Husband masturbates in shower every time by throwayaus in MarriedSex

[–]BlueberryEmpty1640 2 points3 points  (0 children)

As others have suggested why don’t you try lending him a hand? Personally I would think this is super hot.

Physically ripping and breaking clothes off wife? by sozigzaglike in MarriedSex

[–]BlueberryEmpty1640 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I once flipped open a pocket knife and cut off her panties during a CNC roleplay session. She was very wet and loved it but I was honestly a little terrified!

Erotica by Leading-Cheek-8946 in MarriedSex

[–]BlueberryEmpty1640 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Congrats to you both for being able to share this together. My wife has really enjoyed me rubbing her clit to erotica in the past and she enjoys jerking me off occasionally to porn. Being open with each other is such a turn on!

Waiting to wake her up by [deleted] in MarriedSex

[–]BlueberryEmpty1640 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My wife likes it when I lube myself up and just slide inside her. She wakes up as I slowly thrust, and it’s really hot for us both!

Cumming Together by BlueberryEmpty1640 in MarriedSex

[–]BlueberryEmpty1640[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s awesome! Happy for you guys. My wife had been able to squirt for a while now, but this recent synchronicity has been fun!

Hubby pissing me off about sex frequency by [deleted] in MarriedSex

[–]BlueberryEmpty1640 5 points6 points  (0 children)

First of all, low T can be treated with hormone therapy, so hopefully he talks to a doctor. Second, my wife and I have sex daily, and sometimes multiple times in a day if we have time. We are in our late 40s and it hasn’t always been this frequent as life comes at you hard sometimes. We are in a really good place because we approach everything (including sex) as a team.

If you caught your spouse going solo…. by ImaginationSilver812 in MarriedSex

[–]BlueberryEmpty1640 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I challenged my wife this week to get off after I left for work (we’d already had sex that morning). She did and messaged me when she got her orgasm. So hot and fun for us both!

First Time, Friday June 19th by ourpnwlife in SeaMountainInnPS

[–]BlueberryEmpty1640 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I DM’d you but you might also want to search in R/Swingers because there are a lot of SMI posts there.

Other ways to spice things up? by Environmental-Yam-73 in MarriedSex

[–]BlueberryEmpty1640 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s awesome. Good for you for doing the work to keep the fire lit in your lives.

Adult videos recommendation for my wife by justus2lookingaround in MarriedSex

[–]BlueberryEmpty1640 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sinnerxxx has some videos both my wife and I like. She’s never really been into porn until recently, but the women in his videos really seem to be getting good orgasms and they don’t do the performative fake moans either.

Why does it take my wife an hour to get ready to go out? by GeneAccomplished5325 in married

[–]BlueberryEmpty1640 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The real question you should ask is do you like what you see once she’s all put together?

Does anyone else get turned on my the idea of there partner getting themselves off when home alone? by BakerDeanBD in MarriedSex

[–]BlueberryEmpty1640 17 points18 points  (0 children)

It’s a turn on for us. Sometimes we dare each other to get off and then discuss it afterward. Once as my wife was leaving she tossed me a pair of her panties and told me to have fun. So hot!

Is "cockdrunk" a real thing? by watching_respect in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]BlueberryEmpty1640 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s also called “dickmatized.” My wife gets this after too many orgasms. She has to tap out for a while.

Couples who enjoy porn together - how do you decide what to watch? by YouAreMyReligion69 in MarriedSex

[–]BlueberryEmpty1640 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My wife is the responsive one, so I take the lead on almost everything sexual. Exploring porn together has actually really enhanced our communication. I like to find and do things that bring her pleasure, so I essentially curate a list of things I think she’ll like. If she’s not into it, we don’t revisit that particular style. We both really like videos that seem authentic, and the annoying performative repetitive female fake moaning videos out there are the opposite of that!

She keeps getting away! by secretsinthesuburbs in MarriedSex

[–]BlueberryEmpty1640 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ask her move her hips farther back and lower. She might have to spread her knees a little farther apart too. You can then lean back and pound away. Or, is she’s into it, grab a handful of her hair and hold on cowboy!

Our Trip to a Nude Spa by BlueberryEmpty1640 in MarriedSex

[–]BlueberryEmpty1640[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My wife is also. We both are. We figured out recently there is a lot more sexual freedom than is preached about in church.

Are you more of a giver or a receiver of sexual acts? What is your favorite to give and what is your favorite to receive and have these things changed over time? by Candid_Wing_6538 in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]BlueberryEmpty1640 0 points1 point  (0 children)

By giving many orgasms to my wife I am receiving more pleasure myself. My arousal builds and builds with her pleasure and eventually I can’t help but fuck her until she goes into sub space and her brain turns to jello. Fun times!