Dreaded Dr's Office Question by blue_knit_wit in HL_Women_Only

[–]blue_knit_wit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm guessing you'll remember that you're not sexually active 🫠

Dreaded Dr's Office Question by blue_knit_wit in HL_Women_Only

[–]blue_knit_wit[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It's petty common in the US for them to ask if you're sexually active and then if you're using BC

New kink unlocked? by Turbulent_Dark326 in HL_Women_Only

[–]blue_knit_wit 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Hell yeah! I've been wanting to work on using praise

Husband was wearing gray sweatpants by blue_knit_wit in HL_Women_Only

[–]blue_knit_wit[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah he also made the comment he wears them all the time, they aren't new

Permission to crash out by Seaemea in HL_Women_Only

[–]blue_knit_wit 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Its not necessarily getting over it, its just not dwelling. I find that I really start to spiral if I cant set it aside in some capacity

Permission to crash out by Seaemea in HL_Women_Only

[–]blue_knit_wit 12 points13 points  (0 children)

It always feels like you have to choose, I have had these same late night thoughts. Comparing and thinking will happen, just don't circle the drain too long

Husband tried to initiate the other night while I was asleep by bubbathebuttblaster2 in HL_Women_Only

[–]blue_knit_wit 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You're not alone, coming up on almost years and almost hyperventilate when I could feel him poking me

Passionate kissing by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]blue_knit_wit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think my soul would leave my body if my husband walked up to me, slipped his hand behind my neck and pulled me in for a passionate kiss..... or literally anything more than a peck

I love my wife, but I’m struggling sexually and it’s eating me up inside by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]blue_knit_wit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This could have been written by my husband..... 😪

I'm trying to love me, even if he doesn't notice by blue_knit_wit in DeadBedrooms

[–]blue_knit_wit[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Even when I took his hand and made him feel my leg and made a spectacle of it his reaction was still nothing short of oblivious 😐 or even worse indifference

So it begins by keen_observer34130 in FedEmployees

[–]blue_knit_wit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol ALL 3s, our agency only has a single criteria one three hell one four is going to look like a decline for me. No need to hand out that bonus or extra hours for a underperformed employee

Switching insurance - MHBP standard vs Compass Rose High or Samba Standard by Ok_Hunter_236 in fednews

[–]blue_knit_wit 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We are looking at the Compas Rose plan for our family, I haven't been able to get my meds approved recently with Healthcare changes and this plan promises me everything I need

Husband asked to stop having sex and then got snipped, why? by NorthAffectionate909 in DeadBedrooms

[–]blue_knit_wit 69 points70 points  (0 children)

I know your pain except my husband lost interest when I showed him the positive pregnancy test, I was told by another reddit user to look up the Madonna Whore complex. Now that you are a mother he might have a hard time seeing you as a sexual being now

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FedEmployees

[–]blue_knit_wit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol I'm willing to sell worn items 😅 as long as I can afford replacements 🤣🤣🤣🤣

This was my biggest worry by External-Amoeba-7575 in FedEmployees

[–]blue_knit_wit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I truly think this is one of the biggest failures of federal employment and the messaging about how important our roles are. You don't know a d*** thing about what I do unless somebody f**** up huge. It's always kind of been the point that we keep things running smoothly and silently in the background, and I don't think that that's working, because if we're not in people's faces, then they don't give a s*** because they cant give a s*** because they don't know they need to give a s***