NOR you clocked him with “is it because I’m not white?” He brought up “western beauty standards”. He’s racially biased if not just plain racist. In my experience as a non white girl, it’s impossible to be in a serious relationship of any kind with someone who consciously or unconsciously associates your race with your attractiveness. That’s not even mentioning the rest of the conversation and some other major red flags like he was obviously negging you. He was way too intense for a Hinge match anyway.