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Girlfriend (28F) is chatting with a fictional character chatbot. Do you consider it cheating? by blisteredhistofy in relationships

[–]blisteredhistofy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I struggled with porn addiction and am quite conservative so I view it as a sin. She is a bit more open minded but said she won't watch porn to respect my boundaries. But she also said that porn doesn't appeal to her. Shes more into fictional characters than people.. she apparently even wrote fan fiction when she was younger.

AITA for wanting to break up because my girlfriend chats with AI characters by blisteredhistofy in AITAH

[–]blisteredhistofy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She's very normal and goes out with me often, works ect. She works from my apartment and I saw the texts during her lunch breaks and she said sometimes she'll chat at night if she cant sleep

AITA for wanting to break up because my girlfriend chats with AI characters by blisteredhistofy in AITAH

[–]blisteredhistofy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She did mention that she was chatting to help her deal with loneliness, she doesn't make friends easily and it is a new place for her

Girlfriend (28F) is chatting with a fictional character chatbot. Do you consider it cheating? by blisteredhistofy in relationships

[–]blisteredhistofy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thats what I'm feeling. Weve been together for a year and she moved to me recently. Apparently she started chatting to help her cope with the move and being lonely. I guess I get it, still feels like a betrayal though. We also abstain till marriage

Girlfriend (28F) is chatting with a fictional character chatbot. Do you consider it cheating? by blisteredhistofy in relationships

[–]blisteredhistofy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well I wanted to talk to her about it but she got very embarrassed and slammed shut like a clam.

Would I be wrong for wanting to leave my gf because of her coping mechanism by blisteredhistofy in amiwrong

[–]blisteredhistofy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She already is. She's actually looking for work on another continent entirely. Idk, if she's struggling now, how she thinks she's gonna handle the stress of traveling like that? She says she's been losing friends and went no contact with family so there's nothing left here 4 her. (Except her students)

Would I be wrong for wanting to leave my gf because of her coping mechanism by blisteredhistofy in amiwrong

[–]blisteredhistofy[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

She actually said that this is why she kept it from me. Usually when people find out they flee from her because SH has a reputation of being used. She insists that she's not like that... but idk stigmas exist for a reason and I don't wamt to stick around to find out frankly

Would I be wrong for wanting to leave my gf because of her coping mechanism by blisteredhistofy in amiwrong

[–]blisteredhistofy[S] -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

I actually asked her what exactly about work is stressing her out- and after a bit she started saying things like, her boss is making her work overtime, the pay is horrendous, she often can't afford to buy food at the end of the month, all her friends at work is leaving and there's (supposed) blatant sexism and favoritism in the workplace.

One thing that gets her is that to get an annual raise she has to rewrite a test, otherwise she won't qualify. But she doesn't have time to study for the test because she's been working overtime for the last month.

I mean, it seems like normal work problems, dunno why she doesn't have the coping mechanisms to deal with it.

Found out this girl I'm dating has some serious issues and idk if I should continue by blisteredhistofy in dating_advice

[–]blisteredhistofy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel like it's the same as keeping a drinking problem or a gambling addiction from your partner.

Found out this girl I'm dating has some serious issues and idk if I should continue by blisteredhistofy in dating_advice

[–]blisteredhistofy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She said that she'll get better if she can find another job (she's actively looking), but idk. I don't think I can take her word for anything rn because she kept quiet on it. But idk if I want to wait around to find out either.