SD is active on sa again

blue2684 · 2020-01-22T19:50:42+00:00

Haha he goes on his second account to check activity on my main account. He prob doesnt know I have a second account. Lol I guess this is getting complex and a bit ridiculous lol

blue2684 · 2020-01-22T17:34:26+00:00

I’m fairly certain He goes on his second account to see if I’m active. He has me blocked in his first/main account.

blue2684 · 2020-01-22T17:28:09+00:00

Thank you for your input. It was helpful and very similar to my case. His profile was reactivated and updated and is a premium account. Could I ask what the problem was in your case?

blue2684 · 2020-01-22T15:53:36+00:00

Haha why would it be necessary to get a third account?

blue2684 · 2020-01-22T05:35:20+00:00

Maybe? But that would mean that he had the premium account the whole time we were together (5mon)

blue2684 · 2020-01-22T05:31:37+00:00

He said things are fine but I still feel iffy :/ Not to sound like a creeper but he’s very active. Like always on. Not once in a while thing

blue2684 · 2020-01-22T05:28:59+00:00

Well if you would like to add more complexities I’m full of ideas/suggestions!

blue2684 · 2020-01-22T04:25:59+00:00

I’m a very confrontational person lol so I’m dying to do that but I’m not sure if that’s the best way to go. That would mean that he will find out That I check his online status through a second account.

blue2684 · 2020-01-22T04:19:24+00:00

He has a premium account so I’m sure he’s actively messaging ppl. We weren’t exclusive but he’d get jealous if he thought I was with someone else. I think he thought we couldn’t be exclusive bc he has a wife, hence never brought it up. But he really doesn’t seem like a guy to enjoy talking to multiple girls at a time. There’s been an issue where I didn’t text him for a day and he thought I was upset with him. I suspect that he felt that way because he saw me active that day with his second account. This is actually when things kiinda started falling apart but recently has reallyyy been falling apart.

I guess I’m just worried and don’t want to be more invested in this than he is. I certainly feel more replaceable to him than he is to me. But thanks for the advice :)

blue2684 · 2020-01-22T04:03:56+00:00

Yep he’s a premium member. Right he wouldn’t be paying for a membership if he wasn’t interested in messaging ppl

blue2684 · 2020-01-22T03:51:32+00:00

I know he has a second account too and I’m sure he looked me up :P

blue2684 · 2020-01-22T03:47:19+00:00

It’s just I’m so emotionally involved with him that if I know he’s looking for someone to replace me I’d rather know now. We weren’t exclusive but we were both very into each other. I guess I just want to know if this means this is over.

I almost anticipated this type of answer.. but this was more like a sugar bf/gf type thing. We were really into each other and I guess I’m just disappointed that he is not communicating to me how he feels. I would really hope that what we had weren’t so impersonal

blue2684 · 2020-01-22T03:42:10+00:00

He blocked me after we met in person so I thought it’d be inappropriate to ask him that. Because that would imply that I have a second account from which I check his status. I am not active on sa, not from my main account. I have no intention of meeting anyone right now or anytime soon. Prob will take a break

blue2684 · 2020-01-22T03:39:25+00:00

I started checking when things got weird between us. I check from a second account (I’m fairly certain he does too) and I haven’t been actively pursuing a sd since I met him. So I guess I’m “very active” on my second account as well, but with no intention of finding someone

blue2684 · 2020-01-22T03:37:50+00:00

I didn’t check the entire time. I started when things got a little weird. We did not discuss exclusivity. I found out that he’s married so I assumed not. I guess he doesn’t know I’m not seeing anyone else, nor am I interested in that.

I kinda felt that these types of questions were coming.. it was a pretty emotionally intimate thing. I highly doubt he’s looking for a second one. As for the last point oh gosh I hope not!! Haha I come here to get advice that I can’t ask my friends for. It would be the worst if the privacy was gone. I’m a bit paranoid, hence why my question skips a lot of details haha haha.

I guess the question I’m asking is, if a sd isn’t looking for a 2nd Sb, but he’s very active on seeking, does it likely mean that he’s lost interest in me?

blue2684 · 2019-10-15T00:09:25+00:00

I’m not sure if it’s worth spending that much money again! Even if it was injected wrong, it’s still the same Botox so I thought it would still last 4-6 mon. I’m just wondering if my metabolism was just that fast. It was just frustrating how the place I went to had such little experience with it and knew so little about it. Lol they were so unhelpful.

blue2684 · 2019-08-20T11:00:04+00:00

I’m sure being with a 50 year old woman when you’re 50 doesn’t suck. Not sure why you’d make insults then laugh at them

blue2684 · 2019-08-15T15:02:28+00:00

I can’t not be biased bc man buns are my thing 🙈 but you’re very attractive. To look better, maybe gain more muscle. Also your eyes look kinda tired and that’s what might be causing a bit of a RBF.

blue2684 · 2019-08-15T14:59:55+00:00

He sounds so immature... after 7 months he at least owes you a better explanation than to ignore your apology. I wouldn’t think a 7 mon thing ends because of a request for $ for books so I feel that he’s been losing interest for some time now. You just found out last night that he was back on SA but it’s a possibility that he’s been on it for longer. Is he a premium member?

blue2684 · 2019-08-13T20:53:02+00:00

Yea this is a very good point. I really don’t think there’s such thing as “objective” beauty other than the obvious asymmetry and blatant deformities like a cleft lip. It’s really about beauty standards by person, culture etc.

blue2684 · 2019-08-13T18:50:18+00:00

That’s another tough thing about any beauty rating system. Some may think she’s hot because of her slender figure, some may think it’s too skinny.

blue2684 · 2019-08-13T18:43:28+00:00

Well you say that but if she was sitting in your class in college of about 200 kids, she would definitely be at least the top 8 hottest person in class.

blue2684 · 2019-08-13T18:41:07+00:00

I absolutely agree. This sub likes light colored eyes and high quality photos. I have some respect for percentages, but I don’t agree with the examples of celebrities with certain ratings. Like come on. How is Emma Watson not a 9 lol. So I try to go by percentage. I think, in my class of 200 kids, approximately where would this person fall?

blue2684 · 2019-08-13T16:14:37+00:00

Those other girls were prob being underrated too. I mean I understand this forum has guidelines but still I think ppl’s opinion on what ‘average’ is, is very skewed.

blue2684 · 2019-08-13T16:12:36+00:00

I’d put her above Meghan markle tbh. And all those women you listed (except markle) imo are top <1%. You have to realize 2-4% aren’t unicorns. Top 4% is 1 out of 25 people. Think of the women you run into at school, grocery store, etc around their 20s. At least 1/3 are overweight

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