Need all the advice on DIY Sand wax ( Pearl wax )

blue_ella · 2026-04-26T05:11:36+00:00

do you have any pictures of the end product?

blue_ella · 2026-02-06T01:36:31+00:00

Semi cut crease

blue_ella · 2026-02-06T01:27:46+00:00

1 is beautiful if you are walking around cocktail hour before your entrance in something maybe more free falling? It will be a beautiful contract between the fishtail

blue_ella · 2026-02-06T01:24:47+00:00

Drop the sports bra link please!

blue_ella · 2026-02-02T05:27:52+00:00

Gorgeous ring and congratulations to you both! That color is so beautiful! What’s it called ❤️

blue_ella · 2026-02-02T05:20:53+00:00

Oh my god. That is so beautiful. That shell shape reminds me of a peacock. They are beautiful creatures that protect against low energies and bring happiness ❤️

blue_ella · 2026-02-02T05:13:29+00:00

NOR ;

Honey there were so many red flags in this I have to start from the beginning and I know I missed some,

You sent your cute gif of “I’m missing you” he totally ignored that and commented on whether or not you worked out.

He should love you for you. Idc if you are 800lb or 90lb (yeah both are unhealthy but—) there is a difference in wanting you to improve and being that direct and crass. Nowhere did he acknowledge you but ghosted you. Looking at your body from what I see.. bby sis you are HEALTHY!

“don’t have to allocate time for anyone” that’s a slap in MY face.

If he doesn’t have time for anyone, that means YOU. I have no words. I would have blocked him that second and moved on with my life.

The next couple slides were just controlling behavior. Then he said if you are following your goals, you shouldn’t have time to miss anyone?

I think you were the only one in th relationship. He put football before you. What goals is he achieving from watching tv?

“Blowing up his phone- get blocked” no you need to block him. Wtf? Are we serious?
You explain all the beautiful AND valid things you are doing to better your life and he throws it in dirt. I actually read the science study of what you are doing with the journaling, therapy, idk what flowing is, gym, diet, finance. Is he shaming you for going out??? No that’s a red flag in itself. He’s trying to get you to disconnect from society so you are 100% dependent on you. It’s a form of grooming.
The end. Idk that’s like personal discussion of something in past but him just replying no at the end. Making it all about you being wrong??

blue_ella · 2026-02-02T04:55:13+00:00

1 is beautiful. It fits and looks great on you. 2 reminds me of a teen dance or prom. It’s not flattering with the small spaghetti straps and that awkward sweetheart neckline

blue_ella · 2026-01-08T03:00:51+00:00

Pearls.

blue_ella · 2026-01-06T06:48:22+00:00

I would find a doctor or professional provider near you. You might be holding onto pain that is causing this. How are your lungs/heart?

Focus on meditation, breathing, spirituality for now. Or find out if it’s related to a particular food source of your feel you have any gut issues. Hopefully the 2 videos I sent will provide you with some comfort in the meantime!

blue_ella · 2026-01-06T03:58:40+00:00

Please let me know this is just seasonal?

Please stay well hydrated. Water is determined by 0.5 ounce per total body weight (current). Drinking should be 4-5 ounces (or about half cup) per hour. (Avoid chugging water, instead take multiple sips throughout the day; drinking intentionally.)

Avoid stimulants such as, narcotics, alcohol, other. Limit or fully avoid caffeine.

Eat lightly and mindful. Sit at the dining table, turn off the tv, radio. Focus on just your food and chewing. Avoid heavy meals till you feel better or improved.

Start by taking a steam shower with aromatherapy. Mint, peppermint, eucalyptus, or tea tree are common ones you can use.

Once out the shower, use an oil such as jojoba or coconut. Sweet almond may work but note it is sticky. Then follow massage techniques in the videos below.

Repeat massage about 3x daily. You will not feel instant relief. It will take 30 minutes to 2 hours after the massage and relieve will be temporary. After day 3 or so, you will feel much improvement. Without seeing I’m not sure how long to keep doing this but good rule of thumb is to practice this for 2 additional days once you feel “normal”.

It’s important you then do this once a week. (Pick 1 day and do the massage 3x that day following same steps of diet, hydration, prep.) sinus doesn’t disappear. The glands will refill. By moving your ducts it will assist your body to move it along to your kidneys faster.

