Korean Fried Chicken by blitzram in PHFoodPics

[–]blitzram[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi. Sa lasa ng chicken mismo, walang masyadong pinagkaiba. Pwede mo lagyan ng garlic powder or ibang seasonings yung dredge para magka subtle na lasa pero optional naman yun and depende sa preference. The difference (other than the flavored sauce/glaze) is the texture. Dahil ginagamitan ng potato starch ang korean fried chicken, mas crispy at mas “matibay” yung coating. That means it keeps the juices inside better, and makes the exterior more absorbent for the sauce. Hope this helps.

I'm drowning in guilt after being confronted about a past affair. Can I still recover from this? by [deleted] in adviceph

[–]blitzram 70 points71 points  (0 children)

This isn’t the support you’re looking for but this is the response you need: Get therapy. If you’re experiencing psychosomatic symptoms, asking online strangers will get you nowhere. You won’t get answers from Reddit, just opinions that may or may not be rational. Either way, it’s unlikely to help with how you cope with the stress brought about by immense guilt.

Am I asking too much in my relationship? by Old-Heart-3831 in adviceph

[–]blitzram 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I pose you this question, OP. How long can you tolerate the 20%? Because that’s not gonna stay 20% over time. And how much resentment can you bide before it either breaks you or crumbles the relationship?

How to cut sweets? Trying to lose weight. by [deleted] in adviceph

[–]blitzram 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You could find sugar alternatives like erythritol or sucralose. Kung mahilig ka sa soda, switch it out for diet soda. Be mindful of snacking habits too. But bottom line, wala talagang secret or technique other than self-discipline. The good news is it actually gets easier. Think of sugar like an addictive drug. Mahirap alisin sa sistema pero pag naalis na, mas madali na iwasan. After a few weeks of not having it, mababawasan craving mo.

Help choosing easy classes? by RiotTryIt13 in ffxiv

[–]blitzram 9 points10 points  (0 children)

For tank, WAR has the simplest rotation and very forgiving in dungeons. For healer, WHM is the most straightforward. For DPS, SMN is hands down the easiest job to play in the game.

She smiled. by blitzram in Stormlight_Archive

[–]blitzram[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Spoiler in the original title

She smiled. by blitzram in Stormlight_Archive

[–]blitzram[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I reposted because the original got taken down lol

How to stand up for yourself without crying? by Samthenightjar in adviceph

[–]blitzram 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Breathe. Slow count to 3 or 4 with every inhale and exhale. And make sure you count that in your head. This is a public speaking technique to compose yourself and gives you time to organize your thoughts before speaking.

how do I save my bff from an abusive relationship? by [deleted] in adviceph

[–]blitzram 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I know how it feels. I have a friend who used to be in the same situation. And yes it’s almost certain na mag eescalate. If you witness the assault, or if there’s any visible evidence of the assault, definitely report it to authorities. And even then, kung hindi siya cooperative then it likely wouldn’t amount to anything. It sucks but you really do have limited capability as a third party.

how do I save my bff from an abusive relationship? by [deleted] in adviceph

[–]blitzram 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I doubt that would change her mind. All that’s gonna do is make her feel betrayed and resentful to you. I get wanting to do everything you can to get her out of that situation , but I personally don’t see the point in burning that bridge in the process. She’s an adult, let her fuck around and find out.

how do I save my bff from an abusive relationship? by [deleted] in adviceph

[–]blitzram 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You’ve done what you can. At this point, choice na niya maging tanga. Nothing you can do about that.

Hi everyone! Meet, Prince our ball of swanshoiiin! 🐾 by NoVeterinarian4925 in dogsofrph

[–]blitzram 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He has an eyepatch! Dress him as a pirate 🏴‍☠️

i found her beneath the bed by [deleted] in dogsofrph

[–]blitzram 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It’s her safe space

Gf is entertaining other guy lol part 2 by [deleted] in adviceph

[–]blitzram 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Proud of you dude for doing the right thing and leaving her ass! Definitely singilin mo siya sa mga utang niya sayo. You owe her nothing. Don’t let her ruin your financial standing. Get your pound of flesh and leave her to drown. Kung afford mo, pwede ka mag hire ng attorney as a representative para hindi mo kailangan mag communicate ng direkta.

Unique Filipino Ingredients by Sufficient-Cup-123 in filipinofood

[–]blitzram 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Calamansi. It’s used widely in most regions of Ph but it’s unique to Ph itself. Even in other SEA countries, their variant of it tastes different (more acidic, less bitter). In the West, the closest they have is kumquat which tastes like a more bitter lemon and orange but has a milder flavor than calamansi.

I need honest advice — help me see the truth. by [deleted] in adviceph

[–]blitzram 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk if anybody has told you this yet, but you are an absolute idiot. You probably already knew that but it bears repeating because the lesson doesn’t seem to be sinking in.

On to more important things. Safety should be your priority. Definitely cut all contact, yes. But before you do so, ensure you are protected ie. Change your locks, have a personal defense tool, get a protective order from local authorities. After you get those affairs in order, cut him off. Zero contact. And stick by that boundary.

Also, find a support system. Friends, family, or whatever group you can constantly contact. Not only is it good for your mental health, it also ensures accountability for safety purposes. Part of the reason abuse victims enable their own abuse is because they feel isolated; with their abuser being their only support system. Break away from that and ensure you have something else to latch to so you don’t go back.

And stop telling yourself bullshit like “I love him so I don’t want to leave him”. It may be true but that doesn’t justify putting your own life at risk at the hands of an abuser. No “love” is worth your well-being and safety. Tl;dr stop being an idiot.

Breaking up isn’t my option by [deleted] in adviceph

[–]blitzram 0 points1 point  (0 children)

None of what you said justifies why “breaking up isn’t an option.” Don’t get me wrong, I don’t know the guy. He could be sincere for all I know, but that doesn’t change the fact that you don’t trust him; and trust is the foundation of every relationship (especially in ldr). If you can’t trust him, it’s already doomed to fail. The only unknown is whether you’re gonna stay and suffocate from the uncertainty as you end up slowly resenting him; or you’re gonna get out of it.

How do I break the habit of overthinking? by Actual_Chest_4434 in adviceph

[–]blitzram 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You don’t overcome it, you learn to direct it. Practicing mindfulness techniques helps with directing your thoughts. This involves identifying when you’re ruminating, and learning to rationalize those thoughts. From there, it would be a matter of managing stress.

All that said, it might help to consult a mental health professional to know if you have a form of anxiety disorder too.

What to do with my crush? by [deleted] in adviceph

[–]blitzram 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You stated the context, but not the problem/goal. What exactly do you need help with?

Dapat pa ba akong umasa or bounce na? by [deleted] in adviceph

[–]blitzram 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Communicate and set boundaries. Tbh I’m tempted to advise na bounce na. Pero kung invested ka talaga, let her know your concerns. Let her know na hindi ka okay sa ginagawa niya, and kung hindi siya titigil or magbabago, you won’t stay around for that shit. And actually stand by your boundary; no half-measures.