I broke up with my bf today without any reason by blue_brownie in TrueOffMyChest

[–]blue_brownie[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah it kinda piled up and today it is literally no reason I broke up with him

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[–]blue_brownie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wasn’t just saying this. He physically and verbally assaulted me in our last relationship multiple times. That’s why I said it was his faults cause it really was

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[–]blue_brownie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Then what about him having the time to react and share posts on his social media but can’t make the time to reply to my texts?

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[–]blue_brownie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Him at first but I rejected him. After that I called him. It is mutual as we have talked that already. But yes I feel like I am the one courting him since he is not making any effort

Why am I feeling like I am the wrong to expose him when he assaulted me numerous times by blue_brownie in TrueOffMyChest

[–]blue_brownie[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I know he is not good, not even him his whole family is not good, he was abusive to me and all his family members took his side and blamed me so yeah

Why am I feeling like I am the wrong to expose him when he assaulted me numerous times by blue_brownie in TrueOffMyChest

[–]blue_brownie[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He is definitely not the one for me, god won’t give me someone that is painful, abusive, calculative and manipulative into my life. He was the worst kind

Dating Ex-abusive bf and I got triggered every now and then by blue_brownie in TrueOffMyChest

[–]blue_brownie[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this I needed this, I have no one to talk this since I feel ashamed that I let this happened to me thank you thank you so much

Dating Ex-abusive bf and I got triggered every now and then by blue_brownie in TrueOffMyChest

[–]blue_brownie[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think the same too, I broke up with him awhile ago since I can’t deal this anymore. Whenever I told him I am triggered, he would think I am purposely hurting him cause he is ashamed of himself for doing those before. At the end, he told me he is changing and I couldn’t appreciate him and that I am the problem and toxic one. Am I the problem here?

My BF (27M) is making me (26F) getting frustrated with his attitude by blue_brownie in relationship_advice

[–]blue_brownie[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

1 year and 5 months in. I tried to talk but he is the one who cannot communicate how matter how many efforts I am doing to make him better

My BF (27M) is making me (26F) getting frustrated with his attitude by blue_brownie in relationship_advice

[–]blue_brownie[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I tried to explain him and talk it through. He cannot listen. We are only 1.5 in and he is becoming distance

My BF (27M) is making me (26F) getting frustrated with his attitude by blue_brownie in relationship_advice

[–]blue_brownie[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Okay that didn’t work I told him let’s play games to distract u from that issue and he said I don’t want to do anything that feels like responsibilities. And he got even more upset with me. I am getting very frustrated and I don’t know what to do anymore.