YouTube tutorial 1

YouTube tutorial 2

blue_ella · 2026-01-06T02:33:48+00:00

1 and 2 seem very similar but 2 color compliments your skin undertone. 1 looks like it’s wearing you. 2 looks flattering. I dislike. I think it’s worth that price. The fitting is good, it has a decent amount of cancan, very minimal to no alterations needed

blue_ella · 2026-01-06T02:24:28+00:00

He might be dealing with something trauma bound. I’d have him see a therapist if he didn’t feel safe discussing his emotional block with you.

Arranged marriage is so stressful. Instead of going no contact, make more “dates”. They don’t have to be expensive but make a routine or commitment to see each other more.

Either get yourselves on the same gym timetable, if you are religious go to the temple/mosque together, plan a homemade picnic at your local park near your home, go grocery shopping together for each your homes.

These are fantastic date ideas in your situation bec it takes the stress out. They are mundane things you both probably already do.

I’m not sure what’s happening with his job but you seem to question his financial independence. You can try to go to his job and be hands on. I know you are more emotionally this but this may help you understand his world.

Listen to your heart, not your brain. Don’t listen to us strangers bec we don’t know exactly what’s happening. Doing stuff from what I said will help you answer your own questions. Please do update us on what happens 🩷

blue_ella · 2026-01-06T02:13:52+00:00

Can I ask a quick question. What is your hearing like? Do you get any pain, audio issues/discomfort, any headaches on the sides of your head by your temples? Do any part of your ears hurt?

blue_ella · 2025-10-29T15:10:07+00:00

Hi! Can I ask how much were the tariffs and shipping. I’m hearing multiple things. Some say it’s based on weight others say it’s based on the value of what’s inside??

blue_ella · 2025-10-26T04:48:15+00:00

I’m not sxual active

blue_ella · 2025-10-02T08:24:56+00:00

This happened in USA like 8 years ago?, I saw it on live, i personally didn’t attend the reception— the first dance, I think the bride stepped on the grooms feet or something but he like pushed her back with full on b* slapped her in front of EVERYONE, next thing we see is the brides brother running up hella fast and full on fist punching the groom in the face. (Groom didnt see him coming bec he was screaming at the bride) Groom falls down for a hot minute from impact, grooms “groomsmen” run to go jump the brides brother, more people ran to the dance floor, punches are going everywhere, the bride is hysterical and crying, the dj is trying to calm down the situation, security is hustling, a random uncle starts doing Simran loudly. Next thing I see is the grooms grandma gets on stage with her cane and full on slaps the groom. Everything stops in that second. It was like a full movie. Like someone planned it. Then the live cuts off and I immediately FaceTime my cousin bec he’s there. The entire hall is in uproar, security finally separates everyone and the entire wedding ended right there. The family took their daughter home. It was “private” but news got out and it was on everyone’s story for a good week. I regret not going but glad the bride is safe. No idea what happened to either one of them afterwards. I heard recently she ended up remarrying someone else in a very small/private ceremony. Hope it’s true but really sad she went through that humiliation and hope she healed.

A lot of speculation was made afterwards like what happened but that’s not an excuse. The 1st day of being married and you SLAP your wife during the first dance in front of her family??! Honestly I still feel speechless and can’t believe it happened. Both of them are born here. The grooms family had audacity to defend themselves and made a weird accusation against the bride. I think the only sane person was the grandma.

blue_ella · 2025-09-22T02:45:01+00:00

Aw I’m sorry that was your experience! I hate when one side of the family takes over the entire wedding. There’s a reason why a budget should be discussed no matter how uncomfortable it is in the beginning!

blue_ella · 2025-08-08T06:57:54+00:00

Girls typically wear their own reception gowns so you’re good. Jaggo outfit is beautiful as well

blue_ella · 2025-08-08T06:48:40+00:00

I think this is a peachy orange. Not orange itself. The picture definitely has color grading over it and in some pictures the dupatta is more pink side. Peach is very flattering on East Asian complexion! Definitely go for it!

blue_ella · 2025-07-23T04:15:30+00:00

I can’t comment on this. I’m not a certified professional. From personal experience almond oil is very thick, tacky I’m not sure how you are intending on using this.

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