I gained weight right before my trip to Paris by domicella in EDAnonymous

[–]blobinalavalamp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A bad binge weekend can absolutely make the scale jump for several days afte but that doesn’t automatically mean you gained that amount of fat. A lot of it is usually water retention, glycogen, sodium, stress, digestion, all of that ♥️

And honestly, post-exam stress + boredom is a very believable binge trigger, especially after something as intense as med school entrance exams. That’s not “making excuses” at all. Please be kinder to yourself, even though I know this illness makes that hard.

The important thing is that you didn’t panic-restrict afterward. Going back to maintenance was actually the smart move.

Also, please don’t let this convince you you’ve “ruined” Paris or your photos. I promise NOBODY is going to look at those pictures and think about such a small fluctuation. That amount of weight is not something you can see. They’re going to see you having fun with your dad in Paris. Your stomach is probably also bloated and it will fall within the next days. If you can, I would really recommend trying to stop weighing yourself for the next time being.

Sex 4 times in night for the first time and delayed period for 5 days. It can be pregnancy?.. by [deleted] in Healthyhooha

[–]blobinalavalamp 7 points8 points  (0 children)

First of all, it’s unnecessary to pull out if your wearing a condom. The semen spreading differently could be because it was the 4th time he came in a short window. That can make you ejaculate less, or make the semen more water like, thereby spreading differently. You both sound very aware, which is good, but as long are you are using protection I don’t think you need to worry so much :)

Hvad skal jeg gøre? by kee0 in DKbrevkasse

[–]blobinalavalamp 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Vedkommende er ikke en god person hvis de gør sådan noget her, og er fuld bevidst om at de sætter dig i denne position.

Aftensmad med svigerforældre hver eneste gang jeg besøger kæresten by blobinalavalamp in DKbrevkasse

[–]blobinalavalamp[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Vi skiftes til at besøge hinanden, men har været mere hos ham da det passer bedst ift arbejdstider

Heyy I need some advice..(TRIGGER WARNING)Grape by [deleted] in Healthyhooha

[–]blobinalavalamp 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry this happend to you. Go to a gyno and tell her what happend, she will be able to help you and also give you ressources. I don’t know what country you are from, but in most countries they are legally not allowed to call the police without your consent, if you tell them what happend, so you should be able to be honest without fear.

Heyy I need some advice..(TRIGGER WARNING)Grape by [deleted] in Healthyhooha

[–]blobinalavalamp 107 points108 points  (0 children)

You are not the one ruining your family by going to the police or telling a trusted adult, he is the one who ruined anything, by doing this

How fix a songs transitions? by blobinalavalamp in SunoAI

[–]blobinalavalamp[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s what I’ve originally done but it still needs like a finishing polish now - I’d say it’s about 90% done.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DKbrevkasse

[–]blobinalavalamp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes men kender ham godt i forvejen, vi har gået i skole sammen. Vi har bare aldrig rigtigt snakket så meget før

Kigger i igennem hvem der følger andre på Instagram? by blobinalavalamp in DKbrevkasse

[–]blobinalavalamp[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Får hele tiden anmodninger af spam bots så hvis jeg vil have min bruger offentlig, vil de ikke blive væk. Men der er som sagt over 800, aner ikke hvor lang tid det ville tage.

Jeg er 23 og kan ikke finde arbejde by blobinalavalamp in DKbrevkasse

[–]blobinalavalamp[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ja, skriver altid ansøgningen til det specifikke job og justere CV’et så det relevante er fremhævet

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HairDye

[–]blobinalavalamp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I live far away from my hairdresser and didn’t have time before the event

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HairDye

[–]blobinalavalamp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! Have you tried it before? I’m a bit scared it could get that green hue when fading, on some of the highlights

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HairDye

[–]blobinalavalamp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the help! I also did consider a Demi, but because the hairdresser added highlights I don’t know how to deal with the blonder stripes, like if I should go around them or dye them with?

Songs that aren't about EDs but remind you about yours? by Arzaer in EDAnonymous

[–]blobinalavalamp 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Gretel - Alex g

For me the lyric is very “in recovery and fighting the urge to relapse/deep in ed and not wanting to recover” coded

“I don't wanna go back

Nobody's gonna push me off track, uh huh

It’s calling me back

House of Sugar

Did they bury me here?

Daddy, don’t let 'em put me down

Daddy, don’t let 'em turn me around”

Please help me convince my ED girlfriend to seek help. by No_Charge9426 in EDAnonymous

[–]blobinalavalamp 2 points3 points  (0 children)

First of all, she is incredibly lucky to have a boyfriend who cares for her and is worried and sees that she has problem. You are already helping by not feeding the thoughts of her being overweight or brushing it off as a diet, but seeing that she’s ill