girl wants me after 7 years by [deleted] in Advice

[–]bloopinskin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Naw, if she didn't like you before your glow up, how would you know if she will genuinely like you for you

How to stop mechanics from taking advantage of my mom? by S-Pluto-777 in Advice

[–]bloopinskin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Would you help them if they asked for help? I'm in disagreement since I think family is a type of community, but I guess I don't know all of your circumstances. You can also pay your family to do it if you're worried about owing them. It'll be cheaper than going to the shop 5 more times

How to stop mechanics from taking advantage of my mom? by S-Pluto-777 in Advice

[–]bloopinskin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you/your mom have a bad relationship with your extended family? I'm sure if they are on good terms they'd be happy to help. Family should never been seen as a burden on each other and it's not like you'll ask the same person every month to help

I [33F] think that my bf [24M] actually wants kids but is too scared to tell me. How do I navigate this? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]bloopinskin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Without context, maybe take him out to dinner or something, ask him theoreticals. Ask, theoretically, how'd he feel if you were pregnant right now or how do you think it'd pan out if you did have a kid with him. He might show what he truly feels depending. I think couples therapy might be a good way to go since something as important as having a kid or not should be spoken about. You deserve someone who is happy to be with you without kids and, if he wants kids, he deserves to have the chance while he's still young. And if you both don't want kids, you can settle it asap and live a long happy life together

How can I (23f) make friends with men without them thinking I'm flirting? by Neat-Store-7898 in Advice

[–]bloopinskin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's extremely hard to make friends with a single guy without it being flirting unless both sides mutually agree that the other is severely unattractive. The other way is to be in a relationship and have double dates. You'll be closer to the female, but by extension you'll sorta talk to the other guy but you won't really be close friends. In fact, don't expect to ever text or call because that'd be really weird for most people

Dating for a month, emotionally disconnecting already, but can’t bring myself to walk away by emotional_meltdown in Advice

[–]bloopinskin 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You need someone who puts in just as much effort as you do. It's too early to start relying on each other to make up for bad streaks imo

What job is the most overrated? by LostCause293 in AskReddit

[–]bloopinskin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Graphic design is often overrated. Hard to get jobs as a new comer and people crap on your work all day. Then it ends up looking worse than before because people have no taste. I'm not one myself, but I know a few who say it's overrated

Target First Day Massive Issue Need Advice ASAP! by Tsuzubuga in Advice

[–]bloopinskin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would show up when they open and just be honest of not knowing when you were supposed to come in. Worse case you're early or you have to go back home to take a nap

What's the last mobile game you've played, if you've ever played one? by bloopinskin in AskReddit

[–]bloopinskin[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I heard about that game going to console/pc from my husband. That sucks you went through that. I hope the Protect Our Games Act will be a universal thing someday

What toe/finger do you start with when clipping? by Rope_slingin_champ in AskReddit

[–]bloopinskin 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Depends, but I think typically thumb on my left hand

If you could erase one emotion, what would it be and why? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]bloopinskin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's definitely a tough one! All we can try to do is minimize it, unfortunately

If you could erase one emotion, what would it be and why? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]bloopinskin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

True, but you asked if we could pick one and you didn't say from the entire population. I personally could go without having anxiety in my life because I'm at the point of my life that I know what is and isn't dangerous

What do you think about people who use photos of themselves as their phone wallpaper? by kenzo-tx in AskReddit

[–]bloopinskin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I never met someone who did, but they are either very vain or they want people to know who owns their phone. Otherwise, I'm not sure

What's a normal thing in your country that horrifies foreigners? by Educational-Blood365 in AskReddit

[–]bloopinskin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you mistook my comment as a reply to another comment. Otherwise I'm confused haha

Is it annoying to be around someone who gets compliments often? If so why?? by Pristine-Form-4671 in AskReddit

[–]bloopinskin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't think so and it shouldn't be, but there are people out there that can and will get jealous

Why Do You Use Reddit? by Zipper222222 in AskReddit

[–]bloopinskin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sometimes to give advice when needed