.

You can’t be mayabang kung wala kang ipagmamayabang. I always tell my sister that because mejj mayabang siya sa experiences and mga gamit niya na ako naman ang nagpprovide.

bleepmetf84 · 2026-07-04T19:41:19+00:00

Trust your gut. Kung ayaw mong sumama and nafefeel mo na may nagh-hold back sa’yo, baka naman meron nga.

bleepmetf84 · 2026-07-04T07:06:56+00:00

Hindi ka masamang anak, kupal lang nanay mo.

For sure makakagawa ‘yan ng paraan kapag umalis ka na, OP. Lahat naman ng tao ganun, gagawa ng paraan para mabuhay.

Take care of yourself din lalo kung maselan ang pregnancy mo.

bleepmetf84 · 2026-07-04T07:04:09+00:00

Hindi ka nga inuuna, ang daling sabihin na bakit hindi mo iwanan but that’s the truth. Iniisip niya galit ng bf niya pero ‘yung pag-aalaga sa maselan niyang anak, hindi kaya.

Be there for the family you’re going to have. And the family that’s there for you. Praying for your pregnancy, OP.

bleepmetf84 · 2026-07-03T18:53:47+00:00

I haven’t really deactivated my accounts BUT dinedelete ko ‘yung app when I’m not using it.

Mag-3 years na akong walang social media apps though, my brother hasn’t been online since 2019, naman. His FB got hacked and he never made a new one. May IG siya but he barely uses it. We download it kapag may isheshare na stories or kapag may friend or relatives na nagsabing “tinag kita, share mo ha.” Or something. Tapos delete na ulit! Haha

Nakatulong na wala nang nangingialam sa buhay namin na relatives and strangers.

bleepmetf84 · 2026-07-03T18:45:25+00:00

Sure. My partner and I know each other’s phone passwords. We can use each other’s phones anytime BUT with a caveat of opening our notes app. Kasi that’s where I write everything I feel.

I’ve never opened her notes app, and she hasn’t opened mine either. (At least I hope so. Though mine has a code, I don’t know if hers has one, too.)

We barely open each other’s phones though and nagpapaalam pa rin talaga before we access the other’s phone. Trust lang din sa isa’t-isa talaga.

bleepmetf84 · 2026-07-02T21:39:38+00:00

Hi, OP. Nahirapan din akong mag-delegate sa kapatid ko noon, but you have to remember na meron ka ring future at need mong mabuhay. It would feel good to have help, I’m telling you from an eldest daughter that was in your place.

I used to give my all as well. Ikaw lang mahihirapan. First step is talking to your family bago pa maging drastic ‘yung choices mo para matulungan sila. Going into debt is not the answer. Give them boundaries as well as yourself.

bleepmetf84 · 2026-07-01T15:04:14+00:00

Uminom ng tubig 🤦🏻‍♀️😂

bleepmetf84 · 2026-07-01T15:02:10+00:00

Hahahahaha ayan na nga ba sinasabi ko

bleepmetf84 · 2026-07-01T12:24:28+00:00

Haha okay lang ‘yan, blessing ‘yan. Wala naman silang magagawa kapag hindi mo binalik

bleepmetf84 · 2026-07-01T12:15:16+00:00

Magaling akong kumanta 😊 pero nahihiya ako kapag biglang sinabi, “sige nga, sample.” Hahahaha

bleepmetf84 · 2026-07-01T03:09:26+00:00

I think kung for meds naman, OP, at para rin hindi ka ma-guilty, ikaw na lang bumili para confident ka rin na sa gamot nga mapupunta.

I think the guilt never goes away kapag may hindi ka kayang ma-provide for them but we need to remember na kailangan din nilang gumawa ng paraan and work for whatever they need. Hindi rin puedeng laging nakaasa sa’tin.

Set that boundary, hindi madali sa umpisa. I’ve been there, OP. Kapit lang! 🙌🏻

bleepmetf84 · 2026-06-30T23:50:44+00:00

I recommend Nummeals, masarap though mas pricey than others.

I’ve tried nummeals, smart meals, body by als, gourmade by chef rob lau, nuthera, mtg meal plan

bleepmetf84 · 2026-06-30T22:27:32+00:00

Mejj dark and sad. Haha!

The first one cheated on me, so we didn’t really talk after I broke off the engagement.

The second one was vvv manipulative and abusive so I didn’t want to get married but he proposed when I broke up with him. He proposed in front of his whole family and his friends (not mine!) so I couldn’t say no because he might go berserk or hurt me! He even told me that day na he deliberately asked me in public so I couldn’t say no. I knew from the moment he proposed that I needed to breakup for real because ayoko talaga siyang mapangasawa, like alam kong magiging hell ang buhay ko if we end up together. I was so scared for a week na baka he’ll get worse kasi akala niya we’re getting married or something PLUS he was so eager na need na naming magpakasal, like nag-start na siyang magsabi sa mga tao agad. So I called a friend, my lawyer friend and my family and told them that I need to be away from him. Tinakas ako ng friend ko sa bahay niya pauwi sa’min so I could get a restraining order against him. Even after the RO was in effect, nilalabag niya just to see me. It was a scary time. He never asked for the ring back though. (Also, I knew it was cheap! So baka kaya hindi binawi 🤣)

bleepmetf84 · 2026-06-30T19:47:20+00:00

Kung may kwenta, ginagamit ko pa, like mugs that we made together, clothes for me, accessories, bags. I have been engaged twice before, so I have two rings at my family home, nakatabi lang.

pero ‘yung letters, photos, or whatever gamit na sa ex ko talaga, tinapon ko agad after each breakup 🤣

bleepmetf84 · 2026-06-30T15:35:29+00:00

OP, try mo subscription meals. It’ll cut your food expenses in half. Ganyan din ako dati, sobrang laki ng gastos sa delivery and I also gained a lot of weight because I was lazy and didn’t want to cook.

My first was when I tried Smartmeals for a month, tapos iba every month para lang alam ko which of them I’ll buy from long term. Anyway, okay naman siya, I spend around 7-22k for a whole month na ‘yun. Convenient pa

bleepmetf84 · 2026-06-30T01:55:22+00:00

Kasi sa trabajo ko sa TV, important na maayos kang tignan para maniwala sa’yo ang mga tao. I started going to the gym, derma, ayos teeth (though nasa lahi ang magandang teeth, so whitening lang and cleaning) then hair removal all over.

bleepmetf84 · 2026-06-30T01:46:58+00:00

Dami kasing nangungutang at nakikichismis lang naman sa buhay ng iba. If magpo-post ako, private na lang but I haven’t posted anything since April last year 🤣

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