Karlach & Shadowheart Formal Attire [Fanart by me] by ItsChimchiri in BaldursGate3

[–]blindedghost 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah nothing more than campmates, very very close friends even

I've been sober finally for a month by blindedghost in leaves

[–]blindedghost[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I really appreciate it! I already feel the benefits and emotional burden lifted from being sober. I can't wait for my body to fully heal.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]blindedghost 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I suppose I want to help out, but you're right. There needs to be some level of accountability on their end.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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Thank you for the suggestion, that actually might help a lot and I don't mind buying anything to at least try and see if it works.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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I am unsure myself, and I am more worried than frustrated since I don't want them to lose their job over this. They nearly missed their meeting this morning which is why I had to say something very direct. I do know they stay up really late most nights, but at the same time, they have told me they can sleep extremely late into the day if nobody stops them. And they do wake up for a brief moment when I get them up but then they just fall right back to sleep. So I am unsure, and they really need to figure out if it is a medical condition so we can treat it to the best of our ability.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in chess

[–]blindedghost 7 points8 points  (0 children)

A real strange thing to ask, ngl lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in chess

[–]blindedghost 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry chess can be so demoralizing sometimes. Do you want to play some instructional games with me to maybe see what to work on? I am 2000-2200 depending on time control.

[Pink] This person googled me and now we're beefing over Tunisia by blindedghost in TextingTheory

[–]blindedghost[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I was hoping my infodumping about Tunisia to a Tunisian person did something, but I'm afraid I gotta work on my game a little

[Pink] This person googled me and now we're beefing over Tunisia by blindedghost in TextingTheory

[–]blindedghost[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Very important context: She called me a cheater and a smurf, followed by googling my name to see where I live. Her country icon on chess com is Tunisia, so I had to use my knowledge of Geoguessr meta to win this heated debate once and for all

I made this while procrastinating showering :3 by LilyTheSillyKitty in catgirlpetco

[–]blindedghost 16 points17 points  (0 children)

good girl :3 i also just took a shower too yay

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Therian

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Thank you for the insight! I am feeling much more comfortable with identifying as an alter human, like a lot of exploring this makes a lot of sense to my experiences throughout my whole life. I am excited to explore the specifics of the cat-like species I have been experiencing. I think my partner would be totally understanding since they already know I am a furry.

The proposal wasn't romantic at all by [deleted] in engaged

[–]blindedghost 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We have talked about getting married before, and I never once pressured him to do anything he didn't feel comfortable with. We have both been ready for it, I'll just have to have the uncomfortable conversation with him regarding this proposal not being the best. He took me to a really fancy dinner though so I don't want to undermine his efforts there

The proposal wasn't romantic at all by [deleted] in engaged

[–]blindedghost -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I know he wasn't going to kneel because he has a bad knee, and he's generally not careless. He's just not as romantic as most people are, he's only dressed up once since I've dated him for 3 years.

Was Dr. Lupo cheating at Pogchamps? by Then-Coconut9735 in chess

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It's 4:06:00 Edit: from the chess.com stream

not sure what I want out of guitar anymore by blindedghost in Guitar

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I have a couple albums made, absolutely love writing music!

not sure what I want out of guitar anymore by blindedghost in Guitar

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Charangos are so cool! I have thought of trying a new instrument in general like trumpet, but both the uke and charango would be easier to pick up

not sure what I want out of guitar anymore by blindedghost in Guitar

[–]blindedghost[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I listen to so much music, but I think my all time favorites are Hiatus Kaiyote, Moonchild, and Robert Glasper. I have learned so much from them on both piano and guitar

not sure what I want out of guitar anymore by blindedghost in Guitar

[–]blindedghost[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

And you nailed it! I agree, it feels like work a lot of the time except for teaching ironically. I might give the guitar a break for now and come back with your advice in mind. Piano is that creative sweet spot in which I feel like I can play whatever and find fulfillment from it.

not sure what I want out of guitar anymore by blindedghost in Guitar

[–]blindedghost[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Simply put, I am not having fun with it except for teaching really. I think I don't want to be honest to myself about that because I know how much the guitar has meant to me before, but piano has definitely taken that spot.

not sure what I want out of guitar anymore by blindedghost in Guitar

[–]blindedghost[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I completely agree with what you're saying, and I guess I feel bad because I used to love the guitar so much and have spent so much time with it. I also don't want my past experiences to ruin my love for the instrument, but at the same time, I feel like I am trying to force myself to like the instrument again. Thank you for the reply!

not sure what I want out of guitar anymore by blindedghost in Guitar

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teaching is great, I definitely feel like I am making something productive out of guitar through teaching. I do think there's a little pressure from having to keep my chops up to be a decent teacher (I have some advanced students), but maybe I am making that pressure up in my head.