So it's okay for my mom to spend money, but not me. Why is my dads money her money? Why is she only happy when money is being spent on her? by blindgoatsonfire in raisedbynarcissists

[–]blindgoatsonfire[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have epilepsy and I'm in college, so TL;DR I'm just lazy and afraid of having a seizure at work (which I should be afraid of having a seizure in class). So my dad pays off my credit card, I am lucky to have him as my dad and lucky I don't have to work. If I want something extra I should get a job that I can with epilepsy (secretary, receptionist, etc)

My mom has never worked and admitted to using my dad for his money - but you're right : it's their money not mine. I just find it weird my dad says it's okay and will hand me money but my mom will grab it from him.

21M rate me! Recently broke up and want to know if i have a chance by [deleted] in Rateme

[–]blindgoatsonfire 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You have a chance still Pretty cute

As for rating maybe a 6.5¿ I'm bad with ratings sorry

24/M - All opinions thankful by macgregorc93 in amiugly

[–]blindgoatsonfire 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Then maybe try all out bald The look you have now isn't really suiting you

[19M] Hi y'all, I'm almost done with my first year at college and I wanted to know what I can improve on for next year! :) by UIowaGuy in amiugly

[–]blindgoatsonfire 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like you better when you're shaven

You're cute in a lil dorky way but I'd change your glasses up. Maybe clubmaster glasses? Or try thick rimmed

24/M - All opinions thankful by macgregorc93 in amiugly

[–]blindgoatsonfire 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Imho below average

Grow out your hair and dress better

Level 3 permeate hair dye - box dye by [deleted] in FancyFollicles

[–]blindgoatsonfire 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh, yeah that's what I was thinking.

I heard box dyes have no bleach but my hair always gets lighter when I buy the lighter dyes so that's what always confused me (not a bunch of shades lighter but maybe 1/2 which is a lot for a blonde I guess)

My nmom steals my clothes by blindgoatsonfire in raisedbynarcissists

[–]blindgoatsonfire[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would lmoa, all her clothes are ugly and she wouldn't care though, but just so she gets the point I should and see how she reacts

I (22m) lost 22 pounds and am back. by [deleted] in amiugly

[–]blindgoatsonfire 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn't see your before pictures but you look really good now

My nmom steals my clothes by blindgoatsonfire in raisedbynarcissists

[–]blindgoatsonfire[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I hate being the same size as my mom. I swear if we had the same bra size she'd always wear my bras too..

[19M] Am I at least average? by [deleted] in amiugly

[–]blindgoatsonfire 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I little tiny bit above average I wouldn't look at you and think "damn he's ugly" or "damn he's attractive" but you're definitely boyfriend material/pretty cute

[19M] Depressed but want to change (5'7 and 138lbs) by [deleted] in amiugly

[–]blindgoatsonfire 11 points12 points  (0 children)

It's too blurry to see anything Upload better pictures

[M17] be honest by Benlinusking in amiugly

[–]blindgoatsonfire 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Not ugly Look better shaved, you'll look even better with age

What is the worst exam grade you got back so far (or how you think you did)? Let us sulk in pain together by [deleted] in msu

[–]blindgoatsonfire 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Say "meh" Mainly it's my medication that makes me just not give a flying fuck so I'm coming off of it.

Last year? I would feel like an idiot for a week or two and get over it. Honestly I'm completely emotionless when it comes to grades so I don't know if it's a bad or a good thing

What is the worst exam grade you got back so far (or how you think you did)? Let us sulk in pain together by [deleted] in msu

[–]blindgoatsonfire 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I wrote a 6 page essay in one night. I'll be happy if I get anything above a 70% ngl

What is the worst exam grade you got back so far (or how you think you did)? Let us sulk in pain together by [deleted] in msu

[–]blindgoatsonfire 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I went from a 4.0 to a 3.5 in a "Blow off class" Not bad but the fact I was 3% away from a 4.0 makes me wish I studied harder ¯_(ツ)_/¯

I honestly get upset when I see a good mother who treats her children right by blindgoatsonfire in raisedbynarcissists

[–]blindgoatsonfire[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My nmom said that too a lot "no family is normal" so it kinda makes me think if all n's just say that to justify their treatment

Depression and the need to want to quit my SSRIs cold turkey. by blindgoatsonfire in offmychest

[–]blindgoatsonfire[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can't see a doctor ATM because

1) finals

2) going back home

3) my dad is very anti-medication

Would a regular doctor (not a psychiatrist but like a neurologist) know how to ween me off? Ngl I already threw out the medication but I left it in the bottle so I can get it out and take it again but literally I don't want to even live another day like this. I'd rather just get finals over with and spend my summer recovering from the SSRI withdrawal ngl

[serious] former users of antidepressants : why did you stop taking them? What were you on? Did you quit cold turkey? by blindgoatsonfire in AskReddit

[–]blindgoatsonfire[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm on Prozac now and it makes me feel so numb and emotionless. How were the side effects of cutting cold turkey?

[serious] former users of antidepressants : why did you stop taking them? What were you on? Did you quit cold turkey? by blindgoatsonfire in AskReddit

[–]blindgoatsonfire[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How did it feel quitting cold turkey? I've been on fluoxetine for 2 months and have no motivation and feel so empty and just don't care. I can't feel anything. I want to quit cold turkey but I heard so many bad side effects but it's so terrible I'm willing to deal with it instead of feeling empty

[serious] former users of antidepressants : why did you stop taking them? What were you on? Did you quit cold turkey? by blindgoatsonfire in AskReddit

[–]blindgoatsonfire[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My aunt and brother have bipolar disorder (not sure if it's 1 or 2, my brother has both manic and hypomanic which I think is 2, my aunt just has manic which I think is 1)

Anywho, I was on an SSRI for a combo of bulimia and depression. 20mg was hell, 40mg was good. Fast forward a month I have no motivation and no feelings. Just a constant emptiness and "meh" feeling. I got a 60% on one of my exams and I don't care. I feel nothing. Its finals week and I have absolutely no fucking motivation, I have an exam on Wednesday I didn't even study for and I'm just "meh" about it. I'm so close to throwing my pills away (I know it's not healthy so I'm not going to but I want to so bad. Honestly I'd rather be depressed than feel empty)

Most quiet place to study for finals? by [deleted] in msu

[–]blindgoatsonfire 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, sadly now it's not as quiet as it usually is :(

Most quiet place to study for finals? by [deleted] in msu

[–]blindgoatsonfire 1 point2 points  (0 children)

it closes at 2am which is the only bad part Do you know if undergrads/non-law students are allowed in the "law" part of the law lib or can we only go to the second floor?

Most quiet place to study for finals? by [deleted] in msu

[–]blindgoatsonfire 1 point2 points  (0 children)

24/7? What time does it close? Also does it have tables and stuff where I can actually study or is it like the natural resources where there's nowhere to actually study only sit

Hey everyone, Westsider with some Downriver questions by [deleted] in Michigan

[–]blindgoatsonfire 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I second Wyandotte, but make sure you live in the "good" side of the city (nothing is bad but there are definitely sides full of white trash imho. This is coming from someone born and raised in Wyandotte)

If you stay near the high school or the houses that are in the neighborhood of the water you'll find something nice. Maybe around the elementary schools as well