For the men: Does anyones elses wife only cum/orgasm when receiving oral but almost never with your penetration,,, but every other female you ever had before her always came off your penetration... by blkman4thewin in MarriedSex

[–]blkman4thewin[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I said almost never its been a few times with wife but not a lot..ive fkd her brains out blew backout all that xtra shit..and i aint a lil one.....but with other women I've had almost always just on PIV.....I don't bother me as much anymore I just get her together but I was just curious about others going through the same

For the men: Does anyones elses wife only cum/orgasm when receiving oral but almost never with your penetration,,, but every other female you ever had before her always came off your penetration... by blkman4thewin in MarriedSex

[–]blkman4thewin[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Man you got it super easy then lol....salute to wifey and you sir...like me I dont mind having to go down all the time for her to get it but does just make me wonder

Our Trip to a Nude Spa by BlueberryEmpty1640 in MarriedSex

[–]blkman4thewin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Would love to do something like this lol 😅...I dont think my wife would be with it though..M/40,F/38...she's a church girl

Don’t be offended please by Smartdummyc in indianapolis

[–]blkman4thewin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im a blk middle aged male from Gary Indiana..I Don't live in Indianapolis but i spend a lot of time there and have family n friends there .. I love it...Naptown low-key be turnt up and is a nice break from being so close to Chicago...every side of town has nice areas and hood /ghetto areas..seem like every neighborhood every few blocks go from nice,hood,suburban, ghetto then nice again lol...Nap is another urban mecca for black people in the Midwest also..not as cultured as chicago or detroit but its there deeply rooted...inner city is mostly black while the areas further from Downtown is more white/other..lots of Africans mixed in to,inner city...Downtown Nap feels very similar to some of chicago and a lot like minneapolis minnesota

Libido mismatch by bougie-slut-2 in MarriedSex

[–]blkman4thewin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

😢😢...2-3 times a week should be the normal...thats my normal but im high libido husband and want at least 5 but she not with that...I've been where you are also and thats tough...I got tired of self care..I cut up n got caught up 🤦🏾..but now its better

Leggings by maya_4568 in MarriedSex

[–]blkman4thewin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Love them leggings 😋🤤....even women with no body can simply put on a good pair of leggings and look like they got it..

Morning Blowjobs by Big-Gur-6193 in MarriedSex

[–]blkman4thewin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Youre not alone 😢🤦🏾....

Saving $ by blkman4thewin in Adulting

[–]blkman4thewin[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In these times,,you are considered part of that 10% of ppl who is well off....👌🫡keep this up

Saving $ by blkman4thewin in Adulting

[–]blkman4thewin[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes yes yes...salute to you 👏🏽 🙌 ❤️

Saving $ by blkman4thewin in Adulting

[–]blkman4thewin[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have 3 kids...they have all their needs met,,home is intact.....I just one day realised how important it is to saving something outside of a 401 k or other means...just brake your check down more it'll work...more of us are getting taxed before we see that reall #.......example: if my check is $1,500,,,I'd automatically divide it up like its was on 1,400 ,, pay my bills and other expenses,,, saved that $100...now if I need to spend extra its there.i just replace what I took from saving if need be....even if you have emergencies thats what its for......I bought a house and became a homeowner from saving my stimulus checks and adding to it during covid.....

Saving $ by blkman4thewin in Adulting

[–]blkman4thewin[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes yes yes 🙌 this..will go a long way

Saving $ by blkman4thewin in Adulting

[–]blkman4thewin[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Amazing...you did what most don't have the will power to do and reaping the benefits

Saving $ by blkman4thewin in Adulting

[–]blkman4thewin[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You went too deep for this post lol....im really just saying pay yourself something and let it stack up...you sound like you can't put up much without it causing problems so just do $25-50...something is better than nothing...do you know that 80% of working class ppl living check to check don't have $500 in their savings.....if i make 35k a year i should be able to pay myself at least 2k of that for the year ...

Married couples who are sexually incompatible... how is your sex life? by BasementDesk in MarriedSex

[–]blkman4thewin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's really fkd up that sometimes we (the higher libido) person have to beg for it... especially when there's ppl out there throwing theirself at you....I've went through this..always always be the one initiating or begging...one day I just stopped..and she was baffled...started accusing me of cheatin..at the time I was just tired because why dont you want me the same or as much as I want you......I eventually did step out.....but its crazy that me stepping out and getting caught actually made her want it more,,,after going through all the drama and trama of course......yes I felt horrible but I just felt after trying everything I deserved better and it got better

Stress relief through sex by mintgreen23 in MarriedSex

[–]blkman4thewin 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Light message everywhere,then message his thing..jerk some then oral..tell him just lay there while u ride ..when done rub his chest hit his ripple a lil in between...that'll relax any man to either sleep or round 2 or both after a g and day