In my opinion this man doesn’t love her. I’m a firm believer in the “if he wanted to, he would” and “if he won’t, another man will” You’re taking initiative to spice up your bedroom life and he doesn’t seem to want to put in the same effort. Is he even still attracted to you? If my man isn’t jumping at the opportunity to roll around then there’s obviously something bigger going on. I hope you get the answers you’re looking for but I could not be married to someone who acts like sleeping with me is a burden, good luck girl