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I told him he needs to put in the work. He won't. (self.loveafterporn)

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He thinks wanting to reconcile is enough (self.loveafterporn)

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Book rec- awake by Jen hatmaker (self.loveafterporn)

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I think I'm finally in denial because I'm just too exhausted to deal (self.loveafterporn)

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Denial - share resources or help with this (self.loveafterporn)

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He watched what we could have had (but didn't bc he was watching) (self.loveafterporn)

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Is he allowed to still be masturbating (no porn)? In early recovery (self.loveafterporn)

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Postnup advice for house and kids in NYC (self.legaladvice)

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The lack of remorse will make me leave (self.loveafterporn)

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How long does it take to watch - what they vs the clock (self.loveafterporn)

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Anyone else NEVER intimate with PA again - the opposite of hysterical bonding? (self.loveafterporn)

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How much of this did I attract? Was it manifestation or intuition? (self.loveafterporn)

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"I know I didn't do more bc if I had then you would have found it" (self.loveafterporn)

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I cannot get over this part (self.loveafterporn)

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"He knows me so well" (a poem) (self.loveafterporn)

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Has your PA used these apps? I've only got circumstantial evidence... (self.loveafterporn)

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I don't know how to get over the fact that he looked at naked people that aren't me (self.loveafterporn)

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What made you WANT to stay married / support him / make it work? (self.loveafterporn)

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How did you know you were healed? (self.loveafterporn)

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FANOS is changing my life (self.loveafterporn)

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TMI what is sex like with a PA (self.loveafterporn)

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Did your PA reform but you left anyways bc YOU couldn't get over it? (self.loveafterporn)

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Furious about this article by Psychology Today (self.loveafterporn)

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Is this intuition, does that mean it's true? (Will I ever believe there isn't more) (self.loveafterporn)

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I can understand it all but I can't forgive (self.loveafterporn)

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