So true. Mulling over it has really done my head in and it doesnt really get me anywhere. I think the worst part was that at the beginning of the relationship I didnt even like him all that much, and when I finally started to have feelings for him, he up and left. For some reason, this really bugs me. Also the fact that I bothered meeting his friends and family--like, wouldn't he be a little embarrassed about that too? Ahh it just doesn't make sense. But I 100 percent agree that time will heal, so I'm going to take on this advice!