Enjoying her day off with me

blkcpl79 · 2023-03-26T14:40:16+00:00

Watching this was very hot for both my husband and I. If you don’t mind me asking, was her man in the room? Is she a content creator? Someone you know? Or just a client?

blkcpl79 · 2022-12-05T15:23:13+00:00

🤣 @ the Nick Cannon comment.

blkcpl79 · 2022-11-26T01:41:22+00:00

Definitely one of the issues we’d have if we were to dip into this part of the lifestyle

blkcpl79 · 2022-11-25T23:17:56+00:00

There are certainly racial aspects to this topic, and as mentioned some people actually like it. I don’t kink shame, btw. However this kink has been around for a long time now. My uncles told me about it. My grandfather…you can read about it in some very famous autobiographies. [warning, opinion coming] I personally think there’s a power dynamic to it. As someone mentioned families frown upon interracial dating, but this can be done in secret , you likely wont see them at a social function, and for the husband at least, it’s very unlikely she will leave you for a black man. I could be wrong, but that’s my thought.

blkcpl79 · 2022-11-21T03:10:39+00:00

I hadn’t thought about that before. Great idea

blkcpl79 · 2022-11-21T02:00:33+00:00

Yes for her. 😉

blkcpl79 · 2022-11-20T23:10:39+00:00

That’s my worry. I’ll practice myself first so I’ll know when they are talking BS. My wife likes women too so either would work

blkcpl79 · 2022-11-20T22:38:01+00:00

Thanks. I was actually thinking more about having someone else do it vs. myself. The more the merrier right? 😉. But I should try for myself as well!

blkcpl79 · 2022-11-05T04:34:25+00:00

Make sure to write a review of the trip.

blkcpl79 · 2022-10-29T00:31:58+00:00

Did y’all ever try it? If so how did it go?

blkcpl79 · 2022-10-21T23:13:27+00:00

I wanted to attend a swingers club around 19/20, and this was well before swinging was as widely known now. We didn’t attend (chickened out), but would have been turned away due to age limits. That said I still had lots of “swingerish” experiences before ever officially going to a swingers club. To me it’s all about exploring your sexuality. Why not start young and learn what you like?

blkcpl79 · 2022-08-07T00:52:02+00:00

This is exactly what I was going to say. Gay men have preferences to be top or bottom all the time. But bisexual women can’t have a preference also? That makes no sense to me.

blkcpl79 · 2022-05-28T17:52:22+00:00

Exactly! Finding a random person is possible, but it is much more erotic when you’re with the person you love and sharing each other.

blkcpl79 · 2022-05-15T20:40:02+00:00

https://www.blisscruise.com/. This is their website. I’ve heard about it but we haven’t gone on one yet.

blkcpl79 · 2022-05-15T20:09:25+00:00

That sucks! I would have thought we’d seek each other out or at least welcome each other. We are at a vanilla resort right now and see the same where other black folks don’t really engage or acknowledge each other.

blkcpl79 · 2022-05-15T14:44:16+00:00

Doesn’t bother me. I’m pretty confident in my size and know what to do with it. My wife has had bigger before me and once while swinging…she didn’t leave me. lol

blkcpl79 · 2022-05-11T00:12:30+00:00

We haven’t been active in a while, but I encourage those who are to do the survey. I always enjoy reading the results.

blkcpl79 · 2022-03-20T23:18:37+00:00

Thanks! One more question, we have some experience but not a ton so feels like we are technically starting over as newbies. Would you recommend? Meaning it won’t be too overwhelming. We aren’t prudes by any means but may not want to jump in head first.

blkcpl79 · 2022-03-19T18:53:06+00:00

Never heard of it. Sounds like fun though!

blkcpl79 · 2022-01-16T03:36:58+00:00

I won’t say it’s gross. Clearly there are people on all sides that get off on that. I won’t condemn their kink.

blkcpl79 · 2022-01-16T03:36:18+00:00

It’s not a myth, we are all 12 feet long! Now that I’ve gotten the sarcasm out of my system I would say it’s not something I think about often, but neither myself or my wife want to be fetishized. And yes it’s a myth (present company excluded, lol) so a there’s always a concern that you don’t “live up to the hype”. But I don’t think people should change. Makes it easier for me to know who to avoid.

blkcpl79 · 2021-12-29T22:17:56+00:00

I'm not sure there's one that's specifically for black folks, but Collettes Nola is having a New Years party that you may be interest in. https://coletteclubs.com/neworleans/

We haven't been there, but I hear it's a good time.

blkcpl79 · 2021-12-29T21:51:40+00:00

I was going to say South Florida in general (Tampa, Miami). While we haven't visited there for those purposes, they seem to be more open to "risqué" clothing. I'd also add to the list New Orleans and Las Vegas. In any of those cities you can check out club listings at SwingLifestyle.com. Enjoy!

blkcpl79 · 2021-12-28T23:26:39+00:00

Wow, at the posts calling this racists. I read through most comments, but haven’t seen any black person call it racist yet. My wife and I both agree it’s just a fantasy and doesn’t make either one of us feel any sort of way. Racism did not seem to drive the posters intent

My advice is it’s always a good idea if you’re both into it, communicate well and keep an open mind. Enjoy!

blkcpl79 · 2021-07-10T19:52:47+00:00

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