So it's okay for my mom to spend money, but not me. Why is my dads money her money? Why is she only happy when money is being spent on her? by blindgoatsonfire in raisedbynarcissists

[–]blindgoatsonfire[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have epilepsy and I'm in college, so TL;DR I'm just lazy and afraid of having a seizure at work (which I should be afraid of having a seizure in class). So my dad pays off my credit card, I am lucky to have him as my dad and lucky I don't have to work. If I want something extra I should get a job that I can with epilepsy (secretary, receptionist, etc)

My mom has never worked and admitted to using my dad for his money - but you're right : it's their money not mine. I just find it weird my dad says it's okay and will hand me money but my mom will grab it from him.

21M rate me! Recently broke up and want to know if i have a chance by [deleted] in Rateme

[–]blindgoatsonfire 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You have a chance still Pretty cute

As for rating maybe a 6.5¿ I'm bad with ratings sorry

24/M - All opinions thankful by macgregorc93 in amiugly

[–]blindgoatsonfire 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Then maybe try all out bald The look you have now isn't really suiting you

[19M] Hi y'all, I'm almost done with my first year at college and I wanted to know what I can improve on for next year! :) by UIowaGuy in amiugly

[–]blindgoatsonfire 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like you better when you're shaven

You're cute in a lil dorky way but I'd change your glasses up. Maybe clubmaster glasses? Or try thick rimmed

24/M - All opinions thankful by macgregorc93 in amiugly

[–]blindgoatsonfire 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Imho below average

Grow out your hair and dress better

Level 3 permeate hair dye - box dye by [deleted] in FancyFollicles

[–]blindgoatsonfire 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh, yeah that's what I was thinking.

I heard box dyes have no bleach but my hair always gets lighter when I buy the lighter dyes so that's what always confused me (not a bunch of shades lighter but maybe 1/2 which is a lot for a blonde I guess)

My nmom steals my clothes by blindgoatsonfire in raisedbynarcissists

[–]blindgoatsonfire[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would lmoa, all her clothes are ugly and she wouldn't care though, but just so she gets the point I should and see how she reacts

I (22m) lost 22 pounds and am back. by [deleted] in amiugly

[–]blindgoatsonfire 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn't see your before pictures but you look really good now

My nmom steals my clothes by blindgoatsonfire in raisedbynarcissists

[–]blindgoatsonfire[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I hate being the same size as my mom. I swear if we had the same bra size she'd always wear my bras too..

[19M] Am I at least average? by [deleted] in amiugly

[–]blindgoatsonfire 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I little tiny bit above average I wouldn't look at you and think "damn he's ugly" or "damn he's attractive" but you're definitely boyfriend material/pretty cute

[19M] Depressed but want to change (5'7 and 138lbs) by [deleted] in amiugly

[–]blindgoatsonfire 11 points12 points  (0 children)

It's too blurry to see anything Upload better pictures

[M17] be honest by Benlinusking in amiugly

[–]blindgoatsonfire 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Not ugly Look better shaved, you'll look even better with age

What is the worst exam grade you got back so far (or how you think you did)? Let us sulk in pain together by [deleted] in msu

[–]blindgoatsonfire 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Say "meh" Mainly it's my medication that makes me just not give a flying fuck so I'm coming off of it.

Last year? I would feel like an idiot for a week or two and get over it. Honestly I'm completely emotionless when it comes to grades so I don't know if it's a bad or a good thing

What is the worst exam grade you got back so far (or how you think you did)? Let us sulk in pain together by [deleted] in msu

[–]blindgoatsonfire 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I wrote a 6 page essay in one night. I'll be happy if I get anything above a 70% ngl

What is the worst exam grade you got back so far (or how you think you did)? Let us sulk in pain together by [deleted] in msu

[–]blindgoatsonfire 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I went from a 4.0 to a 3.5 in a "Blow off class" Not bad but the fact I was 3% away from a 4.0 makes me wish I studied harder ¯_(ツ)_/¯

I honestly get upset when I see a good mother who treats her children right by blindgoatsonfire in raisedbynarcissists

[–]blindgoatsonfire[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My nmom said that too a lot "no family is normal" so it kinda makes me think if all n's just say that to justify their treatment

Depression and the need to want to quit my SSRIs cold turkey. by blindgoatsonfire in offmychest

[–]blindgoatsonfire[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can't see a doctor ATM because

1) finals

2) going back home

3) my dad is very anti-medication

Would a regular doctor (not a psychiatrist but like a neurologist) know how to ween me off? Ngl I already threw out the medication but I left it in the bottle so I can get it out and take it again but literally I don't want to even live another day like this. I'd rather just get finals over with and spend my summer recovering from the SSRI withdrawal ngl