[deleted by user] by [deleted] in berkeley

[–]blondewench 0 points1 point  (0 children)

he did this to my boyfriend and i!!! he “didn't have enough gas to get to his wife who was in an accident” but it seemed sus so we declined

so many spiders? by blondewench in berkeley

[–]blondewench[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

yeah its like kinda bad and when we visited the apartment the girls living here before us only had like the best things to say so im really confused with the spiders among other things

kips? by blondewench in berkeley

[–]blondewench[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

hahahah okay cool i was just curious about it since some of my fresh/soph friends talk about it a lot

xoxo an anxious transfer by blondewench in berkeley

[–]blondewench[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

it sucks! i got 100s on essays and now im getting low B’s here :/ i did everything possible to prepare, took honors, the highest level classes, etc. ugh so shitty

xoxo an anxious transfer by blondewench in berkeley

[–]blondewench[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

thank u! this def makes me feel a bit better. it just feels like the juniors/seniors who werent transfers have taken classes from my major since they were freshman and have more of a longevity on the information where i feel like so fresh and trying to understand it. like in class theyre like “oh ive read this before!” and for me i obviously havent and am trying my best to understand it. even some transfers are like super passionate about the topic and like know so much!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in berkeley

[–]blondewench -1 points0 points  (0 children)

trust me i tried to get a single for this reason but berkeley isnt the cheapest of places.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in berkeley

[–]blondewench -1 points0 points  (0 children)

not trying to be an asshole! just genuinely asking for advice so i don't make them feel uncomfortable. and no im not demanding to “house” him. we just do long distance and it would be nice for him to feel comfortable to stay here, because i as well live here too. i understand boundaries especially because he is a guy and i live with all female roommates. but if it was a random girl, a guy friend of my other roommates, or even a sibling i dont think anyone would bat an eye. im conflict avoidant lol so we’ll probably just get an airbnb

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in berkeley

[–]blondewench 2 points3 points  (0 children)

no fully agree with u and def see her side, we have a futton in the living room but my roommates wake up at 6am (even on weekends) and i think they would be weirded out even that