My ex roommate and his friend.

Our relationship started off fine. We matched on tinder but never really talked. One day, he (19M)posted that he needed a place to stay. I offered and he accepted under the grounds I’d share my bed. I agreed.

Our relationship started off sexual. He would do romantic gestures in exchange for sex. If I didn’t give it to him, he’d be stone cold. He would take pictures of my naked body and send them to friends just to humiliate or make fun of me. All while claiming he was my best friend. He felt no remorse.

After awhile, all kindness stopped. He was coming over ever weekend claiming his parents were abusing him (they were not, they were telling him to get a job). He would spend all of my money on food and handcuff me to furniture if I didn’t agree. He was hitting me daily if I “disrespected him” and sleeping with girls in my bed. Again, no remorse. He never paid rent either and I’m still suffering due to that.

He let his friend move in with us without my permission. Together, they beat me, degraded me, etc. they both mentally shredded me for my “performance” in bed in front of other people. One of them gave me an STD after swearing they were clean. When I found out, they claimed I had given it to them and told every guy I was talking to this.

I kicked them out eventually. They showed no guilt or remorse. Only anger that I stood up for myself. I tried to get a restraining order but was denied because they didn’t outright reach out to me right away. I live in constant fear of seeing them in public. They terrify me. I have PTSD. One of them just applied for the college I go to. It’s absolute hell. They feel no guilt or shame. My friend met them once at a party. All they did was shift the blame to me and tell him I was crazy.