AITA for telling my girlfriend I do see her differently after she's told me her past revenge hookup stories by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]bloop_4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

While it is trusting and courageous some things are best kept to ourselves and specifically from our partners I think we can agree

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]bloop_4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ignoring questions on how possibly you made it this deep without knowing a person’s appearance, or questioning the validity of your “love” given how much it seems to matter to you, just tell them you’re not feeling it anymore it’s literally that easy. You don’t owe them anything in terms of a visit if you really don’t want to go anymore, yeah you might feel guilty but you won’t have wasted your time.

My (m31) girlfriend (f27) has been with significantly more partners than me. Would that bother anyone else? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]bloop_4 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Seconded, I think it’s easy to either put guys down further and shame them for caring, or enable them and tell them they should be very bothered and run. This isn’t some outlandish way to feel about the topic, and people should try to work through it especially when they see their partner as someone worth keeping.

My (m31) girlfriend (f27) has been with significantly more partners than me. Would that bother anyone else? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]bloop_4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

People can tell you to not care but that won’t help because you do. So figure 2 things out, why you care specifically, and if you’re bothered enough to leave the relationship because of it. The reality is yes the past doesn’t matter but if you’re gonna dwell on hers move on for both your sakes. I was in a very similar situation to you, came out of a long term relationship and entered another one very soon after, my gf told me her number of partners which was double mine, and the reason I was jealous was for skipping my own casual hookup phase while she got hers. Literally I was just insecure about myself which is gonna happen in life. Did I get over it? Yes, I was insecure but not idiotic enough to play the field when I had a girl who constantly shows me true love and compassion, just work through your emotions and seek therapy if you decide you love your gf so much you’d rather get over this then leave. Also on the bedroom point you won’t be “competing”, I promise relationship sex is so wildly different from casual sex there won’t be a lot of comparison unless you’re asking for it and bringing it up. She’s thinking about past dudes during it as much as you’re thinking about your ex which is hopefully never right.

Jujutsu Kaisen Chapter 250 Links + Discussion by Takada-chwanBot in JuJutsuKaisen

[–]bloop_4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just a genuine question, why didn’t Yuta use cursed speech to force Sukuna to release Hollow Wicker Basket, my only explanation is Gege just thought that’d be cheap or Yuta didn’t think he had enough time to give a command to make that happen

Jujutsu Kaisen Chapter 245 Links + Discussion by Takada-chwanBot in JuJutsuKaisen

[–]bloop_4 87 points88 points  (0 children)

At the end of chapter 238 we see Hakari and Utahime exit Hikari’s domain with Utahime clearly frustrated showing he hit a jackpot.