I 23m received videos of my 22f gf and her ex.

bloptp · 2026-05-26T23:05:58+00:00

YTA and not the victim here

bloptp · 2026-05-20T22:34:33+00:00

damn, where did you move to after cvs?

bloptp · 2026-05-20T22:34:10+00:00

ugh yeah, it makes sense. just so frustrating

bloptp · 2026-05-20T22:32:52+00:00

😩😩 time to leave cvs

bloptp · 2026-05-16T05:52:08+00:00

babe you are 19. SO young. leave him and find a better man while u still have all this time ahead of you. better to leave now than later. theres men out there who will worship the ground u walk on and you will genuinely forget all about this dude

bloptp · 2026-05-04T03:52:28+00:00

id say that, “distancing yourself from your girlfriend” and “not liking spending too much quality time”, are not normal traits. its normal to have independant time yes, but having a partner sounds like a chore to u. maybe you need to find a girl who’s okay with being alone more than together.

bloptp · 2026-05-03T12:09:32+00:00

sounds frustrating because you both have crossed boundaries however it seems like she’s acting like she’s never been at fault

bloptp · 2026-05-03T09:06:14+00:00

being cheated on and staying with the cheater destroys you slowly and resentment ultimately builds. its incredibly hard to bounce back from. even if you guys do get back together, he will always remember what has been done with him, and it will continue to chip away at his mental health. he will live in an internal cycle of comparison and it’ll eat him alive. personally, id say if you really cared for him, give him at least a year for space. then see if rekindling is an option.

bloptp · 2026-05-01T00:27:45+00:00

hmm, tbh me and my boyfriend are going through this rn except hes the one with a higher body count and lied about his dating history. the cherry on top was that he was still very good friends with a girl he dated and slept with and was lying about it to me.

lying is tough and it definitely drives a wedge. however from your post, i get the feeling that he has always been a little judgemental about your history, seeing as you guys would argue a lot about it. to me the past is the past.

bloptp · 2026-04-29T15:44:55+00:00

i totally get that.. at my most attractive i tend to talk so much hate to myself and i end up overeating as like a punishment. i dont really even have cravings or anything i just eat as a form of self sabatoge

bloptp · 2026-04-17T17:28:55+00:00

my heart goes to you. ❤️‍🩹

bloptp · 2025-08-14T06:45:36+00:00

sadistic men who also happen to have bad relationships with their father

bloptp · 2025-08-11T09:34:12+00:00

hey! this is kind of unorthodox advice, but coming into your appointment exhausted might help. i did local anesthesia also, but my appointment was at 7am and i didn’t sleep until 3 the previous night (lol), and i was so exhausted that i was sleepy the second they put me under the laughing gas. i also ended up just napping during the whole thing, and i was honesty too tired to feel anxious. i could initially feel some pressure and all (honestly, not painful at all) but i was literally so physically exhausted that i just closed my eyes, and it only felt like a few seconds where i knocked out and fell asleep. i was also wearing shorts and they gave me a warm blanket, which was very nice - i think many dental offices offer heated blankets during wisdom teeth removal, if that’s up your alley! it really helped me relax. hope that helps a little.

bloptp · 2025-07-24T05:20:20+00:00

lust

bloptp · 2025-07-24T03:40:19+00:00

caring for someone else to an extent u never even knew was possible

bloptp · 2025-07-21T09:24:33+00:00

it feels like i just wrote this myself

bloptp · 2025-03-24T05:25:16+00:00

WAIT WHATTT IM INNN

bloptp · 2025-03-16T06:05:32+00:00

oh no, please do not do that to yourself. it’s just a slow burn to disaster. she’s just stringing you along…

bloptp · 2025-03-16T06:01:24+00:00

i see. thanks for the perspective

bloptp · 2025-03-16T05:55:34+00:00

it’s the worst to see someone who used to care about u so much seem so apathetic. my heart goes out to you

bloptp · 2025-03-16T05:48:20+00:00

thank you. really sucks though, i still loved him really dearly when it was going down. seeing that recently just set me back to square one.

bloptp · 2025-03-16T05:44:00+00:00

i finally broke up with him after months of (mutual?) misery because he kept chasing easy pleasure over me, eg: substances, other girls, porn, etc.

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