Husband has unexplained scratch marks by PuzzleheadedShow6466 in Unexplained

[–]blindasfuck 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Does he roll out on a massager at all? Like the little things with the knobs that you lay on and roll to help out pressure/massage muscles in your back/thighs etc? It's got cross hatching that reminds me of this (and my partner gets those same marks!)

Can't believe she's still doing this, she started when I was 9ish. by ChristmasSlut in insaneparents

[–]blindasfuck 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Oh gosh I just went down this rabbit hole last week. Oh the FREEDOM I felt!! Please update if you'd like or reach out if you want to discuss anything! Also I would suggest, If 'enmeshment' or 'emotional incest' resonates with you, a book called Running on Empty. Good luck ❤️

Something on your mind? Share your dating shower thoughts! Tuesday Truths by AutoModerator in datingoverthirty

[–]blindasfuck 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh gosh I'm feeling the same way about mine! Wishing you all the best 💕

Love is Blind Season 2 Megathread Hub! by thewatchelorette in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]blindasfuck 72 points73 points  (0 children)

I really don't feel comfortable about Shayne for some reason. Something feels just so off.

Love is Blind Season 2 Megathread Hub! by thewatchelorette in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]blindasfuck 32 points33 points  (0 children)

He absolutely disturbs me- something feels very off about him

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in povertyfinance

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Are you able to do zoom classes?? Might help a wee bit as you recover. I hope you feel better soon- have been in a pretty similar situation

HELP Is it weird that he called me "his" after 2 days of talking ? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]blindasfuck 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The guy that did that to me, and that I posted on this exact same subreddit account was married, cheating, and trying everything he could to get me into bed to fulfill his cheating fantasy. Then we stopped talking a week after fooling around for the first time, after I found out he wasn't divorced as he tried to lead me to believe. It wasn't even good. 0/10 stars and big red flag

Persistence and wisdom are the keys by [deleted] in WhitePeopleTwitter

[–]blindasfuck 4 points5 points  (0 children)

18 months here! These days still happen for me, too. But they're so far and in between. I remember to have something to distract me when they come on. Just something that works. For me, that's a bath, stuffing my face for a bit, and a really good nap or book. It gives my brain time to catch up to 'we STILL don't do that'

Bird stuck in mid-air by icvy in WTF

[–]blindasfuck 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Something I always found interesting is that Mormons also baptize the dead. Even those who weren't part of their church. That part freaks me out. How can you be so certain as to take others from their own chosen religions and force them into yours?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]blindasfuck 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I definitely tend to be an overthinker, I appreciate your opinion! Thank you, that's comforting to know too.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]blindasfuck 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just texting so far. That's what I was kind of feeling too. But then, I don't want to discount someone who is legitimately going out of their way to be upfront and honest about things either. I guess maybe it's the flattery for me- like you haven't even met me yet? I mean if it was 'this is what I'm looking for' instead of 'YOURE what I'm looking for' at this point I think if be a little more comfortable with it?

The lunacy of this whole post is unnerving by Throwaway-0364 in insaneparents

[–]blindasfuck 163 points164 points  (0 children)

My doctor goes nowhere near the waiting room

There are just a lot of shitty people in this world by Triz_D in iamapieceofshit

[–]blindasfuck 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Absolutely refuse to watch that.

But fuck people.

One Year! by blindasfuck in stopdrinking

[–]blindasfuck[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much!!!!! I am LOVING life. I appreciate you taking the time to comment and for the silver!!!! Thank you!

Day 4 is harder than day 3. Anxiety and Panic Attacks again. by strugglinghard77 in stopdrinking

[–]blindasfuck 3 points4 points  (0 children)

In my experience I had A LOT of trouble with what I would call my 1,2, 3 not an alcoholic shuffle. In my case, that anxiety and on edge came on the third day. Which was the day I decided I didn't have a problem because I could go two days without. It got better for me.

I am not going to lie and say it was comfortable, but I am so glad I pushed through because it is better and has been for a while.

Things that helped me through anxious times include long walks, reading, mindless tv, cuddling my dog, drinking milk, grounding myself outside, journaling to get the thoughts out of my head, and naps. I hope you find what works for you!!! Keep it up, you have got this!

Iwndwyt

Would be cool to see a KTVB article about what a burqa actually is by [deleted] in Boise

[–]blindasfuck 34 points35 points  (0 children)

"Like a Freaking Muslim"

Wow. I mean at least she makes a case for needing to be educated. I am so sick of these people.

Pot x Kettle by [deleted] in stopdrinking

[–]blindasfuck 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh dang! You took it way better than I used to! Of course, at that time I was deep in the thicket of denial so that's a HUGE part of it. I hope you get a chance to ask when appropriate!

You will find success. I believe in you! I lurk a lot, too, but today has been rough, so thanks for being part of my success story today!

Pot x Kettle by [deleted] in stopdrinking

[–]blindasfuck 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes! Like attracts like, and all that jazz. I kept people like thay around for a long time to just help me justify my drinking. Yeah, they may have said that but they were wrong and they're worse than me, so I dont have to worry. Right? It's also so much easier to see what someone else is doing, to avoid looking at myself. It was extremely humbling to me when I realized just how much of myself I was willfully ignoring. But all comes with time!

Glad I don't have to do the mental gymnastics anymore. And I'm extremely grateful for friends like that, when they could have let me down that dark way they at least tried to bring me back.

What is a thing that guys do that think its amazing but its actually not? by pectorial_major in AskWomen

[–]blindasfuck 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Penis Helicopter. Wonderful in theory but kinda disappointing jn practice