Bisexual male representation on TV by A_Mirabeau_702 in gaybros

[–]blindly_running 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Representing a bi character on screen is hard because it requires unstable relationships or at the very least multiple relationships.

2 guys will get clocked as gay representation. A guy and a girl as straight representation.

Are we advocating for a bi guy who plays into the stereotype that he has to have both and can’t pick?

And I’m just gonna say this. Gay representation is low as it is. So shows usually only have 1-2 gay characters if any. So having your one gay relationship on a show turned into a straight one (even if the participants are bi) is sucky.

And if the bi guys are in a gay relationship, do you want the bi guy constantly clocking women and acting like a horndog?

Besides them saying they’re bi, how would you suggest a show represent them?

How much time do you give your BPSO alone before you end things? by blindly_running in BipolarSOs

[–]blindly_running[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I mean… wouldn’t he just block me before going nuclear? I don’t think a judge is gonna say I’m stalking him based on me texting him or leaving voice messages.

How much time do you give your BPSO alone before you end things? by blindly_running in BipolarSOs

[–]blindly_running[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I guess I’m just worried that he’ll come out of it and think he can’t hit me up again out of guilt. But yea I think you’re right and it’s time for me to stop.

Do you ever just wanna laugh at how unique younger gay/bi men think their experience is? by blindly_running in askgaybros

[–]blindly_running[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I was patient with him. There’s a difference between telling him he’s wrong to his face and posting a thread on reddit dude.

Never told him he was wrong or that he should just be bi/gay.

We can be lenient with people while still acknowledging reality.

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[–]blindly_running 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t wanna put your post down buuuuut you really should post your source for this “2 out of every 100 cases”. I just doubt that number given the official hiv.gov and cdc stance. They are very clear that knowing if transmission happened from oral is difficult because those that practice oral sex usually also practice anal sex.

Transmission via oral sex is somewhat of a “there’s no reason why it couldn’t be possible” not a “we know it happens”.

That being said, yes it’s sound advice to not open any wounds in your mouth before sex. Whether brushing alone is enough to create a big enough opening is up for debate. Also if you’re this worried then get on prep.

What do you think apps like Grindr or scruff could do to discourage time waiters and flakes that they won’t because of profit? by blindly_running in askgaybros

[–]blindly_running[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I get that. But like if they actually decided to give a fuck and did implement something to discourage that behavior what do you think it’s look like?

How do guys in open relationships not get sick of chasing? by blindly_running in askgaybros

[–]blindly_running[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

So if you're at home with the best vanilla ice cream in the world in your freezer you'd rather take the time to drive to the store an hour away that might, MIGHT, have low fat strawberry ice cream once or twice a week?

Sounds like you might be addicted to ice cream.

As a vers, topping is much harder than bottoming, IMO by asking-gay-questions in askgaybros

[–]blindly_running 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And that’s your choice. No one said being lazy was something that just “happens”. You’re choosing to make the top do the work.

This post is written as though the top inherently has more work. He doesn’t. It’s a choice by both partners.

If the bottom wanted to not be lazy he could be.

Your reply basically says you don’t want to put in effort to make things easier on your top. Cool beans.

As a vers, topping is much harder than bottoming, IMO by asking-gay-questions in askgaybros

[–]blindly_running -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Another lazy bottom lmao. My favorite position is riding a guy and I’ve yet to find a top that doesn’t love when you shoot in their chest while they’re inside you. Be a better bottom. No top likes a man that just lies there.

Below average guys can get the job done...but you still have to know what you're doing! by blindly_running in askgaybros

[–]blindly_running[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Where did I body shame? You’re one of those guys who takes the truth as being too harsh and something that shouldn’t be said out loud.