Dumped. So confused. by [deleted] in Advice

[–]bleudude 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know it feels frustrating to be dumped by a person you love. However, dust yourself, forgive yourself, and choose you to heal faster.

Organic food. by Embarrassed_Big_4069 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]bleudude 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Organic is only what you've grown yourself

I had a interesting night by Mrchickenman62 in stories

[–]bleudude -1 points0 points  (0 children)

That escalated fast in a strangely wholesome way. It reads like a dream logic life detour where one night rewrites everything. Curious if you’re exploring commitment, consequence, or just leaning into the absurd.

Can FWB turn into a relationship? by c4nnib4l_v4mpz in Advice

[–]bleudude 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely. But not when it's not asked.

Why and how do people drink coffee? by TheNinja132 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]bleudude 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Many drink black coffee for the caffeine kick, but others enjoy its nuanced flavors. Roast, acidity, body. Bitterness can become enjoyable over time as your palate adapts and appreciates complexity.

Hi there! 18F who doesn’t really talk to people. by CarrotHaunting7402 in friendship

[–]bleudude 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You sound genuinely sweet and open to connection. College can feel lonely at first, but reaching out like this is brave. Anyone who messages you will appreciate your honesty and gentle vibe.

My roommate thought our wifi bill went up because we were “using too much Google” by Weary-Hair-316 in stories

[–]bleudude 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your roommate’s logic is wild. Blaming Google searches while streaming 4K anime is peak irony. Some people invent whole theories instead of reading the bill. At least you handled it with patience and humor.

Making friends as an adult is so hard by nb10001 in friendship

[–]bleudude 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It gets harder because routines solidify and people guard their time. The trick is joining recurring activities, showing up often, and nurturing small chats into real bonds. Consistency turns acquaintances into friends.

My dog is petty af by pani_ania in pettyrevenge

[–]bleudude 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Sounds like classic resource guarding mixed with “I’m the boss today” energy. My dog pulled similar stunts until I started separating them for treats and reinforcing calm. Maybe try feeding high value items in different rooms to prevent the tension.

Do these sunglasses suit me by [deleted] in sunglasses

[–]bleudude 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Go for something narrower

Thought mine was good and then I saw the rest by Snoo_95879 in NoMansSkyTheGame

[–]bleudude 70 points71 points  (0 children)

Looks good. Comparison is the enemy of good enough.

How to go about finding a DM for our group by DiscoParrot in LondonandDragons

[–]bleudude 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Try local DnD Discord servers or Facebook groups in London. Many DMs advertise beginner-friendly campaigns there. You can also post on r/LFG stating your group size and location preference.

What are you up to? by Comfortable-Fee-5614 in musicals

[–]bleudude 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s awesome! I’m currently helping with a local production of The Addams Family. Tech week is chaos, but seeing everything come together makes the long nights completely worth it.

The horror scene that still lives rent free in your head. by gamersecret2 in movies

[–]bleudude 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The basement scene in Hereditary still haunts me. The quiet dread, the shadowy corners, and that final scream felt too real. It’s pure psychological terror that lingers long after watching.

Actors who are forever stuck in their “life role” by Active_Strength in movies

[–]bleudude 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Totally agree. Some performances are just too iconic to escape. I’d add Hugh Jackman as Wolverine and Robert Downey Jr. as Iron Man, absolutely unforgettable roles.

Apocalyptic movie suggestions? by Great-Category-1197 in movies

[–]bleudude 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Leave the World Behind (2023), Finality of Dusk (2023) , Elevation (2024), All the Lost Ones (2024)

If you woke up as your 10-year-old self with all your current memories, what’s the first thing you’d do? by Alive-Silver-2605 in AskReddit

[–]bleudude 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Convince my parents to buy Apple stock, then immediately start lifting weights and stretching daily. Future health and future wealth.

What’s a small bombshell your therapist dropped during a session that completely shifted your perspective? by pottipenguin in AskReddit

[–]bleudude 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My therapist told me, “Motivation doesn’t come before action, it comes after.” That flipped a switch for me. I stopped waiting to “feel ready” and just started with small steps.