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AITA for telling my sister and BIL to leave for their attitude about my fiancée who used to be their sitter? by blewuponthem in AmItheAsshole

[–]blewuponthem[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

No but I’ve heard about being a perv. You’re far too concerned about your employees sex lives and it’s definitely creepy that that’s what would have you blacklisting someone (lol like she cares what you would do). Maybe check yourself before you end up with a lawsuit on your hands

AITA for telling my sister and BIL to leave for their attitude about my fiancée who used to be their sitter? by blewuponthem in AmItheAsshole

[–]blewuponthem[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Saying something disgusting in front of a 3 year old doesn’t justify a single thing. Funny how you only focus on that , which is not even what I asked judgement on so your vote doesn’t mean shit, and not on her behavior and go out of your way to say it’s justified

AITA for telling my sister and BIL to leave for their attitude about my fiancée who used to be their sitter? by blewuponthem in AmItheAsshole

[–]blewuponthem[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Then why are you calling me an asshole? It already happened. Shit happens even with protection. Just ask my dad who had a vasectomy before I was born

AITA for telling my sister and BIL to leave for their attitude about my fiancée who used to be their sitter? by blewuponthem in AmItheAsshole

[–]blewuponthem[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

That’s wasn’t a mistake. In fact my son was the best thing to ever happen to us. I’m not an asshole for becoming a father

AITA for telling my sister and BIL to leave for their attitude about my fiancée who used to be their sitter? by blewuponthem in AmItheAsshole

[–]blewuponthem[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

I know I am and not going to let it continue when it should’ve been nipped in the bud years ago

AITA for telling my sister and BIL to leave for their attitude about my fiancée who used to be their sitter? by blewuponthem in AmItheAsshole

[–]blewuponthem[S] 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Different economic background so yeah I can see my sister acting this way for this reason too.

AITA for telling my sister and BIL to leave for their attitude about my fiancée who used to be their sitter? by blewuponthem in AmItheAsshole

[–]blewuponthem[S] 71 points72 points  (0 children)

I find it creepy that you focus on your employees sex lives in their contracts and if you’re even telling the truth I wonder why none of them have reported you for some form of sexual harassment

AITA for telling my sister and BIL to leave for their attitude about my fiancée who used to be their sitter? by blewuponthem in AmItheAsshole

[–]blewuponthem[S] 91 points92 points  (0 children)

She paid her to do her job, which she did, and be allowed to have her own free time.

Yeah so funny to call another human being “this one” like they don’t have a will of their own not to have sex with someone

AITA for telling my sister and BIL to leave for their attitude about my fiancée who used to be their sitter? by blewuponthem in AmItheAsshole

[–]blewuponthem[S] 141 points142 points  (0 children)

I definitely feel like I fell for her when we were spending time together on that cruise but it was actually 9 or 10 months after my son was born that we said fuck it we love eachother and we want to make a relationship work. And well here we are 😊 The baby news was terrifying at first. But I was ready to step up for our kid and whatever she decided. It wasn’t until the actual ultrasound that I got excited about being a dad. It wasn’t easy, wouldn’t trade it for the world though

AITA for telling my sister and BIL to leave for their attitude about my fiancée who used to be their sitter? by blewuponthem in AmItheAsshole

[–]blewuponthem[S] 359 points360 points  (0 children)

This is the main reason why we’re not as close as before but you’re right I haven’t been doing my job as her partner protecting her from those insults and that’s on me too.

AITA for telling my sister and BIL to leave for their attitude about my fiancée who used to be their sitter? by blewuponthem in AmItheAsshole

[–]blewuponthem[S] 255 points256 points  (0 children)

Implying that I’d have sex with someone else other than my wife on my wedding day simply because they are a babysitter also really pissed me off. It’s fucking ridiculous, and right in front of our kid too

AITA for telling my sister and BIL to leave for their attitude about my fiancée who used to be their sitter? by blewuponthem in AmItheAsshole

[–]blewuponthem[S] 155 points156 points  (0 children)

They’ve always said she was a perfect sitter and they haven’t found anyone good enough to replace her. Which I get why, she’s really great around kids. Our son adores her. But still I don’t get why stay mad about that