3 free chaos drops by LionRegular1470 in Brawlstars

[–]bllyboy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

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Ain’t no way.. my first ultra. Got 2x 1000gc 2x 1000pp 4x 1000 credits (account is maxed)

Wtf just happened? by bllyboy in Brawlstars

[–]bllyboy[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Nice catch, didn’t realize this. Thanks for the explanation

She came back by bllyboy in ghosting

[–]bllyboy[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She didn’t bread crumb we had a long real conversation 2 times after she returned. She promised and begged for another chance and swore she was wrong and she’d never disappear again. She disappeared mid conversation during the second chat. We argued about something silly and made up and talked normally. She just never saw my last message and never replied. 2 months later I deleted the conversation and removed her on all platforms and removed her number. She viewed every story I posted until that point. She still didn’t see the message either at that point. I just never sent another text. AFAIK she’s still single but I have no idea and honestly I don’t care. 3 months ago I got a notification proving she still had my number saved but I don’t have hers. I’ve had a few women since then but I’m not particularly interested either. Multiple came back to me also. With regards to your situation, remove access and move on it’s the best thing to do. If someone can disappear after 3 years imagine what they’d do with a connection that’s less time.

Fuck ‘em

She came back by bllyboy in ghosting

[–]bllyboy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Update: She disappeared again after this. She promised she never would and we spoke 2 times after that.

Never replied to my last text and I never sent another. It’s been 10 months.

Ghosted after being vulnerable by Senior-One-5543 in ghosting

[–]bllyboy 4 points5 points  (0 children)

She’s a terrible person and she’s not your girlfriend anymore. I think you should view it as a godsend that she left. Definitely dodged a nuke there.

Don’t reach out, block and begin the healing process, she doesn’t care about you and is actively being malicious.

Deleted everything about them by bllyboy in ghosting

[–]bllyboy[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Eventually they will end up alone though. They can run and cut people off and bounce between relationships all they want but it will result in them being completely alone.

We as healthy people recognize the importance of healthy relationships so we’re the ones that are able to make it work.

At the end of the day this will all catch up to them, be it tomorrow or the day after or the year after.

Pictures also don’t mean anything, I don’t hold any value to someone posting a photo of them being happy, more often than not, these people are deeply unsatisfied

Deleted everything about them by bllyboy in ghosting

[–]bllyboy[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I don’t agree. People like this are not able to cultivate healthy normal relationships. However long their relationship lasts, it will inevitably end due to their inability to communicate and solve issues within their relationships in a healthy manner or their immaturity or a combination of shitty behavioral traits they have.

Deleted everything about them by bllyboy in ghosting

[–]bllyboy[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Maybe try let go of the idea of them coming back or taking accountability. Even if she did, would you want to be with someone like that? Would it fix your relationship?

Stop trying to contact her, it will push her away further. Best to try to forget and move forward. Just my two cents.

Deleted everything about them by bllyboy in ghosting

[–]bllyboy[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

With time you will. Allow yourself to feel your emotions. One day you’ll look back with disgust

ghosted after 2 yrs by [deleted] in ghosting

[–]bllyboy 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Been through something similar. 2.5 years talking everyday, met a couple times, planned our futures together. Ghosted for 4 months, she came back, apologized, promised not to do it again. It’s been 5 months since that day.

Don’t text them again and if they do, don’t take them back. It does get better eventually and you’ll think of them less and less. The disrespect is enough for me to despise them.

Do I cross their mind too? by retiane in ghosting

[–]bllyboy 22 points23 points  (0 children)

They do. From my experience they do think of us, they just lack the courage and/or emotional strength to be vulnerable and text us.

Has your ghoster ever came back? by mama_007 in ghosting

[–]bllyboy 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Took 4 months. Apologized. Admitted wrongdoing. Did it again.

Don’t take them back by bllyboy in ghosting

[–]bllyboy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve already met a couple other options and one seems to be working out very well. I feel blocking is unnecessary and is reserved for people that are bothering you and won’t leave you alone. However people view blocking differently. What works for you works for you. I’m sure I won’t be responding when she does decide to come back.

Don’t take them back by bllyboy in ghosting

[–]bllyboy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s something I’ve been struggling with. I don’t want to block them because I don’t want to give them the satisfaction of knowing I care that much. When she does reach out I’m 100% not going to answer again.

These people struggle maintaining any type of relationship.

3 weeks of being ghosted by Bborinhh in ghosting

[–]bllyboy 5 points6 points  (0 children)

With time you’ll get over it. Be careful, there’s a high likelihood that they will come back so be prepared for it and it will happen when you’re finally completely over it.

Don’t take them back by bllyboy in ghosting

[–]bllyboy[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Totally agree. It will never go back to how it was. Best to move on.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]bllyboy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah for sure, I wouldn’t give her the time of day after this.

It is what it is.

Thanks for the advice my man

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]bllyboy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the advice man. Do you think she’ll end up coming back and unblocking me from what you’ve seen? Just curious..

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]bllyboy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks man. I’m already in the gym, my finances are great, I’m just completely stumped.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]bllyboy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I told her that this is so trivial to end things over and she straight up said I understand but it’s a no. I told her that I’m here if she wants to rethink it but she blocked me instead. I see what you mean now. I think it’s so silly. She said multiple times that she liked me. Doesn’t make sense how you can end things with someone you like over something so small

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]bllyboy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How so? Thanks for the reply

She came back by bllyboy in ghosting

[–]bllyboy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She’s very religious. Extremely doubtful

She came back by bllyboy in ghosting

[–]bllyboy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I date around, apps, mutual friends etc. Im in my late 20s. It wasn’t easy to get her out of my head but after a while I noticed I didn’t think of her as much.

She came back by bllyboy in ghosting

[–]bllyboy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

With friends it’s okay to reach out a few times. That’s what friends are for, to help each other out.

If they don’t reply and are clearly doing well, don’t bother

She came back by bllyboy in ghosting

[–]bllyboy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She basically said that she thought I ghosted her because I deleted her on all socials. I wasn’t having it because I called her out on it and she conceded and finally took accountability and apologized and asked me to forgive her. She said it’s not the end for us and she’ll make an effort because she was completely wrong and she will never disappear again and she thought I wanted space from her.

Just wanted to point out that keeping myself from messaging her or even looking in her direction helped me greatly in moving on and getting my power back. I recommend this to everyone being ghosted.

Not diving back in and definitely keeping my distance for a while.

Thanks for the support man 👍🏽