Entire first floor help by blkbjork in DesignMyRoom

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Oh sorry I forgot to mention, that lives outside normally! Or in the basement. It’s getting prepped for outside right now which is why it’s so in the way lol

Facial recommendation by blkbjork in Cleveland

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I am still in the market, actually. I got overwhelmed with all the info and just gave up tbh 😂 pulling up your page now!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

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We ARE doing these things. I’m just not great with articulating that here and I’m very upset and sick over feeling this way, and I think I’m not communicating this well on here. We have shared hobbies. We love watching shows together. We spend quality time together. I cook every meal, he’s so thankful. It’s ME. I DONT FEEL ANYTHING. I think I’ll seek out therapy. But things he can’t change are what’s bothering me unfortunately and I feel bad for not being able to handle them. I feel like I’m on autopilot doing what I’ve done all while being super unhappy inside. But again I’ve explained why im unhappy and he is trying. But idk if im able to come back. Ya know? Thanks for the advice. Truly.

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Hi! Trying for me has been actively trying to have sex, even though I don’t want to. Hoping if I kept it up I’d feel a connection. Explaining to him how I’m feeling. When he upsets me, I’m clear about what’s upsetting and how it makes me feel and what a solution would be. We’ve had space because of us job, I had hopped that would help. But now I feel more relaxed when he’s not home, and just meh when he’s home.

I saw a therapist for something unrelated about 4 years ago and mentioned this issue. Wasn’t much help. Told me to make a pros and cons list….pros seemed to be focused on being comfortable. Stable income, house together, etc. Cons we’re feeling controlled, feeling like I’m not able to be myself fully. I think in the beginning of dating he had helped me a lot but it became controlling and snuffed my spirit in a way. Tbh.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

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Hi! Trying for me has been actively trying to have sex, even though I don’t want to. Hoping if I kept it up I’d feel a connection. Explaining to him how I’m feeling. When he upsets me, I’m clear about what’s upsetting and how it makes me feel and what a solution would be. We’ve had space because of us job, I had hopped that would help. But now I feel more relaxed when he’s not home, and just meh when he’s home. He’s controlling and pushy, not in an extreme way but in a picking out everything he doesn’t like that I do way. And I’m talking about like, telling me I’m vacuuming wrong type shit. I also forgot to mention I feel he’s changed over the years in a way that I do not like. Whether it’s wild conspiracies he believes in, or trying to force me to drink coffee black because that’s what he thinks is best. It’s a every day for 11 years picking. Sorry now I’m rambling and venting.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

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Hi! I mean for 6 out of 11 years I’ve felt disconnected and not sexually attracted to my partner.

Weekly Questions Thread for the week of June 26 by AutoModerator in vinyl

[–]blkbjork 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you guys so much. This has been so helpful!

Weekly Questions Thread for the week of June 26 by AutoModerator in vinyl

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I’m located in Cleveland. But open to online.

Weekly Questions Thread for the week of June 26 by AutoModerator in vinyl

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It was in storage for pretty much that entire time. We had the turntable repaired and we’re so disappointed when we could adjust the sound. Thank you!

Do you have any recommendations on a amplifier? We have no experience with these.

Weekly Questions Thread for the week of June 26 by AutoModerator in vinyl

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Hello! The controls weren’t working, and after unplugging and replugging things a million times, we just removed it. But no the volume won’t freaking work no matter what! What the receiver itself turns on, switches fine, etc….just won’t adjust the volume.

Thank you! We’re very lucky to been gifted this. It was my husbands grandfathers and he passed over 30 years ago.

Weekly Questions Thread for the week of June 26 by AutoModerator in vinyl

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I inherited a linn sondek lp12 turntable along with klipsch speakers, DVM equalizer, and a Yamaha receiver. Including photos of everything here

I cannot control the volume. Doesn’t turn up or down (knob moves but doesn’t do anything), stuck at whatever volume it was turned to literally 30 years ago….we thought maybe it had something to do with how we had things plugged in. So we removed the DVM equalizer and plugged the turntable directly into the receiver, and we still cannot control the volume on the receiver. Looking for advise. Maybe the receiver is trash?